snyder
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Posts: 3,947
Location: Colorado
Apr 26, 2017 6:14:47 GMT
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Post by snyder on Apr 21, 2023 16:18:12 GMT
Big {{{Hug}}} It is so heart breaking for a mother to see their kids stuggle and especially at this level. I will pray she rally arounds and gets the help she needs to stay on the path to a successful life full of blessings.
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Post by christine58 on Apr 21, 2023 16:26:01 GMT
Merge. Lots of great advice here. If you can stay, do it. It will mean a lot to her at some point.
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Post by stampnscrap1128 on Apr 21, 2023 16:28:38 GMT
I'm so sorry for both of you. Please know that all of us Peas are with you in spirit in that waiting room. We are surrounding you and your daughter with love, hugs, prayers, and support.
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Post by Zee on Apr 21, 2023 16:29:32 GMT
I'm so sorry 😔 sending healing thoughts/prayers/support
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MDscrapaholic
Drama Llama
Posts: 6,347
Location: Down by the bay....
Jun 25, 2014 20:49:07 GMT
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Apr 21, 2023 16:29:51 GMT
I don’t have any advice but am sending good thoughts and prayers up for you and your daughter. Hoping the medical staff there is able to help you both make good decisions on what is next. ((Hugs))
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Post by Lurkingpea on Apr 21, 2023 16:33:41 GMT
No advice. Just warmest thoughts. Prayers. Cyber hugs. I am so sorry.
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Post by Lexica on Apr 21, 2023 16:34:39 GMT
I have no experience with this, but as a fellow mother, my heart is with you.
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cakediva
Drama Llama
Making the world a sweeter place one cake at a time!
Posts: 7,431
Location: Fergus, Ontario
Jun 26, 2014 11:53:40 GMT
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Post by cakediva on Apr 21, 2023 16:36:39 GMT
Sending all the hugs….
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Post by lainey on Apr 21, 2023 16:57:43 GMT
I'm so sorry, sending love and hugs and positive healing thoughts.
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Post by KelleeM on Apr 21, 2023 17:00:21 GMT
Sending good thoughts and hugs.
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TXMary
Pearl Clutcher
And so many nights I just dream of the ocean. God, I wish I was sailin' again.
Posts: 2,805
Jun 26, 2014 17:25:06 GMT
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Post by TXMary on Apr 21, 2023 17:12:46 GMT
I am so sorry. Sending prayers and positive thoughts. So glad she is in a place where she can hopefully get the help she needs. Take care of yourself too. Hugs.
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Post by compeateropeator on Apr 21, 2023 17:13:17 GMT
I am so sorry. Sending positive thoughts and hugs.
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Apr 21, 2023 17:15:58 GMT
So very sorry. Parenting can be so dang hard!
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kokomo37
Full Member
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Apr 17, 2022 21:03:36 GMT
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Post by kokomo37 on Apr 21, 2023 17:30:35 GMT
So sorry you are both going thru this. Know she is in the best place she can be. Unfortunately, at times like this they are able to understand what they are also putting their loved ones in. If she did she would never have attempted this. Be there for her when you can but also take the time for self care knowing that she is in a safe place. Hugs to all!
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Post by auntiepeas on Apr 21, 2023 17:40:37 GMT
I'm so sorry. Sending you good thoughts and gentle hugs.
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jayfab
Drama Llama
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Posts: 5,521
Jun 26, 2014 21:55:15 GMT
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Post by jayfab on Apr 21, 2023 17:45:13 GMT
I'm so sorry. My heart hurts for you and your daughter. Sending good vibes and hugs.
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Post by busy on Apr 21, 2023 17:46:34 GMT
I am so so sorry. ❤️❤️❤️
I don’t have any advice but will say I was in a very similar place midway through my senior year in college. There were some very difficult years. It hasn’t been a linear path of continual improvement, but fast forward 30 years and my mental health is well-controlled, I have a happy life and family, a career I love, and most of all… I’m still here. I wouldn’t have believed that back then. I wish the same for your daughter.
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Post by lucyg on Apr 21, 2023 17:54:41 GMT
I am so, so sorry. Much love to you and to her. I hope she can recover and move on to a better place mentally and emotionally.
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Post by FrozenPea on Apr 21, 2023 18:12:33 GMT
I am so sorry.
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Post by GamGam on Apr 21, 2023 18:16:14 GMT
I am truly sorry. And I pray for healing for her and hope for her future. Take care.
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RedSquirrelUK
Drama Llama
Posts: 6,733
Location: The UK's beautiful West Country
Aug 2, 2014 13:03:45 GMT
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Apr 21, 2023 18:21:57 GMT
Hugs from me too for the distress that you are all in at the moment. It will get better.
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Post by Ryann on Apr 21, 2023 18:26:32 GMT
I'm so sorry. No advice but lots of warm wishes for clarity, peace and wellness. Thinking of you, your daughter and the rest of your family.
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Post by stumpedagainof3 on Apr 21, 2023 18:37:23 GMT
Hugs to you and your daughter. Mental health issues have been the toughest part of being a parent. Our hands are tied and we can only hope they can see a future for themselves.
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Sue
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 3,234
Location: SE of Portland, Oregon
Jun 26, 2014 18:42:33 GMT
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Post by Sue on Apr 21, 2023 18:38:26 GMT
I'm so very sorry for your daughter and for you also. It's gratifying to know she's being well cared for by professionals who will provide support and knowledge as you decide the best steps forward for her. Keeping you in my prayers.
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mlcmom
Junior Member
Posts: 94
Nov 11, 2015 3:45:19 GMT
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Post by mlcmom on Apr 21, 2023 18:52:47 GMT
I'm really sorry that you and your family are dealing with this. I have experienced some of the same mental and physical health struggles with my kids. I know the fear and worries can be overwhelming but try to focus on the fact that she is/ will be getting help to get her back to where she needs to be. If she needs to delay graduation, maybe that will help to take some of the pressure off of her until she begins to feel better. Prayers for comfort and peace for all of you- and know that you have lots of Mamas here to listen and support you while you're dealing with this. Huge hugs for you as you go thru this and prayers that you feel surrounded by our love and hope!
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Post by katlady on Apr 21, 2023 19:05:29 GMT
I am so sorry! Sending you and your daughter healing thoughts and hugs.
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Post by fiddlesticks on Apr 21, 2023 19:08:46 GMT
Oh, I am so so sorry. I truly can’t imagine. I will have you and your DD in my thoughts. I’m glad she is still here. And I hope she can get to a place she can feel like way too.
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Post by PenandInk on Apr 21, 2023 19:08:55 GMT
Merge, you sent me support a few weeks ago regarding my struggles with my borderline child, and I appreciate that message more than you’ll ever know. Lifting you up today in support and understanding. It’s such a relief that she got to the ER in time, and now, hopefully, she will find support services that help her heal. I wish I could drive right over and sit with you, but know we are all sending virtual love and hugs. If you need to vent or just cry, please don’t hesitate to post or send a message.
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Anita
Drama Llama
Posts: 5,645
Location: Kansas City -ish
Jun 27, 2014 2:38:58 GMT
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Post by Anita on Apr 21, 2023 19:09:54 GMT
I'm so sorry.
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Post by belgravia on Apr 21, 2023 19:10:16 GMT
I cant offer any wisdom but I just wanted to let you know that I’m so sorry, and my heart goes out to you and your daughter. Sending wishes for healing and better days to come.
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