moodyblue
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Post by moodyblue on Oct 25, 2019 1:05:28 GMT
I wish I had words that could make this better, but no words can do that.
Know that we are here and you can always have someone to listen when needed.
Remember that feelings aren’t right or wrong; they just ARE. Let yourself feel whatever you feel and don’t feel guilty about any of it. Grieve for the man you knew and see in those texts, grieve for what you won’t have, and take care of yourself.
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mimima
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Post by mimima on Oct 25, 2019 1:06:19 GMT
Oh, hon. I'm so sorry. Memory Eternal.
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pudgygroundhog
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Jun 25, 2014 20:18:39 GMT
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Post by pudgygroundhog on Oct 25, 2019 1:08:44 GMT
Oh, I'm so sorry. Especially since you feel alone in your grief. Sending you positive thoughts and lots of hugs as you navigate your new normal.
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Post by summer on Oct 25, 2019 1:19:37 GMT
I’m very sorry for your loss. We are here for you!
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Post by jemali on Oct 25, 2019 1:20:04 GMT
Oh Sharla I am very sorry for your loss.
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RosieKat
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Post by RosieKat on Oct 25, 2019 1:26:27 GMT
OH, that's just so much. I'm so sorry!
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Post by GamGam on Oct 25, 2019 1:29:51 GMT
May your love for him continue to strengthen you as you grieve. I am so sorry.
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Post by Crack-a-lackin on Oct 25, 2019 1:30:45 GMT
Sharla, I’m so, so sorry.
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River
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Post by River on Oct 25, 2019 1:30:48 GMT
(((Hugs)))
I'm so very sorry! I'm praying for you!
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MDscrapaholic
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Oct 25, 2019 1:35:17 GMT
Such a terrible thing to happen, I am so sorry! Gentle hugs and we are here to listen if you need us.
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Post by twistedscissors on Oct 25, 2019 1:41:51 GMT
Prayers for you during this time!
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Post by lucyg on Oct 25, 2019 1:43:24 GMT
OMG, Sharla. I am so, so sorry this terrible thing happened. Please try to simplify your life as much as possible for now so you can feel peaceful and stay healthy. Much love.
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ellen
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Post by ellen on Oct 25, 2019 1:44:29 GMT
Oh dear, I am really sorry. It sounds like you were really good to him and I am glad that you can look back on this relationship and be glad you were in it. Take extra good care of yourself.
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Post by mom on Oct 25, 2019 1:45:16 GMT
I am so sorry. I remember you posting about him not being in a good place. I will be praying for you.
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Post by yodutchess on Oct 25, 2019 1:47:15 GMT
Oh Sharla, I am sorry for your loss.
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Post by mikklynn on Oct 25, 2019 1:48:02 GMT
Oh, my. I am so, so sorry. Giant hugs, dear sharlag.
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trollie
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Post by trollie on Oct 25, 2019 1:50:29 GMT
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Post by gryroagain on Oct 25, 2019 1:52:10 GMT
Oh my god Sharla, that is just...just awful. I’m so so sorry.
Please watch your blood pressure. My dad died Monday am and my moms has been sky high. She hasn’t got high blood pressure, except now she does, brought on by the situation.
I’m so sorry. I’m glad you have loving words to look back on. Please take care of yourself❤️
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Post by Legacy Girl on Oct 25, 2019 1:52:23 GMT
Love and prayers to you in this difficult time, Sharla.
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Post by roundtwo on Oct 25, 2019 1:53:45 GMT
So sorry for your loss, sharlag. It's not the same as having someone to comfort you in real life but you do have a lot of us here that are happy to listen and offer whatever support we can give you.
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freebird
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Post by freebird on Oct 25, 2019 1:56:40 GMT
oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. That sounds like a lot for everyone... so difficult. *hugs* sounds like you were very good for him, a kind, loving bright spot in his life.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 25, 2019 1:56:41 GMT
That's awful. I'm so very sorry. Please do take care of yourself. Perhaps even schedule an appointment with your doctor. You must take care of yourself.
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sharlag
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Post by sharlag on Oct 25, 2019 1:58:30 GMT
Oh my god Sharla, that is just...just awful. I’m so so sorry. Please watch your blood pressure. My dad died Monday am and my moms has been sky high. She hasn’t got high blood pressure, except now she does, brought on by the situation. I’m so sorry. I’m glad you have loving words to look back on. Please take care of yourself❤️ I’m sorry about your dad!
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Post by alexa11 on Oct 25, 2019 2:01:05 GMT
I am so sorry! We are here for you.
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leeny
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Post by leeny on Oct 25, 2019 2:01:10 GMT
So sorry for your loss
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Post by Delta Dawn on Oct 25, 2019 2:02:56 GMT
I am so sorry, sharlag. Just remember your Pea sisters are here for you. There’s someone here 24/7 for you to talk to. You are loved.♥️♥️♥️
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cakediva
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Post by cakediva on Oct 25, 2019 2:03:47 GMT
Oh Sharla - I'm so very sorry for your loss. Hugs to you!!
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lesley
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Post by lesley on Oct 25, 2019 2:03:49 GMT
Sharla, I’m so sad to read this. I remember you saying he had been struggling, and I am so sorry that everything has become so much worse. Please look after yourself and lean on those you can. Big big hugs.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Oct 25, 2019 2:04:23 GMT
What a sad and disturbing loss for you. Especially following a relationship filled with both pain and pleasure. No wonder even your health is impacted. Take care of yourself. Let us know what we can do to help.
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Post by danor98 on Oct 25, 2019 2:05:51 GMT
I am so very very sorry for your loss. And to have found him yourself😢 Hugs to you and prayers for some peace for you. ❤️
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