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Post by KikiPea on Oct 25, 2019 2:08:28 GMT
sharlag, I am so, so sorry to hear this. Big hugs and prayers as you continue forward.
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Sarah*H
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Post by Sarah*H on Oct 25, 2019 2:11:29 GMT
I'm so sorry Sharla.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Oct 25, 2019 2:11:37 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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sharlag
Drama Llama
I like my artsy with a little bit of fartsy.
Posts: 6,574
Location: Kansas
Jun 26, 2014 12:57:48 GMT
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Post by sharlag on Oct 25, 2019 2:12:41 GMT
birukitty, I am a Christian and so was he. I just took a walk around the neighborhood, crying in the darkness and listening to Lauren Daigle,etc. it helped. I’m very defensive and angry. I keep fantasizing hitting people. Just beating the shit out of Matt’s sister in law, who didn’t like him, and influenced his brother not to reach out or interact with him unless Matt called HIM. I don’t know how much truth there is to this theory, but I have asked family members to keep her away from me at the service because I don’t want to interact with her. I feel really irrational on this specific topic I told mom that I feel like she and my sister have been talking behind my back and are glad that he’s gone. Like I said I’m not in a really good place because they both love me and are very concerned about me, so this paranoia isn’t warranted.
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Post by chlerbie on Oct 25, 2019 2:17:52 GMT
I'm so very sorry, Sharla. My heart breaks for you.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Oct 25, 2019 2:19:36 GMT
sharlag can you check in with us before you go for night walks? I say this because there are animals in my neighborhood. Just let us know if you can’t call your mom or girlfriends or whatever if it’s really late. Please?
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Post by scrappinmom3 on Oct 25, 2019 2:24:32 GMT
I am so sorry.
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Post by piebaker on Oct 25, 2019 2:26:46 GMT
I am sorry for your loss. Do what you need to take care of yourself.
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Post by MsChiff on Oct 25, 2019 2:35:38 GMT
I'm so very sorry. Please take care of yourself first and foremost.
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Oct 25, 2019 2:35:44 GMT
Sharla, I'm so sorry for the loss of your boyfriend.
And I'm so sorry for the added trauma of having to be the one to find him, perform CPR, and all the stress that goes with it.
I would be honored, if you ever wanted to, to hear about good things about him. The things he did that made you smile, a funny story, his favorite color/meal/song that will always make you think of him.
We are here to walk your journey of grief with you. When my brother died this past January, it hurt so much that some people were dismissive of his death, like he had less value as a human being, because he wasn't their idea of good enough or successful. He was obese and used marijuana. And when they made hurtful comments about his death, i just wanted to scream that we are more than what we consume, and it is not a gauge of our worthiness as a person.
(((Hugs)))
Know your feelings are valid and real, and it's okay to feel however you do. We are all here for you.
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msladibug
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Jul 10, 2014 2:31:46 GMT
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Post by msladibug on Oct 25, 2019 2:38:23 GMT
Sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself. You know the Peas are always here for you.
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Post by jubejubes on Oct 25, 2019 2:38:51 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by pierkiss on Oct 25, 2019 2:40:10 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss.
I think the storage unit for his things is a great option. Do you think you can package up his belongings and get them there though?
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teddyw
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Jun 29, 2014 1:56:04 GMT
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Post by teddyw on Oct 25, 2019 3:04:12 GMT
I’m so sorry this happened. Please take care of yourself.
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Post by mommc23 on Oct 25, 2019 3:08:32 GMT
So, so sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself. I am sending you love ❤️
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Post by gmcwife1 on Oct 25, 2019 3:16:24 GMT
I’m very sorry for your loss
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Post by SallyPA on Oct 25, 2019 3:17:36 GMT
I’m so sorry, Sharla. That IS a really bad thing. Hugs.
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Post by roberta on Oct 25, 2019 3:18:20 GMT
So very sorry for your loss and the additional pain this situation brings.
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Post by winniegirl on Oct 25, 2019 3:19:18 GMT
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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Post by chaosisapony on Oct 25, 2019 3:19:43 GMT
I'm so sorry Sharla. I can't imagine how traumatic the whole situation must have been.
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Post by worrywart on Oct 25, 2019 3:24:36 GMT
I am so sorry for your sudden loss. (((Hugs)))
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ModChick
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Jun 26, 2014 23:57:06 GMT
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Post by ModChick on Oct 25, 2019 3:28:52 GMT
I am so sorry to read this. Hugs.
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Post by katlaw on Oct 25, 2019 3:32:07 GMT
I am so sorry.What a nightmare. Sending you hugs.
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Post by gotranch on Oct 25, 2019 3:34:00 GMT
I am sorry for the sorrow and heartbreak you are experiencing. My thoughts are with you. Take your time and take care of things as they feel right for you.
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Post by MZF on Oct 25, 2019 3:35:35 GMT
I’m sorry,Sharla. (Hugs)
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Post by gale w on Oct 25, 2019 3:40:11 GMT
I'm so sorry. 😢
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Post by snugglebutter on Oct 25, 2019 3:40:16 GMT
I'm so sorry Sharla. Know that you are loved here.
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NoWomanNoCry
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Jun 25, 2014 21:53:42 GMT
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Post by NoWomanNoCry on Oct 25, 2019 3:52:07 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Post by ntsf on Oct 25, 2019 3:55:24 GMT
hugs and prayers... may you have strength to deal with all of this...
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naby64
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Jun 25, 2014 21:44:13 GMT
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Post by naby64 on Oct 25, 2019 3:56:50 GMT
Oh my goodness!! I am so, so sorry. I will be keeping you in my prayers.
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