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Post by Drew on Apr 11, 2016 21:34:19 GMT
I received an accidental 2am text from DH while he was away on business last week, professing his adoration for an apparent new love interest. I have an appointment with an attorney on Wednesday. Don't say you're sorry -- this is a good thing. A validating thing. I had already found him doing other deal-breaking things. I feel relieved, and happier than I've been in months. I think he'll be paying more attention to his texts lol.
UPDATE
Met with an attorney, getting a divorce. The 3 kids, 2 dogs, and I are getting on the road and moving to my hometown (Phoenix) next Sunday. He will visit one week per month and work from there. It's a huge transition for us all but the kids and I are excited to be around family. I'll receive a lot more support and assistance with my sn kid - he will have a fuller life.
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Post by pierkiss on Apr 11, 2016 21:37:22 GMT
Did you screen shot the texts? And email to an unknown to him email address?
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Post by mom on Apr 11, 2016 21:38:04 GMT
holy shit.
Be strong. Does he know you know?
You know the 2Peas rules: document, and save all important information.
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Post by J u l e e on Apr 11, 2016 21:38:31 GMT
I'm glad it's out in the open. It is such a relief when a hunch gets validated. I hope he feels like an ass.
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Post by Drew on Apr 11, 2016 21:38:49 GMT
Did you screen shot the texts? And email to an unknown to him email address? Yeah man. I know the drill - been reading threads like mine here for years. |
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Post by Drew on Apr 11, 2016 21:40:42 GMT
holy shit. Be strong. Does he know you know? You know the 2Peas rules: document, and save all important information. He knows I know. He sent me a subsequent text saying, "Please disregard." |
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Post by mom on Apr 11, 2016 21:41:56 GMT
holy shit. Be strong. Does he know you know? You know the 2Peas rules: document, and save all important information. He knows I know. He sent me a subsequent text saying, "Please disregard." Wow. Well, you and your girls deserve better. |
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Post by elaine on Apr 11, 2016 21:42:00 GMT
I'm glad that are you are relieved. It sounds like you have been waiting for proof of this other shoe dropping. You know that you can count on us for support.
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Post by basketdiva on Apr 11, 2016 21:42:11 GMT
holy shit. Be strong. Does he know you know? You know the 2Peas rules: document, and save all important information. He knows I know. He sent me a subsequent text saying, "Please disregard." Seriously- he expected you to disregard the text??? |
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Post by raindancer on Apr 11, 2016 21:43:03 GMT
Wow. What the hell. I'm so sorry. But glad you are relieved and moving forward.
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Post by pierkiss on Apr 11, 2016 21:43:25 GMT
holy shit. Be strong. Does he know you know? You know the 2Peas rules: document, and save all important information. He knows I know. He sent me a subsequent text saying, "Please disregard."  I am stunned by that reaction. |
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Post by christine58 on Apr 11, 2016 21:45:02 GMT
holy shit. Be strong. Does he know you know? You know the 2Peas rules: document, and save all important information. He knows I know. He sent me a subsequent text saying, "Please disregard." Oh dear....I know you have some kids...how old are they?? Here's to some happiness for you. |
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Post by its me mg on Apr 11, 2016 21:45:22 GMT
He knows I know. He sent me a subsequent text saying, "Please disregard." I am stunned by that reaction. What a f*cking tool! LOL 'oh disregard that? okay sure' ... wtf is he smoking? |
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Post by PolarGreen12 on Apr 11, 2016 21:48:03 GMT
holy shit. Be strong. Does he know you know? You know the 2Peas rules: document, and save all important information. He knows I know. He sent me a subsequent text saying, "Please disregard." Wow that's like douche bag to the 12th power. |
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Post by Drew on Apr 11, 2016 21:49:00 GMT
Kids are a special needs 17 year old and two girls, 13 and 11. The please disregard thing -- yeah good luck wrangling THAT cat back in the bag.
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Post by christine58 on Apr 11, 2016 21:50:11 GMT
Kids are a special needs 17 year old and two girls, 13 and 11. The please disregard thing -- yeah good luck wrangling THAT cat back in the bag. You should have texted that back to him~~~ |
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Post by PolarGreen12 on Apr 11, 2016 21:55:03 GMT
holy shit. Be strong. Does he know you know? You know the 2Peas rules: document, and save all important information. He knows I know. He sent me a subsequent text saying, "Please disregard." Wow that's like douche bag to the 12th power. |
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Post by lesley on Apr 11, 2016 21:55:50 GMT
Please disregard?  That's hysterical. What a complete and utter fool of a man. You're right to be happy to 'lose' him. |
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Post by hop2 on Apr 11, 2016 21:59:57 GMT
holy shit. Be strong. Does he know you know? You know the 2Peas rules: document, and save all important information. He knows I know. He sent me a subsequent text saying, "Please disregard." Ha ha yeah sure buddy disregard lol |
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Post by trollie on Apr 11, 2016 22:02:12 GMT
He's a dumbass.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Apr 11, 2016 22:06:55 GMT
holy shit. Be strong. Does he know you know? You know the 2Peas rules: document, and save all important information. He knows I know. He sent me a subsequent text saying, "Please disregard." Seriously??? What an asshole!!!! |
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Post by jennyap on Apr 11, 2016 22:13:16 GMT
holy shit. Be strong. Does he know you know? You know the 2Peas rules: document, and save all important information. He knows I know. He sent me a subsequent text saying, "Please disregard." Wow, that's ballsy. I'm glad you're relieved. |
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Post by luvnlifelady on Apr 11, 2016 22:22:46 GMT
I've sent a text to the wrong person many times. Sorry you are dealing with this but hopefully it's for the good in the long run. Protect yourself!
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Post by elaine on Apr 11, 2016 22:23:28 GMT
Yeah, I know you know the drill, but with a special needs kid, be sure to have your lawyer go for the lifelong support he will need. Your STB X-husband can shoulder the majority of the costs to support him for the rest of his life.
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Post by luvnlifelady on Apr 11, 2016 22:24:26 GMT
holy shit. Be strong. Does he know you know? You know the 2Peas rules: document, and save all important information. He knows I know. He sent me a subsequent text saying, "Please disregard." OMG that is almost funny. It's like he thought a colleague got the text rather than his wife. Wow! |
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Post by freebird on Apr 11, 2016 22:27:29 GMT
holy shit. Be strong. Does he know you know? You know the 2Peas rules: document, and save all important information. He knows I know. He sent me a subsequent text saying, "Please disregard." oh lord. He should be shitting himself and all he can think of is "disregard"? lol. Not the brightest bulb is he? |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 11, 2016 22:28:47 GMT
holy shit. Be strong. Does he know you know? You know the 2Peas rules: document, and save all important information. He knows I know. He sent me a subsequent text saying, "Please disregard." That was his reply? Speechless...I really am.
Good for you for moving forward!
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Post by anniefb on Apr 11, 2016 22:37:36 GMT
He knows I know. He sent me a subsequent text saying, "Please disregard." Seriously- he expected you to disregard the text??? |
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Post by jeremysgirl on Apr 11, 2016 22:39:36 GMT
I'm sending you all the good vibes I can. Divorce is tough and especially when you are dealing with a jackass which I assume from his cheating and his texts he is. Hugs to you.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 11, 2016 22:44:08 GMT
Please disregard?!?!? He is all kinds of stupid. |
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That's hysterical. What a complete and utter fool of a man. You're right to be happy to 'lose' him. 
