Kartchner Go Fund Me Update

I’m curious as hell too. But like I said there’s a line on what she owes her followers.

She owes her children privacy more than she ‘owes’ her online followers anything at all. The children are her responsibility, random internet scrapbook people aren’t ‘owed’ a darn thing.

( but yes I understand being curious because she puts literally everything else out there. )

Okay, I’m being nosey and maybe a little morbid here. She posted about how on day three, the mortuary called her about donating his eyes.

She asked in her post “does that mean his eyes may be helping someone to see?”

Wouldn’t any kind of organ donation be done well before getting to the mortuary? Well before day three? Maybe she misremembered the timeline but that seems weird.

It also is weird to post about in Instagram but she’s shown she has few boundaries with what she posts...

Every time I see her post, I hope that someone who loves her will finally help her get the help she needs. And take her phone away from her.

Cornea transplants seem to be a little different from other organ transplants which are arranged while the patient is on life support but brain dead. Corneas don't have to be blood typed in the same ways as other organs either. They're a very good thing to donate.

"There is a 24-hour window of opportunity from the time of a donor's death to procure a cornea and place it in storage media. Unlike organ donation, in which procurement is extremely limited by time and the immediate availability of a potential recipient, corneoscleral tissue can be stored and used up to 14 days after procurement before it expires." from this site

When my BIL died they called my sister about 12 hours after to ask about eye and tissue donation.

To clarify what I said earlier about the cause of death not being simple~ in no way do I feel that she owes it to her followers to post the info, not even the ones who donated thousands of dollars. I was just saying that since she shares things she should never share, things that her kids should never read on social media let alone from their mom, that I was surprised she had not posted cause of death. I assumed she would use it as another boost to her Go Fund Me to get more money and more sympathy. Because she hasn’t done that it just makes me wonder if it is something that might be controversial and might not ring the sympathy bell like she is desperate for.

JavaJones aneurysm was my guess as well.

Right? She infuriates me.

We here on this message board can see her not coping, struggling, not functioning in a capable manner, etc.. via her social media posts.
Her children have a front row seat for all of it.
In her current state of mind and being, that is not a good seat for them to have.

If her children view "having her as a their Mom, is their punishment", that is clearly a sign that  her children are seeing her, watching her, observing her >> struggling, not handle things well, not coping with her new reality, overwhelmed with grief, not functioning well from day to day, melting down, etc...... She needs help, counseling, guidance.

Life isn't always easy in the best of circumstances. Having a traumatic incident, and being grief stricken compounds one's stress level, anxiety level, impacts ones day to day existence. etc.... Clearly she is struggling. I think she is in the midst of "current traumatic stress", which will segue into "post traumatic stress" if she doesn't get help. I hope those in her inner circle  step in and get her the help she needs. Sometimes an intervention is necessary, especially when one is obviously struggling with day to day life.

I am not a fan of her, and I wasn't a fan of his. 
Although, I don't care for her/their type of people.....I know what it's like to deal with "current traumatic stress". She is currently not herself. I  am heartfelt when I say >> I truly hope she gets the helps she needs.

Same, she needs help so badly and either isn't getting it or is and is choosing to live her grief damn the consequences to her children.


Yeah, YT crafty people are getting all bent out of shape from negative comments.

It would be a punishment to have a parent that petty, bitter, & spiteful. I do hope she gets the help she needs.

Nvm. I saw it in her IG highlights.

I don't know what this is. Someone made negative comments on someone's looks instead of their creations?

I was commenting on generalities of negative comments, not on something specific because I thought JM was hand slapping people in general again.

Thank you. I agree and quite frankly if someone wants to leave a negative comment they have every right. It goes with the territory. Now, having said that I wouldn't leave a hateful, rude or mean comment just to leave one. If it was constructive critiscm or something like that then so be it.

The same goes with a few accounts I follow on Instagram who are minor influencers. The minute they get a negative DM or comment, it's like it throws their whole life off. Everything isn't rainbows and sunshine. IMO if you put yourself out there, it's bound to happen every now and then. If it's so bothersome to them why don't they just block and move on?!

I am sure EK won’t post if she is getting therapy, but I sincerely hope she is. I too am not a fan of hers or Collin’s, but that is neither here nor there, She is clearly spiraling out of control and not able to help her children, let alone herself. They all need intensive therapy and it should have started almost immediately. I can’t imagine those poor children and what they are going through and watching their mother fall apart clearly is probably compounding their grief.
Yes, she lost her husband, but her children lost their father. She seems to be wallowing in her grief and thinks she is the only one suffering. Children that lose a parent, especially unexpectedly, often have a very hard time processing their grief while watching their other parent struggle and the kids worry about losing the surviving parent as well. These kids need to see their mom grieving, but in a way that allows them to grieve as well.

It is shameful to see her post about that comment with a laughing emoji after it. It would be funny if a kid just randomly said that, but under the circumstances, it is not funny at all.