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Post by pancakes on Apr 29, 2020 0:35:29 GMT
I grew up not wearing shoes in the house, but my husband did not. As a result, I’ve compromised and have allowed shoes in the house. I hate it and it makes our house so much dirtier.
Now that we have a newborn, I’d like to transition to a shoes off household before she starts crawling, and my husband had agreed to give it a try.
Has anyone transitioned other members of their household successfully? Any tips besides going cold turkey?
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Post by Zee on Apr 29, 2020 0:43:15 GMT
Have him keep a pair of slippers inside the door until he gets used to it, if he likes something on his feet? I don't allow shoes in here past the entryway either and especially not now with the Covid.
Just make it a rule, no reason he can't go "cold turkey".
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Post by Dallie on Apr 29, 2020 1:07:01 GMT
When We decided many years ago to take our shoes off, well, we just started taking them off. It was not a big deal. You just have to decide to make new habits.
We have a bench with storage by the front door, a bin by the back door, and a small set of drawers by the door into/out of the garage. Shoes go into them when we come in. We carry our dress (work) shoes into the clothes closet. Casual shoes we wear most often are kept in the bench or drawer so we put them on and take them off at The doors. The bin by the back door is for flip flops.
When we are in the house and want something on our feet, we wear our indoor shoes or socks. My indoor shoes here in Florida are usually flip flops. My husband has slippers.
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Post by Ryann on Apr 29, 2020 1:12:52 GMT
We do a hybrid here at home. We have “house” shoes, that are only worn in the house. We keep them in a basket near the front door when we leave the house.
When we enter the house, we take off our “outside” shoes and replace with our “house” shoes. This keeps the floors clear of sweaty footprints and cleaner than if we wore our “outside” shoes indoors.
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Post by brandy327 on Apr 29, 2020 1:16:24 GMT
I really, really want to do this but the way our house is set up, there literally isn't any room to set up a space to take shoes off. You enter our house directly into the dining room/kitchen/living room area. I have a large rug near the door and people finally take their shoes off there... but then no one puts the shoes away and it's cluttered up. I hate the design of our house. But if dh is working outside and needs something inside, he won't take his shoes off anyway.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Apr 29, 2020 1:38:47 GMT
No I am always in slippers or bare feet and my dad isn’t dressed unless he has shoes on. I don’t allow shoes downstairs but he used to got to the wine room in shoes. I’ll get over it.
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Post by christine58 on Apr 29, 2020 1:54:28 GMT
If you have someone in your house who is immuno suppressed or compromised shoes should always be removed before walking in the house. It’s also not a bad idea during this covid virus to take your shoes off before you walk inside someone’s home. We’ve been doing this since my mom was diagnosed almost 7 years ago with colon cancer.
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Post by AussieMeg on Apr 29, 2020 2:01:49 GMT
I bet once he gets used to it, he'll actually really like it. We don't have a no shoes "policy" as such, but we all take our shoes off inside anyway. But that's more to do with comfort rather than cleanliness. I don't find it comfortable sitting around with shoes on. In summer I have bare feet, and in winter I will wear nice fluffy socks around the house. I don't make visitors take their shoes off, although a lot do anyway.
I understand you wanting to go shoe-free with a new baby who will be crawling around on the floor before you know it!
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Post by cmpeter on Apr 29, 2020 2:10:19 GMT
Cold turkey
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Post by malibou on Apr 29, 2020 3:49:18 GMT
And how is that glorious baby of yours? Shocking how quickly she's growing eh?
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Post by leannec on Apr 29, 2020 4:01:38 GMT
We're Canadian so shoes are always taken off ... wet, snowy, muddy shoes are not an option My ex has foot issues though so he had indoor shoes that he would put on when he came inside ... if your dh needs to wear shoes in the house maybe that could be an option?
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Post by kate on Apr 29, 2020 4:07:19 GMT
I insist on shoes in the house for reasons I won't go into here. Since the covid "thing", I have indoor shoes and outdoor shoes. All of our shoes are in a giant eyesore of a pile by the door. Since we don't have visitors right now anyway, I'm a little "Who cares?" about it all.
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Post by StephDRebel on Apr 29, 2020 4:10:10 GMT
I have house slippers and dh has house shoes. Work shoes for into a basket on the porch, he comes in, goes to shower and puts on his home shoes. I wear slippers all day everyday. Bare feet on the floor creep me out.
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Post by rickmer on Apr 29, 2020 10:32:12 GMT
just do it.... your baby will be crawling around on that floor, putting hands in the mouth and toys off the floor in the mouth. the sooner he gets used to it, the sooner it will become the new normal. maybe a little sign by the door when he comes in, til he gets used to it? like real estate agents use for open houses....  i am canadian too and i can't say i know anyone that just walks thru their house with their shoes on. and if you go into someone else's house - you would get a <<blink blink>> if you didn't take them off. i am not obsessed with germs - don't use antibacterial soap or clean my house with bleach or lysol but people spit and hork out their nose on the sidewalk - that does it for me. there are hallway storage options that can reduce the clutter if you don't have foyer or a boot room at your main entranceway. maybe having a new piece of furniture to put away the shoes when he walks in would be a good prompt? shoe storage another one
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Post by ExpatBackHome on Apr 29, 2020 10:51:25 GMT
When we moved to India, we automatically transitioned. Hopefully it won’t take something so drastic for your husband 🤣🤣 We’ve kept it up in Poland and Dubai since then.
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Post by littlemama on Apr 29, 2020 12:43:51 GMT
We have always worn shoes in the house (except ds - his shoes explode off of his feet as soon as he hits indoors). When we replaced our carpet with wood laminate, we started taking them off. Now that we are working from home, we tend to wear shoes. I haven't noticed any difference in the cleanliness of the house.
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Post by ddly on Apr 29, 2020 12:50:11 GMT
We have never worn shoes in the house. DH is fine in just socks and DS and I wear slippers. It's just the way it's always been. I have a closet by the front door where my shoes go and there is a small shoe shelf/rack next to the door where DH and DS put their shoes. We also have a boot mat on the other side of the door for wet or snowy shoes to go until they dry.
I would hope that once he gets used to it, it won't be a big deal.
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Post by lisacharlotte on Apr 29, 2020 13:06:28 GMT
We are not a shoes off home. Me and DS are, but DH gets dressed in the morning and stays dressed (including shoes) until he changes into pjs. We also don’t have space at either door to store shoes. If I’m in and out a lot I do not remove shoes each time I come in. If I’m working in the yard, I’m wearing laced shoes and no way am I playing that game.
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Post by epeanymous on Apr 29, 2020 13:40:13 GMT
I got my husband to go cold turkey for the same reason (I never wore shoes in the house) and it was fine. We do have a pile of shoes by the door, but I would rather have that than have people tracking things inside (it rains a lot here so it’s even worse). If we’re having a large gathering at the house, I don’t ask people to take shoes off (I did when we had crawling infants), but I do 😬 cringe.
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Post by oh yvonne on Apr 29, 2020 14:17:44 GMT
I can enforce no shoes with DD and myself, but DH still would wear his shoes in the house and I gave up the fight long ago. We have wood floors so it wasn't as much of an issue as before when we had light colored carpet so I stopped trying to enforce it. Since COVID19, I have INSISTED no more shoes in the house. I set up a designated spot in our garage (we enter through the garage) with a chair on a mat so now DH removes his shoes before he comes in and puts his shoes on when he leaves. Everything is nice and organized and neat so he hasn't complained a peep. I'm hopeful that when this is all over we'll just continue. I love the thought that my floors aren't walked on with outside shoes anymore.
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Post by scrapmaven on Apr 29, 2020 16:30:28 GMT
We're a no-shoe house. I wear socks or slippers and so does dh. The boys wear feet. I grew up in a shoes or slippers house So, this was new for me. I like it, because it's really comfy. We have a shoe rack that we purchased at IKEA. You enter from the garage to the laundry room and put your shoes on the rack. In my dh's culture you don't wear shoes in the house. So, I'm used to always asking if I should remove my shoes when I enter someone's home.
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Apr 29, 2020 16:40:58 GMT
I have house slippers and dh has house shoes. Work shoes for into a basket on the porch, he comes in, goes to shower and puts on his home shoes. I wear slippers all day everyday. Bare feet on the floor creep me out. my DH is like this- he cannot stand the feeling of the carpet on his bare feet. It's just a tactile thing he can't get over; he's always had a few quirks like this. The feeling of bare feet on carpeting creeps him out. I'm barefoot on and off all day long, but he always wears house slippers. I'd get house slippers for your DH, at least for a transition period, or for good, if he really does not like being barefoot inside. I do wear my shoes outside and then wear the same shoes inside the house sometimes, though... perhaps I should change this habit to help keep down on the dust level.
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Post by katlady on Apr 29, 2020 16:43:04 GMT
We've always been a no-shoe house, mostly due to culture. Now, after reading that shoes can be a carrier, I don't even make a quick dash through the house with my shoes on anymore. If i already had my shoes on and forgot something, I used to just leave my shoes on and run inside really quick. Now I take them off.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 29, 2020 16:52:08 GMT
We are a no shoes household and most of the people I know are as well. The sidewalks in our city are filthy and we try to avoid tracking all that nastiness into house. We have a shoe rack near the front entry so shoes are left there before coming through the door. Those that don’t usually leave their shoes in their hall closet or have a rack or basket by the door. I don’t really know of a good way to transition and would simply go cold turkey.
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Post by bc2ca on Apr 29, 2020 16:53:15 GMT
Have somewhere at the door to put the shoes and go cold turkey. We are leaving shoes in the garage with the current virus concerns, but have always has a large basket sitting by the front door to toss them in. We also have a basket at the back door for yard shoes. Most family members are shoeless in the house but I prefer to wear a pair of flip flops. We've always been a no shoes house. My kids had to be trained not to take their shoes off when the started preschool.
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Post by rst on Apr 29, 2020 16:53:19 GMT
I would like to be a shoe free household, but we have 5 doors, all of which we use for coming and going, and keeping track of indoor and outdoor shoes would become such an ordeal, I just haven't pushed it.
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Post by naby64 on Apr 29, 2020 17:00:21 GMT
My DH is a Floridian and never wears shoes in the house. If he has them on, he has just gotten home and is leaving. I have foot issues so I always have some sort of shoe on. Like a Birks sandal or along those lines. I could see it would be an easy transition to make our house a no-shoe house.
I have thought of this off and on. My question is in all seriousness - what about pets? We have three dogs. They go in and out all day. Our backyard has very little grass. We now have vinyl plank flooring so the dirty part is easily taken care of with a Swiffer or the robovac. Do you just not worry about them? I am also a shoe hound! I do not even want to disclose the number of pairs I own. So how does that work? Do I carry them to the door in the morning as I head to the office. I am in a semi-casual office. I don't just have a few pairs of work shoes. All of my shoes are counted as home/work shoes. Well, except my walking shoes.
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Post by myshelly on Apr 29, 2020 17:14:37 GMT
My DH is a Floridian and never wears shoes in the house. If he has them on, he has just gotten home and is leaving. I have foot issues so I always have some sort of shoe on. Like a Birks sandal or along those lines. I could see it would be an easy transition to make our house a no-shoe house. I have thought of this off and on. My question is in all seriousness - what about pets? We have three dogs. They go in and out all day. Our backyard has very little grass. We now have vinyl plank flooring so the dirty part is easily taken care of with a Swiffer or the robovac. Do you just not worry about them? I am also a shoe hound! I do not even want to disclose the number of pairs I own. So how does that work? Do I carry them to the door in the morning as I head to the office. I am in a semi-casual office. I don't just have a few pairs of work shoes. All of my shoes are counted as home/work shoes. Well, except my walking shoes. I put my shoes by the door every night as part of my getting ready for the next day routine. This is one of the reasons I think pets are gross.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 29, 2020 17:19:23 GMT
As someone who has always lived in a shoes off household, I just don't get why it's a big deal. Hell, I don't know why anyone would WANT to wear shoes in the house? If your feet are cold, wear socks and slippers. SO much comfier than shoes.  But I'm in MI and with four seasons, it's just too hard to keep carpet and floors clean if you wear your shoes outside and inside. Now if it's not muddy/wet/snowy out we might make a quick run back inside for something and keep our shoes on etc but if we come home to stay, our shoes come off.
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Post by StephDRebel on Apr 29, 2020 18:03:55 GMT
I have house slippers and dh has house shoes. Work shoes for into a basket on the porch, he comes in, goes to shower and puts on his home shoes. I wear slippers all day everyday. Bare feet on the floor creep me out. my DH is like this- he cannot stand the feeling of the carpet on his bare feet. It's just a tactile thing he can't get over; he's always had a few quirks like this. The feeling of bare feet on carpeting creeps him out. I'm barefoot on and off all day long, but he always wears house slippers. I'd get house slippers for your DH, at least for a transition period, or for good, if he really does not like being barefoot inside. I do wear my shoes outside and then wear the same shoes inside the house sometimes, though... perhaps I should change this habit to help keep down on the dust level. DH cant wear slippers because of some balance issues with his health. Im ok with fresh tennis shoes in the house. I dont mind the feeling of bare feet anywhere, I mind the funk, sort and bacteria they leave behind. *shiver*
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