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Post by anxiousmom on Dec 31, 2020 18:34:08 GMT
The other thread about grandmother names got me thinking. Not that it’s happening anytime soon, but the boy and his girl of almost 9 years got a dog. Her mom already has a name for the grandpuppy to “call her.” The boy asked me what I wanted and I just didn’t even know.
My mom is a Mimi, I called my grandmother by her first name (I was a first grandchild and since that was her name apparently I insisted that I call her that too-so all the other grands followed.) My other grandmother was a meemaw.
I guess I want a name now so that when they do have a baby I will be ready. Or if they get another dog. lol
So what are you? What do you want to be? Am I weird for even using mental energy this way today? lol
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Post by bc2ca on Dec 31, 2020 18:41:31 GMT
I'm thinking I'll tag into DH's Greek heritage and go with yiayia since he'll probably want to be known as papou.
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Post by lisacharlotte on Dec 31, 2020 18:42:28 GMT
There are no grandchildren in my future but if there was I assume I would just be grandma. In my family is was always grandma + name to differentiate. We don’t do cutesy alternate names nor do we have cultural names. We’re boring like that. 😊
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Post by quinlove on Dec 31, 2020 18:43:05 GMT
Grandma. I picked it and love it. When my mother visited from out of state, my grandkids would call her great grandma. Then they would call me - regular grandma ! This was totally out of love and they took the word *great* to mean what it says.
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Post by ~summer~ on Dec 31, 2020 18:44:04 GMT
I plan to just be grandma - that’s what all the grandmas in my family are.
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Post by malibou on Dec 31, 2020 18:45:04 GMT
I've thought about this lots of times over the years. I'm hoping to be nana like all of the other grandmothers on my mom's side. But I do get that sometimes the grands have other ideas.
Ds didn't talk until he was nearly 4, so we named grandparents and got their approval. My in-laws liked grandma and grandpa, they are British. My mom is nana and my stepdad is papa. My biological dad is grandpa Belk and my step mom is grandma Jo. My step dad that raised me is gramps. And Ds nanny is called MarMar, a rift in the Danish word for your mother's mother, Mormor. It worked for us.I
ETA The great grandkids call my sisters "nana" and my mom "nana great". My stepdad 's mom died last Christmas day at 103. My Ds called her "nana max" because he thought "nana greatest" would hurt my mom's feelings since she would be just "nana" and "nana great" was for the great grandkids to use. Nana max loved her moniker so much she started making everyone, and I mean everyone, call her nana max.
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Post by sueg on Dec 31, 2020 18:45:25 GMT
I’m Oma - it is the German affectionate term for a grandmother. I am not German, but we have lived here for a while now and I just liked how it sounds.
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Post by julie5 on Dec 31, 2020 18:46:41 GMT
I was going to be a meemaw like my aunt. But my daughter won’t have anything to do with me so there’s tgAt. Baby is due in March.
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Post by austnscrapaddict on Dec 31, 2020 18:46:59 GMT
To Me- They all mean the same thing and I don't care what they call me. My oldest grandkids call me grandma Dawn( My first name) My youngest one calls me MiMi Dawn, because my DIL's mother decided that's what she wanted to be called. So, she's MiMi Michelle . I grew up calling my grandparents grandma and Grandpa and their last names.
My Best friend was a grandmother several years before me, she was adamant that she be called MiMi and NOT Grandma. I've always laughed at this, because in my mind, the names all mean the same thing. So being called a MiMi doesn't make me look or feel any younger than grandma. But If I were more vain I suppose it would stroke my own ego.
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Post by paget on Dec 31, 2020 18:47:43 GMT
In my family and dh’s it’s just grandma but I want something fun! No grandkids yet.
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Dec 31, 2020 18:47:45 GMT
I had a Granny and a Grandma (Last Name). The last name was due to my cousins having another Grandma so the last name was added for them to differentiate.
My mom was Nana and my dad was Pappy. He was Papaw to the other grands but since DH's dad was already Papaw we were going to call dad Papaw (first name). He was the one who suggested she call him Pappy. Funny thing is that DH's husband remained Papaw First Name.
With DD not even dating at this point who knows if/when I'll ever be a grandmother (and it's not something I ever really think about). However if/when it happens I have decided I will either be Gypsy or GG (for gypsy girl). My sister is Oma (we have Swiss German heritage) so that name was already taken.
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Post by Restless Spirit on Dec 31, 2020 18:48:22 GMT
I’m Grammie. By the time we moved the 1100 miles from Texas to be close to DD, SIL & grandson he was 3 yrs old. By then, he had been calling his other grandparent “grandma” like her other 6 grandkids. He just started calling me Grammie because he already had a ‘grandma’. (She saw him often because they only live 45 min away and had another grandchild that lived close by too). It’s all good because his other grandparents are really nice people. The grandson (he’s our only grandchild) will soon be 14 and still calls me Grammie.
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Post by ntsf on Dec 31, 2020 18:50:32 GMT
I just realized I never had this issue. one grandmother died before I was born, one grandmother lived 2000 miles from us and I saw her maybe 5-7 times in my life before she died when I was 11. It was a big deal for my mom to take a plane to go to funeral. (and she took my 1 yr old sister with her). I called her grandma when I spoke of her. my own kids lived 800 miles from grandparents..they never knew my mom as an adult. but called her grandma. they mostly call my husband's mom by her first name (she was never one to spoil them at all.)
I will never have grandkids.
so I vote for grandma.
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Post by mminia on Dec 31, 2020 18:53:55 GMT
I was Grandma Marcia to my first two (now ages 11 and 7). When their little brother came along, he decided to call me NayNay. His speech has always been delayed (he is now 4) but for some reason this was something he started all on his own and it was always spoken very clearly. The older two have now picked it up so I am mostly NayNay to all of them, except the 11 year old who still sometimes calls me Grandma. I love being NayNay because it is different and given to me by my little sweetie.
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Post by dawnnikol on Dec 31, 2020 18:55:19 GMT
My first born DD named my Mom & Dad, then when they each got married, we let the new spouses choose what they wanted to be called. DH's parents are just "Grandma and Grandpa surname". My brother's kids have picked up on the special names we have for my Dad & his wife, but just call my Mom & her husband "Grandma and Grandpa surname".
I'd never really thought about it and it was just natural when my (then) baby would call them their special names and they stuck.
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Post by gar on Dec 31, 2020 18:57:07 GMT
Until very recently my Grandson had a great Nanny and a great Grandma as well as myself and his other grandmother so I avoided them and went with Nanna. I toyed with things like Nona, mimi etc but was shouted down by my DD and SIL because they said it sounded like female private parts
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Post by jeremysgirl on Dec 31, 2020 18:58:59 GMT
I want to be Gigi. Short for Grandma G(last name).
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Post by M in Carolina on Dec 31, 2020 19:02:54 GMT
I won't be having grandkids, but I'm already an Aunt Mimi.
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Post by Basket1lady on Dec 31, 2020 19:08:45 GMT
I’m still years away from this decision, but I think if like to be Mimi or Gigi.
For us, it was easier to come up with different names. My parents were Boppa and Grammy. My in-laws started out as grandma and grandpa, but DD renamed FIL Poppy when she started talking. I have the sweetest video of DD cupping FIl’s face and babbling to him and you can clearly hear her saying Poppy.
But it didn’t end like that, as my 20+ year old kids have reverted back to grandma and grandpa for all 4. I didn’t reinforce the names when we lived overseas and when we moved back, the kids used grandma and grandpa to identify them. Then the regular names stuck.
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Post by padresfan619 on Dec 31, 2020 19:09:52 GMT
My parents are Grammie and Grandpa. My in-laws are Baba, Granddad and Grandma.
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Post by krcrafts on Dec 31, 2020 19:10:03 GMT
I just became a grandmother in November and I’m Grammy and dh is Poppa. Her other gm is Mimi.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Dec 31, 2020 19:10:11 GMT
I only had one grandma growing up because the other one passed away before I was born. The one I had was just Grandma. My mom went by Granny mostly, but some of the grandkids called her Grandma (firstname). My kid has no living grandparents, but she has a few surrogates that she calls Grandma (firstname) and Grandpa (firstname). I guess I really don’t care what name any future grandchild might call me as long as it’s said with love.
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Post by ashley on Dec 31, 2020 19:11:17 GMT
My aunt is a Mormor... and recently my grandmother (my aunt’s mother) commented on Facebook that she was glad to see a new Mormor around again, writing: Which made me angry for the past but also appreciative of all the Mormors out there, and also glad my grandma is a 93 year old lady who writes “Yay girl”.
So maybe I will be a Mormor one day.
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Post by maryland on Dec 31, 2020 19:14:08 GMT
About 6 yrs. ago my daughter went to a dance recital of her friend and brought the program home. Parents, friends, grandparents can write a note to the kid and have it in the program. I was making fun of the names many grandparents were called. So, my kids decided to call me "memaw" and my husband "peepaw".
They haven't called us mom or dad since. So I'm at the store with my 10 yr. old and she is calling me "memaw"! Obviously I am not fond of my name! They also call us "tootsie and chocho". And their boyfriends call us memaw and pepaw too. So if my daughters have kids at some point, I will tell them to call us mom and dad and they can call their parents those cutsie grandparent names!
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Post by beachbum on Dec 31, 2020 19:16:02 GMT
I had a Gran and a Nana. I spent more time with my Gran, so that's what I wanted my grands to call me. Funny thing, Gran called me by my first 2 initials, CJ. No one else ever called me that. When oldest DD was expecting her 2nd and found out the gender she told me the name... his initials are CJ! So now I have my own CJ . The other grandmother to 3 of my 4 grands is Gammy. I have a friend who is called Lovey by her grands. My DH didn't want to be called Grandpa or Papa. Our kids heard him called Judge by people in town so the oldest joked that Judge would be his grandfather name. That stuck, so he'll be Judge forever! This is one 'job' he doesn't want to retire from!
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Post by Merge on Dec 31, 2020 19:26:16 GMT
My mom was Grandma and MIL is Nana. My kids have told me I will not be Nana because there will never be another one like her! (They were very young when my mom died and don’t really have any memories of her.)
I don’t like Grandma for me, so I’ll probably be Mimi or something like that. Many years down the road, of course!
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Post by stormsts on Dec 31, 2020 19:27:11 GMT
I’m Nan to my grandkids. My mother is Nanny to them so they just shortened that for me. My DH is Pa and my dad became Big Pa.
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Post by underwatermama on Dec 31, 2020 19:29:09 GMT
I’m Oma - it is the German affectionate term for a grandmother. I am not German, but we have lived here for a while now and I just liked how it sounds. My Mom goes by Omi. Not sure if I'll do the same or not when that time eventually gets here.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Dec 31, 2020 19:31:31 GMT
Baba which is Ukrainian for Granny and affectionate for Grandma in Japanese.
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Post by gar on Dec 31, 2020 19:35:15 GMT
I want to be Gigi. Short for Grandma G(last name). My mum in law is Nanny GG/GiGi - stands for Great Grandmother 😊
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