JustTricia
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Post by JustTricia on Feb 7, 2021 17:30:59 GMT
Actions speak louder than words. IMHO her behavior illustrates her own, not her in-laws' (BIL, MIL), character. Perhaps she should strive to consider others beyond herself (e.g. her children's uncle's brother died, & her children's grandmother's son died), stop using her children & their grief as props as well as their tragedy as an excuse to behave badly...hypocritically, on social media for an audience (& donations), etc. This ☝🏻 All she’s doing is making herself look bad. Actually, not bad. She looks like a horrific person. |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 7, 2021 17:48:21 GMT
I’m surprised to see Tim Holtz posting his support of her. I doubt she approves of his “lifestyle.”
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julie5
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Post by julie5 on Feb 7, 2021 17:59:27 GMT
I can only speak my own experience but I hate my mom. Absolute hatred. She’s tried sending cards with bill shit remarks and I rip them up and it is cathartic. But I don’t post it on social media. I long for the day when I finally read her obituary in the paper.
So I can’t judge too harshly because I might throw a fucking party the day my mom is dead.
And I don’t even like lizzy. But there’s something going on there and we don’t have all the facts.
My mom tells everyone I’m the liar amd she’s the victim. That cunt let her boyfriend do whatever he wanted to me and I’m the crazy one??? No. Just no.
I’d kick a popcorn maker around too.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 7, 2021 18:28:15 GMT
I’d kick a popcorn maker around too. But would you blast it out to strangers on the internet? I think that's were her sickness is showing. Not her pain and feelings but her immaturity and need for attention. |
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JustTricia
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Post by JustTricia on Feb 7, 2021 18:43:26 GMT
I can only speak my own experience but I hate my mom. Absolute hatred. She’s tried sending cards with bill shit remarks and I rip them up and it is cathartic. But I don’t post it on social media. I long for the day when I finally read her obituary in the paper. So I can’t judge too harshly because I might throw a fucking party the day my mom is dead. And I don’t even like lizzy. But there’s something going on there and we don’t have all the facts. My mom tells everyone I’m the liar amd she’s the victim. That cunt let her boyfriend do whatever he wanted to me and I’m the crazy one??? No. Just no. I’d kick a popcorn maker around too. That’s it right there, though. I don’t have an opinion one way or the other about her BIL or MIL. Either of them could be the asshole and it’s none of my business. The problem I have is plastering it on her Stories. She could have set the Chick-Fil-A card and popcorn maker on fire and I couldn’t care less. Putting it on IG Stories is what makes her look petty. She’s doing it for the attention, and that makes her awful. And her kids can see it. Her kid’s friends. Her kid’s friends parents. Her in feed posts give me a different view of her. They are heart wrenching and make me yell at my phone “please get help, if not for yourself then for your kids!” That’s where I see the grieving widow who is floundering and struggling with life. Her Stories just scream attention whore. |
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Post by mom on Feb 7, 2021 18:46:13 GMT
I’d kick a popcorn maker around too. But would you blast it out to strangers on the internet? I think that's were her sickness is showing. Not her pain and feelings but her immaturity and need for attention. Exactly. She is an attention whore with the maturity of a toddler. If she doesn't want people to judge her, or atleast expect some context as to why she obviously hates her MIL, then dont put it on social media. Period. I don't judge Lizzy for her grief. I absolutely judge her for how she is using social media garner attention for fits. How 'bout she put down that phone of hers, stay off of social media (you know, like her husband wanted) and love your kids. Grief doesn't need to always be private but acting like fool shouldn't be the only plan either. Edited to add: I will absolutely, never ever again, use or buy a Dear Lizzie product. She has shown us who she is and I am choosing to believe her. |
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Post by Skellinton on Feb 7, 2021 19:15:20 GMT
How long do you think it will take her to post pictures of the popcorn machines she gets from strangers?
I don’t know the history of her and Collin’s family, maybe they are terrible people, maybe they are wonderful people, but they are grieving too. We don’t know if her MIL tried to contact her or the kids before Christmas. Maybe the item was back ordered. Maybe she wanted to drop it off earlier and Lizzy was dodging her calls. Maybe the MIL was so distraught about losing her son she is sitting on the floor crying herself. Maybe her MIL is a terrible and selfish person, we have literally no idea.
The fact of the matter is that Lizzy is posting shit like that to get attention and garner sympathy. I am sorry for her, I am sorry for her kids, but that doesn’t mean I can’t think she is a horrible and petty person.
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scrappyesq
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Post by scrappyesq on Feb 7, 2021 20:12:46 GMT
The fact of the matter is that Lizzy is posting shit like that to get attention and garner sympathy. I am sorry for her, I am sorry for her kids, but that doesn’t mean I can’t think she is a horrible and petty person.
That's exactly how I feel. I don't have a relationship with my mother, and for as much as I can blast her online for being who she is I choose not to. The world does not need to be made aware, and in Lizzie's case she is dragging her whole family down into her hole of bitterness. |
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julie5
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Post by julie5 on Feb 7, 2021 20:27:36 GMT
I don’t disagree with any of you above. Just putting that out there. I do think she’s a shit person in general. Even before Colin died, she was a very vain person. And I haven’t been her customer for quite some time now.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Feb 9, 2021 5:30:40 GMT
I'm surprised, that one of her groupies hasn't started a Valentines fundraiser for her.  |
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mich5481
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Post by mich5481 on Feb 9, 2021 17:18:40 GMT
Physically (40-something) or emotionally (12)? ps -  "Her grandchildren's daddy died." Yeah?! HER SON DIED TOO!! Sorry if her grief schedule doesn't work for you, Liz. She turns 40 on May 4th. We share a birthday. |
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jediannie
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Post by jediannie on Feb 9, 2021 17:48:10 GMT
Do we know what he died from? Not that it matters in the grand scheme of things but he was fairly young-ish and I'm nosy.  I completely get the grief and the lashing out and she clearly is crying out for help because she's not getting what she needs from her family (parents, siblings, etc) and if she had real friends they should be talking to her too, telling her she needs intense therapy for her grief. |
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Post by riversong1963 on Feb 9, 2021 18:28:11 GMT
Do we know what he died from? Not that it matters in the grand scheme of things but he was fairly young-ish and I'm nosy. I completely get the grief and the lashing out and she clearly is crying out for help because she's not getting what she needs from her family (parents, siblings, etc) and if she had real friends they should be talking to her too, telling her she needs intense therapy for her grief. I agree 100%. Instead of starting yet another fundraiser, her real friends should get together and get that family some therapy. There's a lot of pain and anger, not only in her, but I'm sure in her children as well; and none of them are getting help or getting better. If anything, they're getting worse. At least she is. I get the feeling that there is a big piece to this story that is missing. Maybe it's tied to the way he died. Maybe there's a lot more to her relationship with his family. We'll probably never know. Someone needs to close all her social media accounts and take her phone away. She needs someone to supervise her. |
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Post by mom on Feb 9, 2021 19:08:03 GMT
Do we know what he died from? Not that it matters in the grand scheme of things but he was fairly young-ish and I'm nosy. I completely get the grief and the lashing out and she clearly is crying out for help because she's not getting what she needs from her family (parents, siblings, etc) and if she had real friends they should be talking to her too, telling her she needs intense therapy for her grief. All she's said it was quick. Im curious about who she mentions in her Instagram post that betrayed her + Colin. Anyone know anything? |
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Post by questioning on Feb 9, 2021 20:03:50 GMT
But would you blast it out to strangers on the internet? I think that's were her sickness is showing. Not her pain and feelings but her immaturity and need for attention. ... Exactly. She is an attention whore with the maturity of a toddler. If she doesn't want people to judge her... then dont put it on social media. Period. I don't judge Lizzy for her grief. I absolutely judge her for how she is using social media garner attention for fits. How 'bout she put down that phone of hers, stay off of social media (you know, like her husband wanted) and love your kids. Grief doesn't need to always be private but acting like fool shouldn't be the only plan either. Edited to add: I will absolutely, never ever again, use or buy a Dear Lizzie product. She has shown us who she is and I am choosing to believe her. This is the part that mesmerizes me, for lack of a better word. IMHO her career was built as much on her presentation of her attractively photographed life as it was on her talent. It was always incongruous with her husband's preaching, opinions he shared despite his own bad behavior videos. Putting her anger on display and airing family battles is immature. Husband's cause would encourage one to avoid this action. I feel sorry for them. The tea she spills reveals a lot of unresolved family issues and missing fathers on both sides. Whether missing by choice or death, there's a lot of hurt. |
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Post by questioning on Feb 9, 2021 20:05:50 GMT
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Post by riversong1963 on Feb 9, 2021 20:28:16 GMT
Well, aren't you sweet? Thanks so much! |
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Post by scrapsnneedles on Feb 10, 2021 3:54:02 GMT
Do we know what he died from? Not that it matters in the grand scheme of things but he was fairly young-ish and I'm nosy. I completely get the grief and the lashing out and she clearly is crying out for help because she's not getting what she needs from her family (parents, siblings, etc) and if she had real friends they should be talking to her too, telling her she needs intense therapy for her grief. I don’t have receipts, but I think right before Christmas, Liz said that her kids were going to start going to therapy after the holidays. I don’t know if she has publicly mentioned it again. |
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Post by Night Owl on Feb 14, 2021 2:42:16 GMT
Excuse my nosiness, but did she ever say Colin's cause of death? Did he die in his sleep? I have had relatives die but nobody I lived with, I can't imagine finding them that way.
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Post by artsyk on Feb 14, 2021 3:57:12 GMT
Excuse my nosiness, but did she ever say Colin's cause of death? Did he die in his sleep? I have had relatives die but nobody I lived with, I can't imagine finding them that way. As far as I have seen, no. She mentioned in her IG stories that she would say at one point, but hasn't that I've seen. |
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Post by joblackford on Feb 14, 2021 5:17:18 GMT
Excuse my nosiness, but did she ever say Colin's cause of death? Did he die in his sleep? I have had relatives die but nobody I lived with, I can't imagine finding them that way. I believe they said something about being him dying surrounded by his loved ones, not sure if that was just what they said or if it was meant literally or figuratively, but there were some people who guessed it might’ve been an aneurysm. It would fit with the suddenness but also the family being able to be present with him. |
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JustTricia
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Post by JustTricia on Feb 14, 2021 14:55:45 GMT
I don’t really want to put my thoughts on here as they’re not nice. But does anyone else think that considering all the things she puts on IG that she should never post that since she hasn’t posted his cause of death that it isn’t something as simple as natural causes or a medical incident?
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Post by miss2peas on Feb 14, 2021 21:42:10 GMT
She made a post awhile back saying she made the call to get the results of his death but didn’t think at this time she was going to be able to pick up the return call . I don’t know if she’s spoke about it since then. Edited to correct and link ig http://instagram.com/p/CH_XXG6pQCh |
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Post by frenchie on Feb 14, 2021 22:32:49 GMT
She made a post awhile back saying she made the call to get the results of his death but didn’t think at this time she was going to be able to pick up the return call . I don’t know if she’s spoke about it since then. Edited to correct and link ig http://instagr.am/p/CH_XXG6pQCh It should be on the death certificate, shouldn’t it? I guess we are all different, but I’d have to know how my DH died. I’d want to also know for my children and possible health risks. |
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Post by merry27 on Feb 14, 2021 22:53:33 GMT
She said that she knows his cause of death but isn’t sharing it at this time.
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mamakven
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Post by mamakven on Feb 15, 2021 0:05:00 GMT
I can only speak my own experience but I hate my mom. Absolute hatred. She’s tried sending cards with bill shit remarks and I rip them up and it is cathartic. But I don’t post it on social media. I long for the day when I finally read her obituary in the paper. So I can’t judge too harshly because I might throw a fucking party the day my mom is dead. And I don’t even like lizzy. But there’s something going on there and we don’t have all the facts. My mom tells everyone I’m the liar amd she’s the victim. That cunt let her boyfriend do whatever he wanted to me and I’m the crazy one??? No. Just no. I’d kick a popcorn maker around too. right there with you. (((hugs))) |
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Post by Night Owl on Feb 15, 2021 0:40:29 GMT
She said that she knows his cause of death but isn’t sharing it at this time. She has a right to her privacy but that is ironic since she puts everything else out there. Her children seem like they just want to please her and I hope they don't see everything she puts on line. |
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Post by stephk on Feb 15, 2021 2:05:37 GMT
I don't like to do what people tell me, so I'm not even sure it would work. But I *hope* and pray that if I were ever to behave like that publicly, someone who loves me would DEMAND that I turn over my phone and fly me out of the country to heal for a while so that I don't burn down everything I claim to love.  Also, May the 4th be with several of us, lol. I love my birthday.  |
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Post by gemini_jen on Feb 15, 2021 19:06:26 GMT
I don’t really want to put my thoughts on here as they’re not nice. But does anyone else think that considering all the things she puts on IG that she should never post that since she hasn’t posted his cause of death that it isn’t something as simple as natural causes or a medical incident? I posted last week and deleted my reply because it was a bit snarky. But I agree completely ... if you have nothing to hide (and don’t want to keep being asked), she should disclose the info. |
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julie5
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Post by julie5 on Feb 15, 2021 19:18:15 GMT
I don’t really want to put my thoughts on here as they’re not nice. But does anyone else think that considering all the things she puts on IG that she should never post that since she hasn’t posted his cause of death that it isn’t something as simple as natural causes or a medical incident? I posted last week and deleted my reply because it was a bit snarky. But I agree completely ... if you have nothing to hide (and don’t want to keep being asked), she should disclose the info. Idk I think it’s no ones business how he died. No matter how much she shares, she’s under no obligation to share that. I mean what if it was suicide. Amd she posts that. And in a few years her kids find out through the internet? Y’all would be judging the hell out of her. I’m no Stan but I think there’s som line crossing on this post. |
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