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Post by mom2rjcr on Jan 2, 2024 22:27:04 GMT
Tomorrow we go to the oncologist to find out DH's results. Please let us have some good news for a change. Thank you all so much!
Update: DH has stage 4 indolent lymphoma. It is totally treatable. It is stage 4 because he has active lymph nodes above and below the diaphragm. He needs to go get a PET scan and bone marrow test so that they can target his treatment even better. He will need at least 6 rounds of chemo.
One of the worst parts of this, is that DH has NO health insurance since he lost his job last year. It is too late to add him on mine at this point. I really regret not adding him on mine when I could.
I called my dad to let him know how it went today. I also asked him for a loan but I was told that we were just going to have to figure it out on our own. My dad does have the money to help us, but my mom doesn't want him to help us. (She is a narcissistic bitch, but that's another story). We have gone through our savings and don't have a penny left.
DH starts his new job next week, but there are no benefits with it, since he will be on a year contract.
Yes, we will figure it out, but some of these tests have to be down right now.
Sorry, for the rant and whine.
Thank you all so much for prayers, thoughts, and good juju!
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katybee
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Post by katybee on Jan 2, 2024 22:28:47 GMT
I believe in juju! Sending lots!
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Post by crazy4scraps on Jan 2, 2024 22:36:08 GMT
Sending all kinds of good thoughts your way! Fingers crossed for your DH that his results are good.
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Post by gillyp on Jan 2, 2024 22:38:29 GMT
Many good thoughts on their way!
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Post by fiddlesticks on Jan 2, 2024 22:55:47 GMT
They are on their way! I hope you get great news!
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ellemkay
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Post by ellemkay on Jan 2, 2024 23:00:08 GMT
Sending you all the very best thoughts.
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Post by gar on Jan 2, 2024 23:05:16 GMT
Crossing everything for you 🤞🤞
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Post by lisae on Jan 2, 2024 23:06:34 GMT
Hope you get good news. Hugs.
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Post by mom on Jan 2, 2024 23:11:24 GMT
Oh I am going to pray for all of you! Check back in when you get the results!
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Post by papersilly on Jan 2, 2024 23:12:51 GMT
wishing your DH the best possible outcome for his results.
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Post by KikiPea on Jan 2, 2024 23:23:40 GMT
You are both being lifted up in prayer. Praying for good news! If the answer is not as hoped, may you get the answers needed to move forward with a plan of attack.
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christinec68
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Post by christinec68 on Jan 2, 2024 23:24:39 GMT
Sending prayers 🙏
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snyder
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Post by snyder on Jan 2, 2024 23:25:39 GMT
Praying for positive results! {{{hugs}}}
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Post by Neisey on Jan 2, 2024 23:27:04 GMT
Sending positive thoughts your way!
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Post by baslp on Jan 2, 2024 23:46:03 GMT
Sending positive thoughts your way
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Post by monicad on Jan 2, 2024 23:54:52 GMT
Super positive juju and good thoughts sent!!
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scrappinmama
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Post by scrappinmama on Jan 2, 2024 23:57:10 GMT
Sending prayers and positive vibes out into the universe!
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Jan 2, 2024 23:57:38 GMT
Wishing for the very best outcome!
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TXMary
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Post by TXMary on Jan 2, 2024 23:57:55 GMT
Sending prayers for good news!!
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Post by dewryce on Jan 3, 2024 0:04:01 GMT
Absolutely, will be thinking of you both and hoping for the best outcome!
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Post by stormsts on Jan 3, 2024 0:12:28 GMT
Sending you positive thoughts!
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kkrewtea
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Post by kkrewtea on Jan 3, 2024 0:23:47 GMT
🙏🙏🙏
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Post by epeanymous on Jan 3, 2024 0:43:26 GMT
I will be sending positive thoughts!
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Post by flanz on Jan 3, 2024 0:55:35 GMT
Wishing him, and you, the best possible news!
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janeinbama
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Post by janeinbama on Jan 3, 2024 2:02:42 GMT
Will be praying for you guys.
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Post by Basket1lady on Jan 3, 2024 2:04:40 GMT
Sending good thoughts!
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Post by brynn on Jan 3, 2024 2:14:55 GMT
Hoping for best outcome.
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Post by scrapmaven on Jan 3, 2024 2:39:55 GMT
I'm Sending thoughts and prayers for the best news for your dh.
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Post by worrywart on Jan 3, 2024 2:50:22 GMT
Sending positive thoughts for the best possible news (((hugs)))
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Jan 3, 2024 3:04:56 GMT
Sending positive thoughts your way!
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