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Post by leannec on Feb 7, 2020 16:01:08 GMT
Hey ladies! Not a lot to report this morning ... I haven't heard from Jared (age 39) in two days ... if he ghosts me again I'll be pissed I text with Kyle (age 34) a couple of times a day but we still haven't managed to get together ... hopefully tomorrow I text and Facetime with Jory (age 30) a few times a week ... he lives three hours away ... I'm going to ask him if he wants me to visit him during Spring Break in March What's new with you? Link to last weeks thread
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Post by brenda89 on Feb 7, 2020 16:08:24 GMT
Hello!! I texted my former FWB (age 47) last night to let him know I was single again. He was out of town so nothing happened yet. I'm hoping tonight, but we shall see.
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Post by JustCallMeMommy on Feb 7, 2020 17:33:55 GMT
My weekend is suddenly looking very busy. I have 2 or 3 dates. Lunch today, an unconfirmed shopping outing tomorrow that was set up a week and a half ago, and a museum and dinner on Sunday. All with different people. And someone else has asked about Cats for next week - we’ll see if he comes through with tickets!
Sunday is the biggest one, IMO - we’ve been flirting via text for a while, and I thought he was going to be a “never leaves texts” type, but now that he has decided to leave texts, he seems to have jumped completely on board.
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Post by JustCallMeMommy on Feb 7, 2020 20:31:59 GMT
My weekend is suddenly looking very busy. I have 2 or 3 dates. Lunch today, an unconfirmed shopping outing tomorrow that was set up a week and a half ago, and a museum and dinner on Sunday. All with different people. And someone else has asked about Cats for next week - we’ll see if he comes through with tickets! Sunday is the biggest one, IMO - we’ve been flirting via text for a while, and I thought he was going to be a “never leaves texts” type, but now that he has decided to leave texts, he seems to have jumped completely on board.
My lunch date was a bust. He texted me just before I arrived and told me he got there 10 minutes before but got cold feet. He has a girlfriend and was just hoping for side sex (and that he'd still like to meet up for that purpose). I'll give him credit for telling me rather than ghosting, but couldn't he have told me before I drove there? lol
Next....
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Post by ashley on Feb 7, 2020 21:37:30 GMT
My weekend is suddenly looking very busy. I have 2 or 3 dates. Lunch today, an unconfirmed shopping outing tomorrow that was set up a week and a half ago, and a museum and dinner on Sunday. All with different people. And someone else has asked about Cats for next week - we’ll see if he comes through with tickets! Sunday is the biggest one, IMO - we’ve been flirting via text for a while, and I thought he was going to be a “never leaves texts” type, but now that he has decided to leave texts, he seems to have jumped completely on board.
My lunch date was a bust. He texted me just before I arrived and told me he got there 10 minutes before but got cold feet. He has a girlfriend and was just hoping for side sex (and that he'd still like to meet up for that purpose). I'll give him credit for telling me rather than ghosting, but couldn't he have told me before I drove there? lol
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Ugh! What a shitty thing to do! So sorry he was a jerk, and wasted your time.
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Post by leannec on Feb 7, 2020 22:40:35 GMT
My weekend is suddenly looking very busy. I have 2 or 3 dates. Lunch today, an unconfirmed shopping outing tomorrow that was set up a week and a half ago, and a museum and dinner on Sunday. All with different people. And someone else has asked about Cats for next week - we’ll see if he comes through with tickets! Sunday is the biggest one, IMO - we’ve been flirting via text for a while, and I thought he was going to be a “never leaves texts” type, but now that he has decided to leave texts, he seems to have jumped completely on board.
My lunch date was a bust. He texted me just before I arrived and told me he got there 10 minutes before but got cold feet. He has a girlfriend and was just hoping for side sex (and that he'd still like to meet up for that purpose). I'll give him credit for telling me rather than ghosting, but couldn't he have told me before I drove there? lol
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What a loser ... I feel sorry for his girlfriend
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Post by micpea on Feb 7, 2020 23:16:39 GMT
My lunch date was a bust. He texted me just before I arrived and told me he got there 10 minutes before but got cold feet. He has a girlfriend and was just hoping for side sex (and that he'd still like to meet up for that purpose). I'll give him credit for telling me rather than ghosting, but couldn't he have told me before I drove there? lol
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What a loser ... I feel sorry for his girlfriend I was thinking the same thing!
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Post by ashley on Feb 7, 2020 23:16:42 GMT
The adorable 28 year old I’ve been talking to lives with his parents. I swear to god I’m cursed.
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Post by leannec on Feb 7, 2020 23:56:43 GMT
The adorable 28 year old I’ve been talking to lives with his parents. I swear to god I’m cursed. Ugh! That would be the worst OMG! Cut the cord!
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Post by gryroagain on Feb 8, 2020 0:46:36 GMT
The adorable 28 year old I’ve been talking to lives with his parents. I swear to god I’m cursed. This is why I don’t date Koreans. Everyone lives with their parents 😂 Ok not everyone but enough to make it not my thing. I have been looking for a photographer to do “divorce portraits” for a while, there are a lot of mom with a camera types who aren’t very good here. But I found one! Like a real bonafide professional photographer! So I scheduled it for May 15th, my anniversary. It will be boudoir photos (always wanted to do that) and some on location with my dog because it’s just the two of us from here on out. I’m sooo excited! I need to get on that ab workout now...
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Post by mrssmith on Feb 8, 2020 0:51:31 GMT
The adorable 28 year old I’ve been talking to lives with his parents. I swear to god I’m cursed. Oh, lord. But yeah, I can see why he doesn't lead with that!
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Post by mrssmith on Feb 8, 2020 0:52:25 GMT
My weekend is suddenly looking very busy. I have 2 or 3 dates. Lunch today, an unconfirmed shopping outing tomorrow that was set up a week and a half ago, and a museum and dinner on Sunday. All with different people. And someone else has asked about Cats for next week - we’ll see if he comes through with tickets! Sunday is the biggest one, IMO - we’ve been flirting via text for a while, and I thought he was going to be a “never leaves texts” type, but now that he has decided to leave texts, he seems to have jumped completely on board.
My lunch date was a bust. He texted me just before I arrived and told me he got there 10 minutes before but got cold feet. He has a girlfriend and was just hoping for side sex (and that he'd still like to meet up for that purpose). I'll give him credit for telling me rather than ghosting, but couldn't he have told me before I drove there? lol
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WOW. At least he told you before lunch instead of after!
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Post by ashley on Feb 8, 2020 1:08:08 GMT
The adorable 28 year old I’ve been talking to lives with his parents. I swear to god I’m cursed. Ugh! That would be the worst OMG! Cut the cord! Sounds like he moved back home after finishing some schooling and is looking for a new career and planning on moving out in a few months.
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Post by MaryMary on Feb 8, 2020 1:15:23 GMT
Hey, hey, guys! I have to tell someone!! A guy totally hit on me today! I am not trying to date anyone... haven’t joined any dating sites, have no desire to get back in the game, don’t trust ANYBODY. But, this cute guy that has got to be ten years younger than me was totally flirting today. I’m sure I was super composed and not at all neurotic in my replies (Nope.). I am very out of practice... This has not happened to me in DECADES. Still. Flirting happened.
ALSO, I’m student teaching right now at the school my kids go to. I was talking to one of the teachers that taught two of my daughters years ago. She had no idea who I was, so I introduced myself and explained my name was different because of the divorce. She was totally flabbergasted and said, “I didn’t recognize you AT ALL, you look so young and energetic!”. I get this comment all the time now. Nobody recognizes me and everyone tells me how much younger and happier I look now. It’s weird the way leaving a miserable marriage impacts all aspects of your life.
Anyway, I’ve been lurking on this thread all along and truly truly don’t have a desire to date, but enjoy reading all of your posts. Get it, girls!
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Post by mrssmith on Feb 8, 2020 1:21:12 GMT
I had a super fantastic 3 hour long phone date with the guy I was texting. In person date is on Tuesday. I'm excited.
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Post by alexa11 on Feb 8, 2020 1:25:31 GMT
The adorable 28 year old I’ve been talking to lives with his parents. I swear to god I’m cursed. Does he have a job? ETA: Sorry I just read your other post!
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Post by ashley on Feb 8, 2020 1:58:36 GMT
Hey, hey, guys! I have to tell someone!! A guy totally hit on me today! I am not trying to date anyone... haven’t joined any dating sites, have no desire to get back in the game, don’t trust ANYBODY. But, this cute guy that has got to be ten years younger than me was totally flirting today. I’m sure I was super composed and not at all neurotic in my replies (Nope.). I am very out of practice... This has not happened to me in DECADES. Still. Flirting happened. ALSO, I’m student teaching right now at the school my kids go to. I was talking to one of the teachers that taught two of my daughters years ago. She had no idea who I was, so I introduced myself and explained my name was different because of the divorce. She was totally flabbergasted and said, “I didn’t recognize you AT ALL, you look so young and energetic!”. I get this comment all the time now. Nobody recognizes me and everyone tells me how much younger and happier I look now. It’s weird the way leaving a miserable marriage impacts all aspects of your life. Anyway, I’ve been lurking on this thread all along and truly truly don’t have a desire to date, but enjoy reading all of your posts. Get it, girls! This makes me very happy!!
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Post by ashley on Feb 8, 2020 2:00:12 GMT
The adorable 28 year old I’ve been talking to lives with his parents. I swear to god I’m cursed. Does he have a job? ETA: Sorry I just read your other post! He currently has a job, and three post secondary degrees. He decided to change careers and did some schooling recently for a HR position.
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Post by Neisey on Feb 8, 2020 2:34:07 GMT
The adorable 28 year old I’ve been talking to lives with his parents. I swear to god I’m cursed. This is why I don’t date Koreans. Everyone lives with their parents 😂 Ok not everyone but enough to make it not my thing. I have been looking for a photographer to do “divorce portraits” for a while, there are a lot of mom with a camera types who aren’t very good here. But I found one! Like a real bonafide professional photographer! So I scheduled it for May 15th, my anniversary. It will be boudoir photos (always wanted to do that) and some on location with my dog because it’s just the two of us from here on out. I’m sooo excited! I need to get on that ab workout now... Oh! I want to do boudoir too...my ex and I separated when I was 47, I’m 52 now and I am so much more comfortable in my body now I think it would be a fun experience. And I’m sure my SO would like them too 😉
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Post by arrow on Feb 8, 2020 2:48:03 GMT
The adorable 28 year old I’ve been talking to lives with his parents. I swear to god I’m cursed. This is why I don’t date Koreans. Everyone lives with their parents 😂 Ok not everyone but enough to make it not my thing. I have been looking for a photographer to do “divorce portraits” for a while, there are a lot of mom with a camera types who aren’t very good here. But I found one! Like a real bonafide professional photographer! So I scheduled it for May 15th, my anniversary. It will be boudoir photos (always wanted to do that) and some on location with my dog because it’s just the two of us from here on out. I’m sooo excited! I need to get on that ab workout now... I had a photo shoot done after XH left the first time (yeah, I’m a slow learner!!). I had an awesome time. The photographer had his female assistant do the boudoir shots. Take the day off, get your hair and make-up done and make the day all about you. I need to get some photos of me and my dog done too.
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Post by gryroagain on Feb 8, 2020 5:03:37 GMT
ALSO, I’m student teaching right now at the school my kids go to. I was talking to one of the teachers that taught two of my daughters years ago. She had no idea who I was, so I introduced myself and explained my name was different because of the divorce. She was totally flabbergasted and said, “I didn’t recognize you AT ALL, you look so young and energetic!”. I get this comment all the time now. Nobody recognizes me and everyone tells me how much younger and happier I look now. It’s weird the way leaving a miserable marriage impacts all aspects of your life. Anyway, I’ve been lurking on this thread all along and truly truly don’t have a desire to date, but enjoy reading all of your posts. Get it, girls! Isn’t it amazing how much better we look now?! I get that all the time too. Even with my dad dying and just a whole truckload of shit the kids are going thru thanks to all this, I look and feel so much better with him finally out of my life. When you are ready, come join us- it’s actually really fun out here. I am nowhere near ready or wanting a serious relationship, but it’s awfully fun to just sleep around I won’t lie 😂
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Post by leannec on Feb 8, 2020 7:21:19 GMT
I have been looking for a photographer to do “divorce portraits” for a while, there are a lot of mom with a camera types who aren’t very good here. But I found one! Like a real bonafide professional photographer! So I scheduled it for May 15th, my anniversary. It will be boudoir photos (always wanted to do that) and some on location with my dog because it’s just the two of us from here on out. I’m sooo excited! Woo hoo! Have a great time in May
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Post by leannec on Feb 8, 2020 7:22:50 GMT
Ugh! That would be the worst OMG! Cut the cord! Sounds like he moved back home after finishing some schooling and is looking for a new career and planning on moving out in a few months. So do him in the car/truck for now
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Post by leannec on Feb 8, 2020 7:27:36 GMT
Does he have a job? ETA: Sorry I just read your other post! He currently has a job, and three post secondary degrees. He decided to change careers and did some schooling recently for a HR position. Keep him around ... text and see where it goes
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Post by leannec on Feb 8, 2020 7:32:10 GMT
ALSO, I’m student teaching right now at the school my kids go to. I was talking to one of the teachers that taught two of my daughters years ago. She had no idea who I was, so I introduced myself and explained my name was different because of the divorce. She was totally flabbergasted and said, “I didn’t recognize you AT ALL, you look so young and energetic!”. I get this comment all the time now. Nobody recognizes me and everyone tells me how much younger and happier I look now. It’s weird the way leaving a miserable marriage impacts all aspects of your life. Anyway, I’ve been lurking on this thread all along and truly truly don’t have a desire to date, but enjoy reading all of your posts. Get it, girls! Isn’t it amazing how much better we look now?! I get that all the time too. Even with my dad dying and just a whole truckload of shit the kids are going thru thanks to all this, I look and feel so much better with him finally out of my life. When you are ready, come join us- it’s actually really fun out here. I am nowhere near ready or wanting a serious relationship, but it’s awfully fun to just sleep around I won’t lie 😂 What she said I look better now in my 50's than I did in my 30's My sex life rocks
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Post by ashley on Feb 8, 2020 12:07:37 GMT
Oh my, is there anything better than waking up to an inbox full of messages from hot 28-30 year olds?? They’re actually much better at conversation than men closer to my age (40 in less than a month).
I have a hotel date set up next week with a ginger soldier from Meaford while he’s going to be back home on leave. He’s bringing his record player...
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Post by brenda89 on Feb 8, 2020 14:17:08 GMT
Hello!! I texted my former FWB (age 47) last night to let him know I was single again. He was out of town so nothing happened yet. I'm hoping tonight, but we shall see. Update - so he came over last night for a booty call. At my HOUSE!!!! 👍🏻 ☺️He texted asking if I was alone. DD was at a basketball game, she’s the manager. It was AMAZING!! And not in the car!! 😋 I’m so happy!!!!
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Post by leannec on Feb 8, 2020 20:00:05 GMT
So I've been texting with a new guy all morning His name is James ... he's 40 and I think I'm going to see him today or tonight because everyone else is totally silent right now Yup, still going for the younger men
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Post by ashley on Feb 8, 2020 21:55:03 GMT
So I've been texting with a new guy all morning His name is James ... he's 40 and I think I'm going to see him today or tonight because everyone else is totally silent right now Yup, still going for the younger men and men who’s names are likely to start with the letter J! Lol
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Post by ashley on Feb 8, 2020 22:25:13 GMT
So I had a dinner date planned for this Wednesday... and just thought to ask him about his living situation and of course he is living with his parents. Had a LTR end 1.5 years ago and had been back at home since. How is this even possible that this keeps happening? I know my situation isn’t ideal either, but still...
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