nanaterry
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Post by nanaterry on Apr 15, 2016 18:07:27 GMT
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Post by lucyg on Apr 15, 2016 18:19:37 GMT
I am so, so sorry for what your sister is going through, and the rest of you, too. How indescribably awful. Your sister is really going to need your support in the coming days, weeks, months. You be sure to take care of yourself, too. Those poor people, all of them. I am really so sorry.
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Post by mommaho on Apr 15, 2016 18:20:20 GMT
How horrible. Prayers for you and your family
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Post by Deleted on Apr 15, 2016 18:21:40 GMT
Oh my gosh, that's horrific! Know that I'm thinking of you and your family and sending prayers for all of you. I wish I had something concrete to help you with. Can you see a counselor to help you too? How traumatic it must be. Is it possible (or even appropriate) to get word to your sister's therapist about her suicidal thoughts?
I can't even imagine how awful you both must be feeling, and I'm so very sorry that you have to go through it. My deepest sympathies on the loss of your family members, and gentle hugs of support to you.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 15, 2016 18:27:08 GMT
My heart goes out to you and your family. What an awful thing to happen! The only thing I can say that might help, is based on your words, her son may have psychological problems. And if so, if he did commit these murders, he might not get the death penalty. Not sure what state it is, but maybe you can look that up. Hugs to you.
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Post by lucyg on Apr 15, 2016 18:28:27 GMT
So I went looking for the link for Compassionate Friends, an organization for families who have lost a child that has been really helpful for people I know, and found this clearinghouse list. Some organizations are specifically for families of murder victims, some for general loss. Justice for Homicide VictimsI know from personal experience (my husband was murdered many years ago) how helpful these support groups can be. I hope you'll encourage your sister to find a group that works for her. You can attend, too, on your own, or to hold her hand. Even with all the experience I've had with people who've suffered terrible losses, I just can't even begin to imagine how much your sister is suffering.
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Post by chirpingcricket on Apr 15, 2016 18:31:52 GMT
You are definitely getting my good thoughts. I'm not really sure what happened -- it sounds like your nephew is implicated? Not sure what's up with the cars, though.
I have a cousin in prison in Mississippi. She killed her own sister in a drug/boyfriend dispute. My aunt was left to raise her son, who has turned out to be a lovely human being. But it was so devastating when it all happened. Just try to be strong for your sister, and take care of yourself. You're not alone. Lots of people have family drama. I'm sorry it's found you and your sister this time.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Apr 15, 2016 18:31:52 GMT
This is catastrophic in nature. I am so sorry for your whole family. I am sending all the prayers, love, hugs, well-wishes, and anything else positive I can to your family especially your sister. Big hugs.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 15, 2016 18:42:19 GMT
I am so sorry, that is truly horrific. Cry as much and as often as you need to.
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Post by finally~a~mama on Apr 15, 2016 18:49:04 GMT
I am so sorry. Can you go to visit your sister? Or bring her to you? It sounds like you need each other right now. ((hugs))
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Post by disneypal on Apr 15, 2016 18:52:26 GMT
Oh my goodness, your family is going through such a tragic time. I am so sorry for the loss of your niece and great nephew. How awful! And to know that your nephew may be responsible. This must be so unbearable for your sister. I hope her therapist are helping her, I can't imagine.
I will be praying for your family. I'm so sorry y'all are going through this.
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scrappinmama
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Post by scrappinmama on Apr 15, 2016 18:52:34 GMT
I'm so sorry. What a horrific tragedy. Your sister must be so grief stricken.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Apr 15, 2016 19:17:59 GMT
What a tragic nightmare for your family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I can't even wrap my head around how stuff like that happens. I hope you can all find a little peace in the days and weeks ahead. Hugs--
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Post by peabay on Apr 15, 2016 19:20:54 GMT
How absolutely awful. I'm sorry your family is suffering through this.
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Post by calgal08 on Apr 15, 2016 19:26:30 GMT
What a horrific situation. My heart breaks for your sister. I cannot imagine losing a child let alone knowing your other child might be the reason for it.
Thinking about you.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 15, 2016 19:31:49 GMT
So I went looking for the link for Compassionate Friends, an organization for families who have lost a child that has been really helpful for people I know, and found this clearinghouse list. Some organizations are specifically for families of murder victims, some for general loss. Justice for Homicide VictimsI know from personal experience (my husband was murdered many years ago) how helpful these support groups can be. I hope you'll encourage your sister to find a group that works for her. You can attend, too, on your own, or to hold her hand. Even with all the experience I've had with people who've suffered terrible losses, I just can't even begin to imagine how much your sister is suffering. Hugs and prayers to the original poster. Lucy....I am so sorry hugs....
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Post by mikklynn on Apr 15, 2016 20:03:06 GMT
I am so sorry. I have no advice, just hugs...
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Post by scrappert on Apr 15, 2016 20:08:12 GMT
Sending prayers to you and your family. I can't imagine the pain you are all going through.
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Post by annabella on Apr 15, 2016 20:08:58 GMT
Wow I'm so sorry how horrible.
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Post by caro on Apr 15, 2016 20:14:43 GMT
I am so sorry. What a horrific tragedy.
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Post by welshjenni on Apr 15, 2016 20:17:40 GMT
I am so very sorry and cannot imagine what you, your sister and your families must be going through. lucyg - so to hear of your loss too.. {{{hugs}}}
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Post by grammanisi on Apr 15, 2016 20:46:56 GMT
I am so very, very sorry for what you and your family are going through.
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Post by jenjie on Apr 15, 2016 20:52:36 GMT
What a horrific situation. My heart breaks for your sister. I cannot imagine losing a child let alone knowing your other child might be the reason for it. Thinking about you. I'm borrowing her words because I can't seem to come up with my own. It is so in fathomable. I'm so so sorry. lucyg I don't think I knew that about your husband. I am so sorry my friend. Thank you so much for using the pain you went through to help nanaterry. I know it cost you.
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Post by cyndijane on Apr 15, 2016 21:18:35 GMT
I'm so deeply sorry. I can't imagine. I will keep you and your sister in my prayers.
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Post by marmargirl on Apr 15, 2016 21:27:08 GMT
I'm so, so sorry for your loss and I understand your fears for your sister.
sending love and prayers to you.
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Post by Freefallfast on Apr 15, 2016 21:31:30 GMT
Our family also has been touched by murder in the past. We found that our state and County had a victims assistance program that was very helpful with counseling and other necessities.
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Post by librarylady on Apr 15, 2016 21:33:02 GMT
All this is almost too much for one heart and mind to deal with. I wish I had some way to offer comfort, but you are in our thoughts/prayers and we wish for the best for everyone left in your family.
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Post by AnotherPea on Apr 15, 2016 21:33:04 GMT
I'm so sorry. That's extremely difficult. I'll keep your family in my prayers.
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Post by bc2ca on Apr 15, 2016 21:38:37 GMT
How tragic. I am so sorry your family is living through this aweful situation. I truly can't imagine the depth of pain and anguish you are all feeling.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 15, 2016 22:17:34 GMT
I'm so sorry. This is so awful and I don't have any advice. I can't even imagine what you and your family are going through right now.
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