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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2022 5:18:02 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by cawoman on Feb 14, 2022 5:19:12 GMT
Oh no, I'm so sorry for you and your kids. I hope you have a good friend or two to lean on. Hugs.
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garcia5050
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Post by garcia5050 on Feb 14, 2022 5:22:11 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by mom on Feb 14, 2022 5:23:37 GMT
I am so incredibly sorry.
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Post by marmargirl on Feb 14, 2022 5:25:48 GMT
I am so, so sorry. 💔
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TXMary
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And so many nights I just dream of the ocean. God, I wish I was sailin' again.
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Post by TXMary on Feb 14, 2022 5:31:50 GMT
I am so very sorry for your loss. Sudden death is so incredibly difficult on those left behind. I am sending you hugs and keeping you in my prayers.
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Post by scrapbookwriter on Feb 14, 2022 5:52:53 GMT
I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you.
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Post by marie on Feb 14, 2022 5:53:40 GMT
I am so very sorry about the loss of your husband. I know that a sudden loss can be so shocking. Take one day, one hour at a time. Keeping you in my thoughts.
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Post by quinlove on Feb 14, 2022 6:02:23 GMT
I am so very sorry about the loss of your dear husband. I truly hope that you can feel all the love that the peas are sending to you. ❤️
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rodeomom
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Post by rodeomom on Feb 14, 2022 6:05:13 GMT
Oh no! I'm so sorry.
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Post by auntiepeas on Feb 14, 2022 6:11:55 GMT
I’m so sorry, I can’t imagine the shock and pain you must be feeling. Sending you gentle hugs.
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Post by twinks on Feb 14, 2022 6:12:28 GMT
Sending you and your family my sincere condolences.
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Post by Crack-a-lackin on Feb 14, 2022 6:13:23 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss. I can tell from what you wrote that you had a special, loving relationship.
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muggins
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Post by muggins on Feb 14, 2022 6:17:22 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss:( Gentle hugs to you. Many peas have been through this and I’m sure they will help you navigate your way through.
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Chinagirl828
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Jun 28, 2014 6:28:53 GMT
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Post by Chinagirl828 on Feb 14, 2022 6:26:14 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by Ryann on Feb 14, 2022 6:32:59 GMT
I’m so very sorry for the loss of your husband.
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Post by lucyg on Feb 14, 2022 6:37:36 GMT
Your post made me cry.
You are not alone. I lost my husband suddenly at 40, and there are other peas who have been widowed, unexpectedly or not, way too young. I’m sure any of us would feel honored to virtually hold your hand when you need to talk to a friend.
How do you get through this? One step at a time. For a while, every day will bring a new challenge. Then things will get easier for a while, then life will get crazy again. You don’t owe anyone anything, and you and your kids need to come first while you’re getting on your feet again. One day at a time. Sometimes one minute at a time.
PM me anytime.
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Post by Eddie-n-Harley on Feb 14, 2022 6:43:08 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by putabuttononit on Feb 14, 2022 7:06:00 GMT
What a horrible shock to absorb. I read every word, imagining your roller coaster of emotions. This isn’t fair. I’m so sad for you and your family. Remember that grief is very unique and personal. Let yourself feel and do whatever helps or comforts YOU. Don’t let anyone dictate grief to you. I’m so sorry this has happened.
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moodyblue
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Post by moodyblue on Feb 14, 2022 7:08:12 GMT
I know too well what it’s like to lose the most important person in your life. And way too young. I am so sorry.
You are in shock and the trauma is very real. Honestly, one of the things that helped the most for me was to talk to others who had lost their husbands. They understood in ways that other people could not. But still, even with support, it’s a rough road, and so much of it seems surreal.
You try to just breathe and do what you can when you can. Understand that grief is exhausting, widow brain is a real thing, and anything you are thinking and feeling is okay. There are lots of us here who understand and will try to help.
PM me for anything, any time.
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valincal
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Jun 27, 2014 2:21:22 GMT
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Post by valincal on Feb 14, 2022 7:09:37 GMT
What a terrible shock…I’m so sorry for your loss. My condolences.
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Post by Legacy Girl on Feb 14, 2022 7:21:49 GMT
My deepest sympathy and prayers to you in the tragic loss of your husband. May sweet memories bring you and your children comfort in the weeks and months to come.
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Post by jameynz on Feb 14, 2022 7:59:12 GMT
I am so so sorry for your loss….my thoughts are with you and your families
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Post by gillyp on Feb 14, 2022 8:06:00 GMT
What a dreadful shock for you and your family. I am so very sorry you are having to cope with your dear husband’s unexpected passing. Your friendship and love for him is so clear in your post.
It’s frightening the speed with which one’s normal life can suddenly be overturned. I hope you have someone to support you close at hand; the Peas will always be here to help too.
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Post by *sprout* on Feb 14, 2022 8:33:43 GMT
I am so very sorry for your loss. Prayers are with you and your family.
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Post by gar on Feb 14, 2022 8:56:29 GMT
Oh how utterly dreadful! I can hear the wonderful relationship you clearly had in your words and I am just so sorry you have to deal with this momentous loss ((hugs))
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joelise
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Post by joelise on Feb 14, 2022 9:35:33 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss. What an awful shock for you and your family, it sounds like you had a lovely relationship.
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PLurker
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Post by PLurker on Feb 14, 2022 9:40:00 GMT
That was a difficult yet touching thing to read. I'm so sorry that is your story. I can't imagine. Hugs to you.
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Post by SAHM wannabe on Feb 14, 2022 9:47:15 GMT
I am so sorry.
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Post by KelleeM on Feb 14, 2022 9:58:46 GMT
Your post made me cry. You are not alone. I lost my husband suddenly at 40, and there are other peas who have been widowed, unexpectedly or not, way too young. I’m sure any of us would feel honored to virtually hold your hand when you need to talk to a friend. How do you get through this? One step at a time. For a while, every day will bring a new challenge. Then things will get easier for a while, then life will get crazy again. You don’t owe anyone anything, and you and your kids need to come first while you’re getting on your feet again. One day at a time. Sometimes one minute at a time. PM me anytime. Exactly what lucyg said. I was 57 and my husband was 72. He spent 72 hours in ICU and was gone. I am here for you. I’ll send you my phone number if you want to talk or text. It’s been over two years and my life is still upside down. There are days that I still cry for hours and days when it’s almost okay. Please reach out…unfortunately, there are a growing number of widows amongst us.
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