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Post by leannec on Apr 25, 2020 15:57:04 GMT
Hey ladies! Not a lot to report today other than it is my birthday so I will be seeing FWB which will be a nice distraction  We haven't seen each other in awhile but we text multiple times a day everyday. You would think we were in a relationship  In other news, things are going really well with Rob the insurance guy ... we text everyday and had some really hot texts the other day  He sounds like he actually wants to date me when things get back to normal ... he's not just looking to get laid  I'm also talking to Jared pretty much everyday finally ... I had to spell it out to him that he had to text me more often or I was out and so he has been better about being in contact ... he is another that will want to date me when this is over so that makes me happy ... I told him that I liked him and he told me that he liked me ... so freaking cute  I got raked over the coals on another thread this week but that's OK ... I enjoy hosting this thread and sharing with you all  What is new with you? Link to last weeks thread |
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Post by melanieg on Apr 25, 2020 16:02:31 GMT
I updated my profile (thanks for the assistance). Still not much going on there.
It is just guys who want to hook up right away. Nope. Sorry. I am social distancing so I can have a summer hopefully. And if I hear "aww but we don't have a lot of cases here in town and most of them have recovered..." I am going to smack them. Its bc we are isolating and distancing that we have kept cased down.
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Post by melanieg on Apr 25, 2020 16:03:36 GMT
ps Happy Birthday! Mine is this week. I took a few days off of work to get arty.
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Post by luckyexwife on Apr 25, 2020 16:06:54 GMT
Happy Birthday LeAnne!!!!
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Post by socalscrapper on Apr 26, 2020 1:37:39 GMT
Well, I mentioned on another thread that I've been texting a guy I met on Match. We are going to talk tonight after all the kids go to bed. He isn't the best at texting and I'm pretty sure he's using voice-to-text.  But...he seems like a nice guy. Chatted with 2 others on Bumble but they went no where. One said I should be there with him right now.  LOL The other just stopped chatting which was fine with me. Not sure I could handle chatting with more than 1 at a time right now. I'm in no hurry. So we will chat tonight and see where it goes. I don't plan to meet in person anytime soon because of social distancing. I can't take any chances right now. Hopefully, if there is something there, he will understand. |
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Post by socalscrapper on Apr 26, 2020 1:38:54 GMT
Happy Birthday LeAnne!!!! Ditto! Happy Birthday!  |
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Post by leannec on Apr 26, 2020 14:08:49 GMT
So my birthday yesterday was a lot of fun ... I can't give you details because there are so many pearl clutchers who read this thread  I'm just posting to say that my FWB and my BFF really came through for me and I had a great day ... when this whole thing is over I'll explain Got a nice happy birthday text from Rob yesterday which made me feel great Got a nice one from ex as well My dd's both called me  |
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Post by socalscrapper on Apr 26, 2020 21:05:40 GMT
Sounds like a great birthday Leannec!  B (the guy I met on Match) and I chatted on the phone for a little over 2 hours. He's a nice guy and he's been texting me off and on all day. I think he said he'd call tonight. Kristi |
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Post by sharlag on Apr 26, 2020 23:22:43 GMT
Randy and I hung out for 4 hours. He’s cuter in person than his photos. I really like him. I hope he liked me. 😊
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Post by tincin on Apr 27, 2020 1:55:53 GMT
Well the first three guys I was chatting with online didn’t work out. However, in the meantime another one popped up. We’ve chatted a few times and he seems like a really nice guy. We will see where that goes.
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Post by leannec on Apr 27, 2020 2:28:53 GMT
Well the first three guys I was chatting with online didn’t work out. However, in the meantime another one popped up. We’ve chatted a few times and he seems like a really nice guy. We will see where that goes. Keep trying! You have to kiss a lot of frogs |
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Post by leannec on Apr 27, 2020 2:31:07 GMT
Randy and I hung out for 4 hours. He’s cuter in person than his photos. I really like him. I hope he liked me. 😊 Ummmm ... details! Four hours! What did you do? Just talk? |
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Post by alexa11 on Apr 27, 2020 2:32:19 GMT
I can't give you details because there are so many pearl clutchers who read this thread Well...Tom and I caved- I "saw" him this week. |
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Post by leannec on Apr 27, 2020 2:33:24 GMT
I can't give you details because there are so many pearl clutchers who read this thread Well...Tom and I caved- I "saw" him this week. Yay!!!!! |
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Post by sharlag on Apr 27, 2020 13:27:14 GMT
Randy and I hung out for 4 hours. He’s cuter in person than his photos. I really like him. I hope he liked me. 😊 Ummmm ... details! Four hours! What did you do? Just talk? Yeah, we hung out on my deck, in well-spaced apart lawn chairs. He brought me a giant plastic barrel of those those cheese puff balls
because we had laughed about them in a previous conversation.
He drank beer, I drank LaCroix, we played with my new puppy. We never lack for conversation. I know, it's boring compared to some of the content on this thread...
And he DOES like me, after meeting in person, based on our continued texts last night. Yay!
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Post by leannec on Apr 27, 2020 13:27:24 GMT
OK, let's have a discussion ... something fun to do since we're all cooped up right now What are your thoughts on threesomes? Have you ever participated in one? Do you want to give it a try? Would you feel more comfortable with two girls and a guy or two guys and you? Do you find that the men you chat with ... and the men you date ... ALWAYS eventually suggest this?  Lurkers are more than welcome to chime in but I want respect here please |
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Post by sharlag on Apr 27, 2020 13:35:56 GMT
I've only talked to my ex about a threesome, and he was willing. I wasn't.
The concept doesn't disgust me.
I just know I have trouble focusing during 69, because there's too much going on? and feel like I wouldn't participate/perform well with an entire extra human being as a distraction. Other participants might enjoy having me there, but I wouldn't like it.
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Post by leannec on Apr 27, 2020 13:48:29 GMT
What are your thoughts on threesomes? Have you ever participated in one? Do you want to give it a try? Would you feel more comfortable with two girls and a guy or two guys and you? Do you find that the men you chat with ... and the men you date ... ALWAYS eventually suggest this?   I'll answer my own questions I used to be totally against the idea when I was married but my FWB changed my mind  Before this virus thing went down we had one with a really good girlfriend of mine and it was a lot of fun I didn't touch her at all because I'm not into girls so really we just took turns ... we were all very comfortable with the whole thing ... FWB has a buddy who wants to get together so when this virus is over I'm going to go for it because I really would prefer to be with two men ... it does seem like more work but I'm up for the challenge I've never had a guy, including ex, not suggest a threesome at some point ... it seems to be every guys fantasy |
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Post by River on Apr 27, 2020 13:56:51 GMT
Everyone I've met or talked to since dating has asked me about a threesome (except John). He's very much into having sex, but he doesn't talk about it or want to sext like all the other guys from match.
It's just not for me. I have no desire to be with more than one guy and the thought of another girl is a big turn off for me personally.
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We haven't seen each other in awhile but we text multiple times a day everyday. You would think we were in a relationship 
He sounds like he actually wants to date me when things get back to normal ... he's not just looking to get laid 
But...he seems like a nice guy. Chatted with 2 others on Bumble but they went no where. One said I should be there with him right now. 
LOL The other just stopped chatting which was fine with me. Not sure I could handle chatting with more than 1 at a time right now. I'm in no hurry. So we will chat tonight and see where it goes. I don't plan to meet in person anytime soon because of social distancing. I can't take any chances right now. Hopefully, if there is something there, he will understand. 
