tanya2
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Post by tanya2 on Sept 10, 2017 3:49:54 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss & everything your family is going through  |
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Post by patin on Sept 10, 2017 5:43:31 GMT
I am so sorry. Praying for comfort & wisdom for you.
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Post by wonderwoman on Sept 10, 2017 8:14:23 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. I have no advice just hugs and prayers for you and your family .....
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Post by gar on Sept 10, 2017 9:00:23 GMT
What a terrible trauma for everyone involved, I'm very sorry.
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Post by mikklynn on Sept 10, 2017 12:46:17 GMT
No advice, just sending my thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
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ModChick
Drama Llama
True North Strong and Free
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Post by ModChick on Sept 10, 2017 20:17:25 GMT
I am so sorry to read this. Praying for best possible outcome and healing for everyone.
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Post by Frazzled Mom on Sept 10, 2017 20:32:42 GMT
I'm so very sorry for all that your family is going through. I don't have any advice, but wanted you to know I'm sending positive thoughts for everyone involved. {{{hugs}}}
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gloryjoy
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Post by gloryjoy on Sept 10, 2017 21:17:22 GMT
So sorry for your loss.
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Harper Lee
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Post by Harper Lee on Sept 10, 2017 21:38:23 GMT
I'm sorry for the loss of your daughter-in-law. How devastating. It's unlikely your son will be charged with manslaughter for driving a little above the limit. If he caused her death while he was under the influence or driving especially recklessly, that would be a different story. But in that scenario it would be appropriate for him to face criminal charges, regardless of how guilty he feels. Fortunately that isn't the case.
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Post by uksue on Sept 10, 2017 21:45:13 GMT
I am so sorry - there really are no words 😢
Lifting your family in prayer xxx
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Post by lesserknownpea on Sept 10, 2017 21:54:19 GMT
I'm so sorry. If one of my dil's were killed I'd be heartbroken. If one of my sons were dealing with grief and guilt and fear like that, it would kick my "mama's heart" into a frenzy of worry and helplessness.
Let the lawyer worry about that side of it. And just be there for your son. This will take a long time to process and integrate. You don't " get over it". You learn to live with it.
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Sept 10, 2017 22:19:13 GMT
I am so sorry for your family's loss and worries.
My prayers go out to your son especially.
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purplebee
Drama Llama
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Post by purplebee on Sept 11, 2017 0:15:38 GMT
Prayers and hugs for you and your son. This is such a tragic situation, hope he can get some help to overcome it.
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Post by originalvanillabean on Sept 11, 2017 2:56:58 GMT
Hugs and prayers to you.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 11, 2017 3:03:17 GMT
So sorry for both families.
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Mary Kay Lady
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Post by Mary Kay Lady on Sept 11, 2017 4:00:58 GMT
I am so sorry for the tragic loss loss of your DIL and that you and your son are having to go through this.
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Post by sunnyd on Sept 11, 2017 4:07:23 GMT
Unless he was DUI or driving recklessly, he likely won't be charged. If he is charged, get the best criminal defense attorney you can afford. He will never get over this but he WILL over come it, with you by his side. Keep loving and encouraging him the way you are. You all must be in shock and devastated from your loss. Hugs!
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Post by flanz on Sept 11, 2017 5:19:54 GMT
I'm so very sorry for your loss and for all you and your family are going through. (((HUGS)))
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Post by gailoh on Sept 11, 2017 10:28:43 GMT
So sorry for your loss...prayers and hugs
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River
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Post by River on Sept 11, 2017 21:20:37 GMT
My hugs and prayers for your family and the family or your DIL!   |
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Post by CarolinaGirl71 on Sept 12, 2017 1:14:47 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss and for all your son and you are going through. (((Hugs)))
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Post by wezee on Sept 12, 2017 3:34:40 GMT
No advise but I didn't want to read and run with out sending ((hugs))
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wellway
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Post by wellway on Sept 12, 2017 6:35:46 GMT
((hugs)) What a heart breaking situation to be dealing with.
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Post by Marina on Sept 12, 2017 7:35:23 GMT
How heartbreaking! I'm so sorry for your loss.
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ginacivey
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refupea #2 in southeast missouri
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Post by ginacivey on Sept 12, 2017 13:16:34 GMT
they say a mother is only as happy as her saddest child
i understand that feeling
it's easy to hear 'don't worry about it...concentrate on other things' but that's really friggin hard to do
anxiety and worry become overwhelming - and it can consume you
you have to take care of yourself before you'll be any help to your son
whether that means therapy for yourself or a visit to the dr for help with anxiety
i am so sorry for the loss of your daughter in law
and equally sorry your son has this added burden on his shoulders
i'll be thinking of you and praying for you
gina
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scrappert
Prolific Pea
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Post by scrappert on Sept 12, 2017 16:46:48 GMT
Prayers to you. I can't even imagine what your son is going through.
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Post by Chips on Sept 12, 2017 16:52:35 GMT
Hugs, prayers and I am so sorry.
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Post by destined2bmom on Sept 12, 2017 18:30:06 GMT
I am so sorry for your devastating loss. Hugs and prayers being sent to you and your family. Please know you are in our thoughts and let us know how you and your family are doing.
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luckyexwife
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Post by luckyexwife on Sept 26, 2017 3:23:29 GMT
Posting under new name although I am a long time member here. I'm sick with worry. My son and his wife were involved in a car accident and my DIL was killed. I think my son is going to be charged with vehicular manslaughter because he was driving over the speed limit. I'm sick over the loss of DIL and my son is so guilt- ridden we are trying to get him in counseling. We are just waiting to see what is going to happen but as his mother, I don't want him to go to jail. He has to live the remainder of his life with this guilt if it doesn't break him mentally. I'm afraid that criminal charges on top of his grief and guilt are going to destroy him. Anyone had any experience with this? I can't sleep at night I keep going over and over the possibility that his future will be in prison? This has been on my mind. How is your son doing? Was he able to get into counseling? Still praying for you and your family. |
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Post by Deleted on Sept 26, 2017 14:30:48 GMT
I am just reading this....I am so sorry for your loss
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