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Post by Bridget in MD on Apr 21, 2023 14:21:13 GMT
Merge, I am so sorry to read this. I don't have any experience with this but I know a mama'a heart. I am sending love and hugs to you. And your girl! I couldnt say this any better, but I am thinking of you both!
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Post by marmargirl on Apr 21, 2023 14:22:28 GMT
Sending you and your family love ❤️
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hutchfan
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Post by hutchfan on Apr 21, 2023 14:23:30 GMT
Sending you hugs, saying prayers.
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Post by gizzy on Apr 21, 2023 14:26:17 GMT
I'm so glad you were there to get her to the hospital. Even though this is the best place for her right now, it still makes your mama heart feel fear. My thoughts are with you both.
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Post by bratkar on Apr 21, 2023 14:26:26 GMT
I am sending you and your daughter HUGS
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Post by cadoodlebug on Apr 21, 2023 14:29:06 GMT
I am so sorry.
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anniebeth24
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Post by anniebeth24 on Apr 21, 2023 14:30:55 GMT
Praying for strength and wisdom for you, as well as comfort and healing for your girl. So sorry.
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Post by femalebusiness on Apr 21, 2023 14:32:00 GMT
Aww merge, I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts.
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christinec68
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Post by christinec68 on Apr 21, 2023 14:34:56 GMT
Sending good thoughts and gentle hugs to you and your family.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Apr 21, 2023 14:43:52 GMT
So very sorry Merge. May your DD get the help she needs and accept it. Hugs for all your family!
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Rhondito
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Post by Rhondito on Apr 21, 2023 14:49:46 GMT
My mama heart hurts for you and I hope for a good outcome for your daughter through this rough patch.
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pantsonfire
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Post by pantsonfire on Apr 21, 2023 14:53:58 GMT
Lots of hugs coming your way. Being a long term in patient mom for ds (not for mental health) I learned it us so important to take care of you, your mind, your video, your spirit so that you can be there for your kids. So remember to take care of you too. It will help your dd. ❤
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Post by peace on Apr 21, 2023 14:54:23 GMT
I'm so very sorry.
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Post by mayceesgranny on Apr 21, 2023 14:56:54 GMT
So sorry you are going through this. Thoughts and prayers being sent your way.
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Post by liya on Apr 21, 2023 14:58:56 GMT
I am so sorry. I don't really know what to say but know I am crying with you and loving your daughter with you.
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Post by scraphappy0501 on Apr 21, 2023 14:59:35 GMT
I'm so sorry! As a mom, my heart is just breaking for you. I'm glad your DD is safe and that you are with her. Both of you will be in my prayers.
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Post by wholarmor on Apr 21, 2023 15:07:00 GMT
I'm so sorry. I'm glad she wasn't successful. We just had a student at our university who was successful. I hope she gets the help she needs! Wish I had more words of wisdom. If she isn't allowed to finish classes, you'll probably need to get POA, so you can talk to the university about what to do.
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Post by snowsilver on Apr 21, 2023 15:08:04 GMT
You have faced a lot in your life, Merge. I'm so so sorry you are facing another hill to climb. But you are a good mother and you love her. That's what matters. I'm sending as many hugs as long-distance will allow.
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huskergal
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Post by huskergal on Apr 21, 2023 15:10:59 GMT
I am so sorry. I have no words of wisdom and can't imagine how hard this is for all of you. I hope she gets the help she needs. Sending cyber hugs your way.
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dawnnikol
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Post by dawnnikol on Apr 21, 2023 15:11:13 GMT
I'm so sorry and I'm sending nothing but good thoughts to you and your family.
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pudgygroundhog
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Post by pudgygroundhog on Apr 21, 2023 15:25:27 GMT
Oh Merge, how scary. I'm so sorry. I don't have any advice, but am sending good thoughts your way. I'm glad she is some place where she can get help.
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valincal
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Post by valincal on Apr 21, 2023 15:39:17 GMT
I’m so sorry and heartbroken for you. 😔
I hope she gets the help she needs and is feeling better soon. Sending positive thoughts. Take care.
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Post by destined2bmom on Apr 21, 2023 15:44:51 GMT
I am so sorry for your daughter and you. tmarschall’s advice is great. My son is finishing his Junior year and this last semester has been tough for him. A lot of studying and pressure.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Apr 21, 2023 15:45:40 GMT
What a heartbreaking and frightening experience. I hope she gets all the help she needs, and you get the support you need. Sending a hug to you both.
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Post by scrapmaven on Apr 21, 2023 15:51:02 GMT
Merge, my mama heart is breaking for you. Though, I know that your dd is in the best place and I'm hoping that she'll be transferred to a treatment center that can help her to learn to thrive. You have a lot of people here in your corner who are here to listen and hold your hand as you take care of your daughter. Meanwhile, does your daughter have a special needs counselor at college whom you can contact in order to arrange incompletes, so that your dd can graduate next fall?
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Post by epeanymous on Apr 21, 2023 15:52:52 GMT
I'm so sorry...this is heartbreaking. For what it is worth, I'm a college professor and this is a really tough time for students getting ready to graduate. Even the most stable ones. One of my dearest students...perfectionist but vulnerable, and also bipolar, had a crisis a few weeks ago. I was very scared for her when I could not reach her. She was hospitalized, but just for 4 days or so. If she needs to be somewhere safe to get things sorted out, please reach out/get her to reach out to her advisor. You shouldn't have to share details. I know it's not great timing. But we can work with things like this to preserve her ability to finish. So you both can concentrate on getting her better. There's a lot of fear and uncertainty around finishing the degree, what comes next, pressure to succeed. Maybe this doesn't apply here but it is a common these. Sending love to you both. I am also currently helping with a former student who is a few weeks from graduation and having a similar crisis. I really do think that this is a period of time that puts a lot of stress on students who have underlying mental health issues, and I am so sorry, Merge, that your daughter is in this position. I am glad she is safe and cared for, and am sending all the support I can.
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Post by KikiPea on Apr 21, 2023 16:02:47 GMT
Oh, @merge, I am so sad to read this. I have no words or advice, but please know that both of you are in my prayers. Big hugs!
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Post by Darcy Collins on Apr 21, 2023 16:03:31 GMT
I'm so so sorry!
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The Great Carpezio
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Post by The Great Carpezio on Apr 21, 2023 16:05:45 GMT
I don't have the words or any insight, but I hope she can find a way through this and you are all in my thoughts.
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chendra
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Post by chendra on Apr 21, 2023 16:17:47 GMT
I am so sorry.
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