katybee
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Post by katybee on Sept 4, 2021 0:23:19 GMT
We just found out that my brother’s cancer has progressed in a major way….there are several new lesions in his liver and one is pretty large. His doctor said he will get very sick very quickly. I am devastated. I’ve been expecting this. He’s had cancer for 10 years. But I’m still not prepared. He’s my best friend. Truly. I cannot imagine life without his stupid jokes. We talk every day. I don’t think I can handle losing one more person I love. I’m tired of being strong. My older brother is so much more even tempered and pragmatic about it all. I wish I could be.  i fucking hate life right now |
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Post by sawwhet on Sept 4, 2021 0:28:00 GMT
I'm so sorry  My thoughts are with you and your family. |
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Post by stumpedagainof3 on Sept 4, 2021 0:29:36 GMT
Awww. I'm so sorry.
Cancer does suck!!!!
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Post by mnmloveli on Sept 4, 2021 0:29:45 GMT
I’m so very sorry about your brother’s bad news. I will keep you in my thoughts.
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Post by stampnscrap1128 on Sept 4, 2021 0:29:49 GMT
I am so very sorry. Gentle hugs of comfort to you.
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Sept 4, 2021 0:29:55 GMT
We just found out that my brother’s cancer has progressed in a major way….there are several new lesions in his liver and one is pretty large. His doctor said he will get very sick very quickly. I am devastated. I’ve been expecting this. He’s had cancer for 10 years. But I’m still not prepared. He’s my best friend. Truly. I cannot imagine life without his stupid jokes. We talk every day. I don’t think I can handle losing one more person I love. I’m tired of being strong. My older brother is so much more even tempered and pragmatic about it all. I wish I could be. i fucking hate life right now I am so sorry about your brother. Prayers for you both. And I agree. I hate life right now as well. |
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Kerri W
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Post by Kerri W on Sept 4, 2021 0:36:36 GMT
I'm so sorry. (((Hugs)))
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Post by freecharlie on Sept 4, 2021 0:39:28 GMT
We just found out that my brother’s cancer has progressed in a major way….there are several new lesions in his liver and one is pretty large. His doctor said he will get very sick very quickly. I am devastated. I’ve been expecting this. He’s had cancer for 10 years. But I’m still not prepared. He’s my best friend. Truly. I cannot imagine life without his stupid jokes. We talk every day. I don’t think I can handle losing one more person I love. I’m tired of being strong. My older brother is so much more even tempered and pragmatic about it all. I wish I could be. i fucking hate life right now I'm so very sorry to hear this. I will keep you all in my thoughts |
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Post by bc2ca on Sept 4, 2021 0:39:36 GMT
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Post by christine58 on Sept 4, 2021 0:39:50 GMT
I am so sorry
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Post by hookturnian on Sept 4, 2021 0:40:09 GMT
I am so sorry.
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Post by Lexica on Sept 4, 2021 0:40:57 GMT
I am so sorry your brother got this news. I am one of the lucky ones in that my son's cancer was cured. I hoped at that time that I would live long enough to be around when cancer was completely wiped from the planet. I haven't given up on that hope yet. I will be keeping you in my thoughts.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 4, 2021 0:42:08 GMT
We just found out that my brother’s cancer has progressed in a major way….there are several new lesions in his liver and one is pretty large. His doctor said he will get very sick very quickly. I am devastated. I’ve been expecting this. He’s had cancer for 10 years. But I’m still not prepared. He’s my best friend. Truly. I cannot imagine life without his stupid jokes. We talk every day. I don’t think I can handle losing one more person I love. I’m tired of being strong. My older brother is so much more even tempered and pragmatic about it all. I wish I could be. i fucking hate life right now I'm so very sorry!! Gosh, how strange-----------I could say almost the EXACT same thing for DH, except that he also now has bone cancer. This is also progressing very quickly and he's already in a lot of pain. We didn't expect this. He was cancer free for 8 months and this new cancer (liver and bone) came out of nowhere, not related to his past bladder/prostate cancer. I'm not prepared........... I'm so sorry that you're in the same boat. DH also tells jokes (he was a magician and comedian)... I can't think of life without him. He's my true love. I just can't....... Gary is also calm, sweet and a believer in his Christian faith. I'm more mad and selfish right now.
I'm here if you want to talk, depending on his daily emergencies lately. Hang in there........... I'm so sorry. xoxo
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Post by Deleted on Sept 4, 2021 0:42:31 GMT
I am so sorry, katybee. Life is completely unfair and unloving except where we love and care about each other. I am sending thoughts to you and your family for health and happiness. |
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Post by snowsilver on Sept 4, 2021 0:45:01 GMT
I can relate. I lost my own brother to cancer. He and I were the oldest of the siblings and we shared a lot in common. His cancer was the result of his Navy career and the exposures from the ships he served on. Although the Navy made a substantial settlement that was of little comfort to his widow and to his family who loved him so much. He's been gone several years now and I still can't figure out how he made his magnificent fruit salad (the best I've ever had) even though he told me in detail. Mine never comes out like his.
You have had a tough row lately, Katy and know that I care and that I understand.
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Post by sasha on Sept 4, 2021 0:45:59 GMT
I'm so sorry. I cannot imagine what you and your brother are going through. Sending hugs.
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Post by dewryce on Sept 4, 2021 0:52:23 GMT
Oh honey I’m so sorry that really, really sucks. (((hugs)))
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Post by iteach3rdgrade on Sept 4, 2021 0:55:02 GMT
I'm sorry!!
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Post by jenjie on Sept 4, 2021 0:58:45 GMT
Oh no I’m so sorry. 😔 praying for you both.
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Post by Skellinton on Sept 4, 2021 0:59:32 GMT
I am sorry. Cancer sucks.
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Post by katlaw on Sept 4, 2021 1:00:00 GMT
I am so sorry. Losing a sibling is so hard.
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Post by katlady on Sept 4, 2021 1:00:07 GMT
I am so sorry! Hugs!!
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Post by elaine on Sept 4, 2021 1:09:38 GMT
I’m so sorry, Katy. (((Hugs)))
Cancer sucks.
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Post by stormsts on Sept 4, 2021 1:11:30 GMT
I am so sorry!
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katybee
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Post by katybee on Sept 4, 2021 1:13:02 GMT
We just found out that my brother’s cancer has progressed in a major way….there are several new lesions in his liver and one is pretty large. His doctor said he will get very sick very quickly. I am devastated. I’ve been expecting this. He’s had cancer for 10 years. But I’m still not prepared. He’s my best friend. Truly. I cannot imagine life without his stupid jokes. We talk every day. I don’t think I can handle losing one more person I love. I’m tired of being strong. My older brother is so much more even tempered and pragmatic about it all. I wish I could be. i fucking hate life right now I'm so very sorry!! Gosh, how strange-----------I could say almost the EXACT same thing for DH, except that he also now has bone cancer. This is also progressing very quickly and he's already in a lot of pain. We didn't expect this. He was cancer free for 8 months and this new cancer (liver and bone) came out of nowhere, not related to his past bladder/prostate cancer. I'm not prepared........... I'm so sorry that you're in the same boat. DH also tells jokes (he was a magician and comedian)... I can't think of life without him. He's my true love. I just can't....... Gary is also calm, sweet and a believer in his Christian faith. I'm more mad and selfish right now.
I'm here if you want to talk, depending on his daily emergencies lately. Hang in there........... I'm so sorry. xoxo
I’m so sorry for you and your husband, too. It seems so unfair that he would beat one cancer just to get another. My brother’s cancer is in his bones, adrenal gland, lungs, lymph nodes, pituitary gland….but it’s been kept very well in check by his chemo. But these liver lesions are brand new and the adrenal tumor has grown. These are all metastasis of his original kidney cancer. I’ll be thinking about you and your husband. ❤️ |
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Post by papersilly on Sept 4, 2021 1:13:22 GMT
Sorry about your brother.
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purplebee
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Post by purplebee on Sept 4, 2021 1:13:54 GMT
So sorry to hear this. Hugs…
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Post by Crack-a-lackin on Sept 4, 2021 1:18:40 GMT
I’m so sorry. That really sucks.
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tamra
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Post by tamra on Sept 4, 2021 1:25:30 GMT
I’m so sorry.
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Post by flanz on Sept 4, 2021 1:31:50 GMT
Oh, Katy, I'm so very sorry.
It sounds like your beloved brother has been through the wringer, working hard to keep on living and squeezing every bit of time possible to stay with you and other loved ones.
Cancer fucking sucks!
(((( hugs ))))
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My thoughts are with you and your family. 
