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Post by mrssmith on Feb 14, 2020 18:02:49 GMT
Haha, so it’s adter the dinner date and we decided to go for a drive and he decided to drive us across a muddy field and now we’re stuck and waiting for a tow truck. I wasn’t having a great time to start with and now I’m just tired and he flung mud on me (by accident) and I just want to go home. Holy moly! That's crazy.
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Post by mrssmith on Feb 14, 2020 18:09:36 GMT
Are we still on this thread or is there a new one? Had so much fun texing/talking to the 1st guy I connected with. Such good conversations and texts. Had a date on Tuesday. IMO went awesome. Didn't try to kiss me and we both had to grab Lyfts... texted him that I couldn't believe he didn't kiss me. He said he wanted to but chickened out. Then I said - let's have another date that involves kissing. He says yes, definitely. Then... get a text the next day that he's been thinking and only feels friendship vibes. Ummm. You literally just made comments to the contrary. Ah, well. Onward! There was one weird red flag re: hanging out at his ex's house when he visits his kids (sometimes when she's there and even if her current BF is there...).
After a one day pity party, I checked out more profiles on Match (just OK) and Bumble (many more promising profiles). Have a chat date with a Scruffy Chef, chatted with another scruffy skier/hiker. An architecture professor re-contacted me, but I seem to have to carry the conversation. Hasn't asked much about me. Step it up, dude.
Also - mentioning that you like the Oxford comma is apparently a geek pickup line (and works for me since I write for a living!). What a funny experience.
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Post by gryroagain on Feb 15, 2020 9:32:28 GMT
I’m a day ahead of y’all in the US so it’s the evening of the 15th and I just got home from 2 days in Seoul with Mr Optimistic. WOW! We had so much fun! I thought it was kind of “pressure” it was Valentines Day but he got me a present and seemed cool with it, so? We went to really good food and bars, stayed at a very cool hotel, and had fabulous brunch this am and he followed me around shopping which was sweet.
Dude. I finally like someone. It’s so weird 😂 He tells me constantly how gorgeous I am, and he loves my body. I haven’t had a Valentine’s Day that fun in years!!
I’ve toyed with moving back up to Seoul since I moved down here, and he mentions moving up there a lot. Which seems...fast and pressury. We stopped by his place on the way home to say hello to my former foster dog he watches, and he pointed out some empty apartments 😂
Jack my FWB leaves in April for Hawaii and I’d like to continue to see him until he leaves, so should the topic come up that may be a deal breaker. I’ve noticed men always think they are the only one...
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Post by leannec on Feb 15, 2020 12:33:03 GMT
Are we still on this thread or is there a new one? Ack! I totally forgot to start the new thread yesterday It's probably better for me to start them on Saturdays anyway ... I'll post it now! Feel free to re-post your exciting stuff mrssmith and gryroagain
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