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Post by iamkristinl16 on Nov 5, 2021 16:46:37 GMT
Oh you know, we're supposed to be "solution-minded" in making sure every fringe theory is represented in the classroom for parents who have their "hands tied" by religious belief. Otherwise, we're just "closed-minded." You all will have to excuse me - I have a 4th grade class to indoctrinate soon. Or groom. Whatever the word is now. We're learning about the blues, which they have come to discover has its roots in African American spirituals and work songs sung by people in slavery. I guess if a parent comes in wanting me to include the experience of the slaveowners and white people in the Jim Crow south in this unit, I'll just have to be open minded and try to find a way to do it. Can I just point out the irony in this ‘apology’ containing more gaslighting? 🤷🏼♀️ Ok, moving on. So I guess someone sent out the peaCON bat signal? 💁🏼♀️😏 There was a thread on Northam, his actions and especially his response to it was and still is disgraceful, in my opinion. Quite happy to say that then, and now. It’s funny how no one ever sends one out when the GOP has done one of the many things in just the past year that actually blatantly threaten or undermine the democracy we all live in. Then it’s … 🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗. 🙄 Lots of defensiveness going on. Lots of blame gaming, labeling and excuses. Parents are not perfect but as parents, taxpayers (this includes teachers) and supporters of public schools we (parents) should have SOME say in what curriculum is taught considering the broad latitude states give school districts on overall requirements (at least my state). Public education is a partnership and to think otherwise is quite elitist. No one is doubting the decades of service, abilities, and skills of teachers but teachers don't own public education. The "your just a parent - you don't know jack about education" that comes across in many of these rebuttal comments is disheartening and concerns me for the kids in school today to be around so much anger and frustration, and dissonance. When public education steps into personal and societal values (which books do) and says school curriculum choices supersedes a family's chosen value system, then YES, parents are going to stand up and say something. To expect otherwise is obtuse. That's when we all have a choice - partner with parents to find a solution or keep being "abused" by parents raising their kids and being involved in their education. If teacher's don't want to partner with parents that's OK - send them to someone else in the district who wants to listen to feedback and address it. If parents keep being told by teachers that we are stupid, we are idiots, we don't know anything, then complain about being treated poorly - that's that definition of insanity. I'm not sure if you are coming from a place of really not understanding and paying attention to what is happening in school districts across the country that is causing the anger from teachers and other parents, or if you do know full well what is going on and why people are angry, you are just ignoring it and trolling to make your point. Or a little of both? I will respond by giving you the benefit of the doubt. I can understand wanting to be able to approach schools and teachers if there are concerns. However, the mentality that schools are now "indoctrinating" or "grooming" students by teaching them critical thinking skills, or letting them read books that address social issues is ridiculous. I have seen many responses on our local FB group indicating that people think this is new, and that English classes should just teach grammar. I didn't grow up in the state that I currently live in, but when I was in school we read books like The Scarlet Letter, To Kill a Mockingbird, Night, Shakespeare, and more. We didn't just examine the sentence structure. We talked about the themes of the book. I don't remember the specific conversations, but I am sure it helped me to develop empathy (which reading a variety of books can do) and improved my critical thinking skills. My mom was a HS English teacher when I was very young. She also had her students read the books above and also Grapes of Wrath and probably others. So, it begs the question of why do you think NOW people are up in arms about their kids reading books from other people's perspectives? Particularly when most of the books in question have to do with history of slavery or highlight Black people and their experiences. "Conservatives (what even is that these days?)" say that they don't want their kids to be ashamed for being white. Do you really think that is realistically happening? I have read a LOT of books that focus on difficulties that others face, whether that be racism, other forms of discrimination, hardships because of war, and so on. Do I feel uncomfortable with what happened/happens in many of these situations? Yes. Does it help me understand what other people's lives are like? Yes. Does this help me resolve to not do the same things? Or keep people from being treated this way in the future? Yes. Does it make me hate myself or be ashamed for being white? No. The angry, hostile, aggressive parents and right-wing propaganda are making it MORE difficult for there to be effective conversations regarding issues in schools. Teachers are on edge and worry that anything they say is just waiting to be used against them. If having open dialogue and a cooperative attitude with schools is important to you, you may want to talk to your friends and work to tone down the rhetoric. At this point, it is just causing more division. Just like conservatives have created a divide in communities, families, and in the country as a whole, this is happening in schools as well.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 5, 2021 16:54:15 GMT
Public education is a partnership and to think otherwise is quite elitist. No one is doubting the decades of service, abilities, and skills of teachers but teachers don't own public education. The "your just a parent - you don't know jack about education" that comes across in many of these rebuttal comments is disheartening and concerns me for the kids in school today to be around so much anger and frustration, and dissonance. Did you see my list above of a teacher's job requirements? Now take all those tasks, the teacher's own family's needs and life. Now factor in 5 parent meetings a week to discuss their pet peeve of of the week (something they've no doubt seen on facebook, or heard from their pastor, or heard on the right-wing radio/tv station of their choice, and try as a teacher to set aside an EXTRA 3-5 hours per week to have those meetings, write them up, and then however many hours needed to mold the curriculum to their idiotic belief system. It's a wonder we have any teachers at all. If this carries on, the teaching profession will lose the real professionals and the only ones who will go into it are the ones who don't mind being glorified baby sitters and/or have no other good options.
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Post by michellegb on Nov 5, 2021 17:12:53 GMT
I'm just going to say this: Schools should not be subject to teaching speciic values requested by families. Values are to be taught at home. That's the responsibility of the parents, not teachers. Teachers should be able use the best tools they can find to teach their lessons. I read some very interesting books in school and had some amazing teachers who taught me to THINK! Did my parents agree with everything - no. But they respected that the teachers knew what they were doing and had conversations about things with me if there was a different view they wanted to address. Can you imagine the insanity if EVERY value and theory and belief HAD to be addressed or avoided (as the case may be). This concept that no one gets offended or upset or has to feel bad is just making life harder for all. In school and out of it. I cannot imagine anyone in their right mind pursuing a career in education these days. Teachers are routinely vilified, belittled and harassed. Good teachers are worth their weight in gold, but most parents just don't appreciate them these days. This country is killing our education system and it's sad to watch.
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Post by Merge on Nov 5, 2021 17:28:58 GMT
Oh you know, we're supposed to be "solution-minded" in making sure every fringe theory is represented in the classroom for parents who have their "hands tied" by religious belief. Otherwise, we're just "closed-minded." You all will have to excuse me - I have a 4th grade class to indoctrinate soon. Or groom. Whatever the word is now. We're learning about the blues, which they have come to discover has its roots in African American spirituals and work songs sung by people in slavery. I guess if a parent comes in wanting me to include the experience of the slaveowners and white people in the Jim Crow south in this unit, I'll just have to be open minded and try to find a way to do it. Can I just point out the irony in this ‘apology’ containing more gaslighting? 🤷🏼♀️ Ok, moving on. So I guess someone sent out the peaCON bat signal? 💁🏼♀️😏 There was a thread on Northam, his actions and especially his response to it was and still is disgraceful, in my opinion. Quite happy to say that then, and now. It’s funny how no one ever sends one out when the GOP has done one of the many things in just the past year that actually blatantly threaten or undermine the democracy we all live in. Then it’s … 🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗. 🙄 Lots of defensiveness going on. Lots of blame gaming, labeling and excuses. Parents are not perfect but as parents, taxpayers (this includes teachers) and supporters of public schools we (parents) should have SOME say in what curriculum is taught considering the broad latitude states give school districts on overall requirements (at least my state). Public education is a partnership and to think otherwise is quite elitist. No one is doubting the decades of service, abilities, and skills of teachers but teachers don't own public education. The "your just a parent - you don't know jack about education" that comes across in many of these rebuttal comments is disheartening and concerns me for the kids in school today to be around so much anger and frustration, and dissonance. When public education steps into personal and societal values (which books do) and says school curriculum choices supersedes a family's chosen value system, then YES, parents are going to stand up and say something. To expect otherwise is obtuse. That's when we all have a choice - partner with parents to find a solution or keep being "abused" by parents raising their kids and being involved in their education. If teacher's don't want to partner with parents that's OK - send them to someone else in the district who wants to listen to feedback and address it. If parents keep being told by teachers that we are stupid, we are idiots, we don't know anything, then complain about being treated poorly - that's that definition of insanity. More gaslighting - we're "obtuse" and "insane" for refusing to bow to the whims of people's religious beliefs in public schools. Nope. Not buying it. We're not the ones creating anger, frustration, and dissonance in the public schools. It's all the crazy parents. I'm not teaching lies to satisfy your religious beliefs. You can do that at home. You started out by saying you were frustrated by your school's inability to be "transparent" about the impossibility of teaching all of world history completely in one year. You started out complaining about worksheets. But really it comes down to the fact that you want teachers to do the job you should be doing at home in reinforcing your personal moral code. And that is simply not going to happen. That's not being inflexible; that's protecting the integrity of our curriculum. If you don't like it, please take your child to religious school. I'd rather lose my job entirely than be expected to teach things that aren't factually true, or omit things that are factually true, or spend hours altering my carefully constructed curriculum to appease a noisy parent. You admit it's ridiculous to expect us to take in and apply the opinions of 750 parents, but you seem to feel we should take in and apply *your* specific concerns or suggestions for curriculum in our individual classrooms. And no. Not going to happen. BTW, how do you expect students to learn to think critically if they're never exposed to viewpoints other than the ones taught at home?
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Post by jeremysgirl on Nov 5, 2021 17:34:03 GMT
No one is doubting the decades of service, abilities, and skills of teachers Yes, yes they are... When public education steps into personal and societal values (which books do) and says school curriculum choices supersedes a family's chosen value system No, just no. Public school education needs to be broad and inclusive. I'm sorry your values say that gay marriage is a sin, some of those kids have gay parents and siblings. Etc.
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Post by aj2hall on Nov 5, 2021 18:45:03 GMT
Oh you know, we're supposed to be "solution-minded" in making sure every fringe theory is represented in the classroom for parents who have their "hands tied" by religious belief. Otherwise, we're just "closed-minded." You all will have to excuse me - I have a 4th grade class to indoctrinate soon. Or groom. Whatever the word is now. We're learning about the blues, which they have come to discover has its roots in African American spirituals and work songs sung by people in slavery. I guess if a parent comes in wanting me to include the experience of the slaveowners and white people in the Jim Crow south in this unit, I'll just have to be open minded and try to find a way to do it. Can I just point out the irony in this ‘apology’ containing more gaslighting? 🤷🏼♀️ Ok, moving on. So I guess someone sent out the peaCON bat signal? 💁🏼♀️😏 There was a thread on Northam, his actions and especially his response to it was and still is disgraceful, in my opinion. Quite happy to say that then, and now. It’s funny how no one ever sends one out when the GOP has done one of the many things in just the past year that actually blatantly threaten or undermine the democracy we all live in. Then it’s … 🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗. 🙄 Lots of defensiveness going on. Lots of blame gaming, labeling and excuses. Parents are not perfect but as parents, taxpayers (this includes teachers) and supporters of public schools we (parents) should have SOME say in what curriculum is taught considering the broad latitude states give school districts on overall requirements (at least my state). Public education is a partnership and to think otherwise is quite elitist. No one is doubting the decades of service, abilities, and skills of teachers but teachers don't own public education. The "your just a parent - you don't know jack about education" that comes across in many of these rebuttal comments is disheartening and concerns me for the kids in school today to be around so much anger and frustration, and dissonance. When public education steps into personal and societal values (which books do) and says school curriculum choices supersedes a family's chosen value system, then YES, parents are going to stand up and say something. To expect otherwise is obtuse. That's when we all have a choice - partner with parents to find a solution or keep being "abused" by parents raising their kids and being involved in their education. If teacher's don't want to partner with parents that's OK - send them to someone else in the district who wants to listen to feedback and address it. If parents keep being told by teachers that we are stupid, we are idiots, we don't know anything, then complain about being treated poorly - that's that definition of insanity. Status as a taxpayer does not entitle you to control over curriculum. Do you think people that live in town but don't have kids in the school system should also have a say in the curriculum? Community members do have a say in the curriculum through elected school board positions. Here's an analogy - paying customers don't give mechanics, pilots, electricians, plumbers etc opinions about how to do their jobs. Paying taxes does not entitle you to have control over how all kids in a school are taught. Schools are not superseding family values. They are trying to be inclusive and include all children. If you disagree with diversity, inclusion and equity, you can homeschool. I'm appalled at the backwardness, close mindedness, tone deafness and blatant racism of conservative parents concerned about their white children feeling guilty for slavery or how the Native Americans are treated vs the systematic racism children of color experience every single day.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Nov 5, 2021 18:59:38 GMT
YES, this!! ** Also posted on previous page Conservatives, especially the Christian right, have long taken a dim view of raising kids who can think for themselves. Their view is children should be "trained" to be obedient and submissive. Under the guise of "parents' rights," the Christian right is mainstreaming their hostility to the very idea that children have a right to an education. In this case, the right of a child to have a proper education that teaches critical thinking and intellectual curiosity.www.rawstory.com/school-board-meeting-2655504210/
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Post by Merge on Nov 5, 2021 19:38:29 GMT
Timely post on FB today:
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Post by Deleted on Nov 5, 2021 20:32:50 GMT
Timely post on FB today: I said it in a post earlier in the week.
The right wing wants to ensure their kids are as backwards, hateful and ignorant as they are.
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Post by sassyangel on Nov 5, 2021 20:42:18 GMT
Lots of defensiveness going on. Lots of blame gaming, labeling and excuses. Parents are not perfect but as parents, taxpayers (this includes teachers) and supporters of public schools we (parents) should have SOME say in what curriculum is taught considering the broad latitude states give school districts on overall requirements (at least my state). Public education is a partnership and to think otherwise is quite elitist. No one is doubting the decades of service, abilities, and skills of teachers but teachers don't own public education. The "your just a parent - you don't know jack about education" that comes across in many of these rebuttal comments is disheartening and concerns me for the kids in school today to be around so much anger and frustration, and dissonance. When public education steps into personal and societal values (which books do) and says school curriculum choices supersedes a family's chosen value system, then YES, parents are going to stand up and say something. To expect otherwise is obtuse. That's when we all have a choice - partner with parents to find a solution or keep being "abused" by parents raising their kids and being involved in their education. If teacher's don't want to partner with parents that's OK - send them to someone else in the district who wants to listen to feedback and address it. If parents keep being told by teachers that we are stupid, we are idiots, we don't know anything, then complain about being treated poorly - that's that definition of insanity. Status as a taxpayer does not entitle you to control over curriculum. Do you think people that live in town but don't have kids in the school system should also have a say in the curriculum? Community members do have a say in the curriculum through elected school board positions. Here's an analogy - paying customers don't give mechanics, pilots, electricians, plumbers etc opinions about how to do their jobs. Paying taxes does not entitle you to have control over how all kids in a school are taught. Schools are not superseding family values. They are trying to be inclusive and include all children. If you disagree with diversity, inclusion and equity, you can homeschool. I'm appalled at the backwardness, close mindedness, tone deafness and blatant racism of conservative parents concerned about their white children feeling guilty for slavery or how the Native Americans are treated vs the systematic racism children of color experience every single day. Yes, be careful with that logic. I’m a taxpayer. I also don’t have children. My property taxes go towards schools I will never personally utilize. I’m happy to do that, because I believe an educated people is a whole society benefit. I also back teachers that parents should not be deciding their curriculums. As a taxpayer, my say should carry the same weight, right? I believe teachers should teach and parents should parent. Parents can be a supplement to what is taught in school, or not taught. There is also room for parents who know their kids learning style to offer feedback on how best they might learn something so accommodations might be made, but there should not be room for parents to dictate curriculums entirely based on what they think their children need to learn. How does a school distract balance that? I’ve lost count of how many of my friends have realized over the last few years just how much of a profession of expertise and a calling teaching really is. It’s hard! And most definitely not for everyone. And if that’s what you want, you should avail yourself of homeschooling.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Nov 5, 2021 21:21:19 GMT
So I'm first going to acknowledge a lot of issues being discussed here, as well as some of the underlying drivers. BUT, I am extremely concerned that concentrating on the fringe, or most extreme component is causing people to miss how well this "movement" is picking up steam and drawing in parents who are far from extreme or nutjobs.
I will again point out the stats in my county - Biden won 80% of the vote in the last election, Trump could only manage 14%. Only 12% of people identify as very religious, with almost 2/3rs considering themselves not religious at all. Some site lists our county as one of the least religious in the entire country. Our schools' incorporated gender neutral bathrooms without any controversy at all and the support for LBQT is vibrant and while probably not universal - extremely robust.
How in the world could someone talking about parent involvement and CRT get 40% of the vote in a school board election? In the last election, the Republicans couldn't even find someone to RUN for the state representative race. This is no hotbed of conservatism or religious right or any of the other drivers people want to point use to explain what's happening.
I KNOW how hard the last 2 years have been for teachers. 2 of my cousins are teachers, as well as 2 of my closest friends. I've watched them struggle through the pandemic. Personally I think so many of the issues had more to do with how our society values or not education than anything else. And many of the administrators and politicians were just freaking stupid on so many levels - but somehow instead of parents and teachers pulling together, they became enemies.
The rhetoric on both sides is BAD - really bad. And I'll also say - there are a TON of students who are also struggling terribly. And unfortunately I think it's caused some desperation in some parents. One of my cousins works with ESL and ELL students and they are still so far from getting the support they desperately need. Parents who've worked so hard to get IEP and 504s in place, but are completely unable to see them implemented.
There is absolutely a component of complete wackadoodles - probably in some places the concentration is extremely high - but there are also a lot of parents who are genuinely concerned about their children. And they really don't want to micromanage teachers or dictate curriculum - but the DO want to be heard- and feel like things are moving in the right direction post pandemic. And right now unfortunately the only people who seem to be listening are the extremist and that's a terrible combination.
As I said from the outset, I don't have easy answers - but I'm genuinely concerned that things are going to get a whole lot worse.
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Post by refugeepea on Nov 5, 2021 21:50:37 GMT
So I'm first going to acknowledge a lot of issues being discussed here, as well as some of the underlying drivers. BUT, I am extremely concerned that concentrating on the fringe, or most extreme component is causing people to miss how well this "movement" is picking up steam and drawing in parents who are far from extreme or nutjobs. Yes, yes, yes!!! I know of a former teacher who thinks she will be microchipped if she gets the vaccine. It's not just the preppers, evangelicals, uneducated, or whatever image people have of those that are all of the sudden freaking out over curriculum.
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Post by aj2hall on Nov 5, 2021 22:22:29 GMT
I work as a paraprofessional in an elementary school, 1/2 day in a kindergarten class and the other half in a first grade classroom. So many of the kids are struggling both socially and academically. Many of them missed out on in person preschool. Our school was in person all of last year, but there were so many restrictions because of covid. Kids were not allowed to share materials and missed out on a lot of the social interactions, both in school and after school. Many of the things we would normally expect the first graders to be able to do independently, they need assistance to complete. Simple things like lining up didn't happen last year. Specials and lunch were all in the classroom, they only left for PE and recess. They didn't eat in the cafeteria, so the first grade lunch is really chaotic. The precautions were important to keep the kids safe and I know how hard the teachers worked through covid. Despite the teachers best efforts, there will be repurcussions for a long time. I can see how parents are frustrated with schools because of remote learning, restrictions and delays with their kids.
Initially, when schools switched to remote there were all kinds of memes and instagram posts about the value of teachers. But, the longer that dragged on, parents became resentful. In my opinion, teachers are being blamed for many things that are out of their control.
On the other hand, at my school, I know some of the staff and teachers felt expendable. Some of us felt that our administration prioritized being in person over our health and safety.
I think there are hard feelings all around.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Nov 5, 2021 22:33:25 GMT
I work as a paraprofessional in an elementary school, 1/2 day in a kindergarten class and the other half in a first grade classroom. So many of the kids are struggling both socially and academically. Many of them missed out on in person preschool. Our school was in person all of last year, but there were so many restrictions because of covid. Kids were not allowed to share materials and missed out on a lot of the social interactions, both in school and after school. Many of the things we would normally expect the first graders to be able to do independently, they need assistance to complete. Simple things like lining up didn't happen last year. Specials and lunch were all in the classroom, they only left for PE and recess. They didn't eat in the cafeteria, so the first grade lunch is really chaotic. The precautions were important to keep the kids safe and I know how hard the teachers worked through covid. Despite the teachers best efforts, there will be repurcussions for a long time. I can see how parents are frustrated with schools because of remote learning, restrictions and delays with their kids. Initially, when schools switched to remote there were all kinds of memes and instagram posts about the value of teachers. But, the longer that dragged on, parents became resentful. In my opinion, teachers are being blamed for many things that are out of their control. On the other hand, at my school, I know some of the staff and teachers felt expendable. Some of us felt that our administration prioritized being in person over our health and safety. I think there are hard feelings all around. I think this is sadly another result of the virus being made political. The virus should have been made the enemy. Not people who are trying to protect others. Were there costs to the sacrifices made to protect others and save lives? Sure. But I do believe that the loss in socialization and education will be made up shortly.
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Post by pixiechick on Nov 5, 2021 23:35:48 GMT
You claim that we aren't being fair or even correctly characterizing what parents are objecting to and I say you are not being fair in what you are presenting as evidence! Parents are objecting to the divisiveness of HOW the students are being taught. They're also objecting to the steering away from critical thinking by HOW the students are being taught. The shaming when they actually employ critical thinking and don't come up with what amounts to the "approved conclusion". And yes, it's being dismissed as "anybody objecting is just a racist". By the same mentality that claims the only reason anyone disagrees with Obama's policies is because they're a racist" then do a back flip to say the only reason a black woman got elected is because "the people that elected her love white supremacy". It's completely indisputably irrational.
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Post by pixiechick on Nov 5, 2021 23:41:30 GMT
So I guess someone sent out the peaCON bat signal? 💁🏼♀️😏 Every time you post this stupidity about a damn bat signal, you just show how much some of you despise any diversity of thought whatsoever.
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Post by Merge on Nov 5, 2021 23:50:42 GMT
I think some of us are conflating two issues here. Having concerns about learning and social emotional loss from last year is not remotely the same thing as wanting to control which age-appropriate books are in the school library based on your religious views, or wanting schools to teach only a whitewashed version of history for the comfort of white kids (or, more accurately, their parents).
But yeah, many of us are feeling thrown under the bus by parents and the system in general. Regardless of what anyone may think, we’re the ones showing up every day and doing our best for kids. Now, after a year in which many of us were shamed into risking our lives and health for the sake of said kids, and/or required to teach through two modes last year to keep every parent happy, we’re also being told that if we include a book or lesson that features the lived experiences of marginalized groups, we’re “indoctrinating” kids or incompetent and need the oversight of the same parent groups who threw us under the bus and demanded these things in the first place.
I do not believe for a moment that these parent groups have the best interest of school kids at heart. They have their own political and religious desires foremost. The teachers who show up to do that job every day are the ones working for kids.
We as a society need to back up and take a hard look at what we’re expecting of public schools for the amount we’re willing to pay - if indeed we’re interested in improving schools. But the thing is that the political interests behind these groups have a stated goal to destroy public schools, not improve them. So you’ll have to excuse us if we’re not inclined to take marching orders from the parents, however well meaning, who have been roped into that ridiculously transparent effort.
My primary concern is making sure that ALL the kids I teach get the best I can give them, and that means making sure that the first grader with two dads sees herself represented in literature and the fifth grade boy realizing he’s gay doesn’t feel marginalized. It means making sure that all of my students, including my students of color - and they outnumber white students 2:1 at my school - feel understood, seen, and celebrated, to the extent I can do that in the time I have with them. It also means spending extra time on SEL this year, and spending extra time teaching kids how to be successful in school, and frankly, I don’t have time for additional concerns because I also have content to teach.
I can’t change what happened during the pandemic, but I can guarantee you that whatever years I have left in teaching will be spent working and fighting for kids. All kids. I am continually listening, reading, and reflecting on my practice to do better for kids. I have no confidence that the parents who demand to ransack school libraries and preview lessons are similarly invested in all kids. I have no confidence that most parents who make noise want to help teachers and improve schools. All that was broken last year.
If indeed there are parents who want to help who have gotten mixed in with the parents who want to destroy, they need to separate themselves from those politically motivated groups ASAP. We can’t be expected to sort the lifeboats from the bombs when we’re all drowning.
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Post by aj2hall on Nov 6, 2021 2:01:08 GMT
So I'm first going to acknowledge a lot of issues being discussed here, as well as some of the underlying drivers. BUT, I am extremely concerned that concentrating on the fringe, or most extreme component is causing people to miss how well this "movement" is picking up steam and drawing in parents who are far from extreme or nutjobs. I will again point out the stats in my county - Biden won 80% of the vote in the last election, Trump could only manage 14%. Only 12% of people identify as very religious, with almost 2/3rs considering themselves not religious at all. Some site lists our county as one of the least religious in the entire country. Our schools' incorporated gender neutral bathrooms without any controversy at all and the support for LBQT is vibrant and while probably not universal - extremely robust. How in the world could someone talking about parent involvement and CRT get 40% of the vote in a school board election? In the last election, the Republicans couldn't even find someone to RUN for the state representative race. This is no hotbed of conservatism or religious right or any of the other drivers people want to point use to explain what's happening. I KNOW how hard the last 2 years have been for teachers. 2 of my cousins are teachers, as well as 2 of my closest friends. I've watched them struggle through the pandemic. Personally I think so many of the issues had more to do with how our society values or not education than anything else. And many of the administrators and politicians were just freaking stupid on so many levels - but somehow instead of parents and teachers pulling together, they became enemies. The rhetoric on both sides is BAD - really bad. And I'll also say - there are a TON of students who are also struggling terribly. And unfortunately I think it's caused some desperation in some parents. One of my cousins works with ESL and ELL students and they are still so far from getting the support they desperately need. Parents who've worked so hard to get IEP and 504s in place, but are completely unable to see them implemented.There is absolutely a component of complete wackadoodles - probably in some places the concentration is extremely high - but there are also a lot of parents who are genuinely concerned about their children. And they really don't want to micromanage teachers or dictate curriculum - but the DO want to be heard- and feel like things are moving in the right direction post pandemic. And right now unfortunately the only people who seem to be listening are the extremist and that's a terrible combination. As I said from the outset, I don't have easy answers - but I'm genuinely concerned that things are going to get a whole lot worse. Sorry, I should have been more clear in my previous post. This is what I was responding to, in part. I think in Virginia, some parents are frustrated with schools because of education during covid. Some of those concerns might be legitimate, but much of that is out of teachers control. But, some parents blamed the Democrats and McAuliffe and sided with Youngkin. Then, there's another group of parents that want to control what's taught in classrooms. I know that every school handled remote learning and covid differently. In my school, special education case managers went out of their way to accomodate special education students. Even driving to students houses and trying to work with them from their car in the driveway. Some students received occupational or physical therapy through a local hospital when they returned to in person sessions. In the fall of 2020, when we returned to in person school, we held IEP meetings with every family to discuss compensatory services for those missed during covid. I understand every family, every school, every district is different. Teachers and staff are not working in education for the money. They spend their own money on classroom supplies, their own time on lesson plans, emails and phone calls to families etc. In the best of circumstances, they work really hard for not a lot of pay and are underappreciated. Add in covid, and many educators felt like they were thrown under the bus, risking their own health to teach. And now, for parents to insist that they are more knowledgeable about curriculum and should have control over what is taught is insulting and demeaning.
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Post by aj2hall on Nov 6, 2021 2:11:18 GMT
You claim that we aren't being fair or even correctly characterizing what parents are objecting to and I say you are not being fair in what you are presenting as evidence! Parents are objecting to the divisiveness of HOW the students are being taught. They're also objecting to the steering away from critical thinking by HOW the students are being taught. The shaming when they actually employ critical thinking and don't come up with what amounts to the "approved conclusion".And yes, it's being dismissed as "anybody objecting is just a racist". By the same mentality that claims the only reason anyone disagrees with Obama's policies is because they're a racist" then do a back flip to say the only reason a black woman got elected is because "the people that elected her love white supremacy". It's completely indisputably irrational. What evidence do you have that this is actually happening in schools? The 2016 election was in part, a reaction and backlash to having a black president. Anyone that insists it had nothing to do with race is just ignorant. Some of the voters in Virginia that voted for a black lieutenant governor also elected Youngkin who stirred up fear, racism and bigotry. The Republican party has embraced white supremacy and domestic terrorists like the Oath Breakers. It's entirely possible to be racist and vote for a black lieutenant governor. They're not mutually exclusive. I'm guessing that many who voted for her are uninformed and don't even know that she's black. She has a R after her name, that's all that matters.
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Post by pixiechick on Nov 6, 2021 3:05:17 GMT
Parents are objecting to the divisiveness of HOW the students are being taught. They're also objecting to the steering away from critical thinking by HOW the students are being taught. The shaming when they actually employ critical thinking and don't come up with what amounts to the "approved conclusion".And yes, it's being dismissed as "anybody objecting is just a racist". By the same mentality that claims the only reason anyone disagrees with Obama's policies is because they're a racist" then do a back flip to say the only reason a black woman got elected is because "the people that elected her love white supremacy". It's completely indisputably irrational. What evidence do you have that this is actually happening in schools? The 2016 election was in part, a reaction and backlash to having a black president. Anyone that insists it had nothing to do with race is just ignorant. Some of the voters in Virginia that voted for a black lieutenant governor also elected Youngkin who stirred up fear, racism and bigotry. The Republican party has embraced white supremacy and domestic terrorists like the Oath Breakers. It's entirely possible to be racist and vote for a black lieutenant governor. They're not mutually exclusive. I'm guessing that many who voted for her are uninformed and don't even know that she's black. She has a R after her name, that's all that matters. Your guess is just that. A guess. And meaningless since it's just a guess. Of course by saying "just a guess" you can say anything and act like you've proven some made up point. The 2016 election was in part, a reaction and backlash to having a black president. Your entire post is what 2016 was a reaction to. People are tired of everything being called racist except the effing racists. Y'all call everything you don't agree with racist and then wonder why you keep losing. McAuliffe used a racist hoax against his opponent. IF he didn't set it up, he certainly did use it to try to "disqualify" Youngkin. And he lost. Youngkin was apparently so "racist" that the Left had to manufacture racism and put it in place in front of him in order to show how racist he is since even they knew they couldn't win on their own merits. That's not only evil, it's racist as hell. Actual racism. From the Left.
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Post by aj2hall on Nov 6, 2021 3:32:47 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Nov 6, 2021 3:37:29 GMT
angry, willfully ignorant white people The fuel of the GOP engine - for decades.
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Post by pixiechick on Nov 6, 2021 4:13:46 GMT
It’s not a guess that voters are uniformed. You SAID "I'm guessing that many who voted for her are uninformed and don't even know that she's black. She has a R after her name, that's all that matters." Furthermore, both candidates for lieutenant governor in Virginia are women of color. So, the election of a woman of color does not in any way prove that Virginia voters were not motivated by racism. It certainly doesn't prove that they are. Also, the McAuliffe campaign was not involved in the “hoax” as you claim. He actually tweeted that "it should disqualify Youngkin". And you conveniently ignored my question about evidence that teachers are steering away from teaching children to think critically. You conveniently ignored the evidence I already posted.
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Post by aj2hall on Nov 6, 2021 4:33:12 GMT
It’s not a guess that voters are uniformed. You SAID "I'm guessing that many who voted for her are uninformed and don't even know that she's black. She has a R after her name, that's all that matters." Furthermore, both candidates for lieutenant governor in Virginia are women of color. So, the election of a woman of color does not in any way prove that Virginia voters were not motivated by racism. It certainly doesn't prove that they are. Also, the McAuliffe campaign was not involved in the “hoax” as you claim. He actually tweeted that "it should disqualify Youngkin". And you conveniently ignored my question about evidence that teachers are steering away from teaching children to think critically. You conveniently ignored the evidence I already posted. What evidence did you post that teachers are steering away from critical thinking? eta - I see that you posted one letter and one video. From the perspective of 1 teacher and 1 parent. I’m sure it would be easy to find videos or letters contradicting them. Even if you accept both as factual, they are only relevant to those 2 schools and not evidence of steering away from critical thinking. On this thread, it’s been posted that the election of a black lieutenant governor is proof that the election was not based on race. Yes, it’s significant but it absolutely does not prove that the election was not based on race. Plenty of evidence of how the election was based on race has been posted. You claimed that McAuliffe was involved in the “hoax”. He had nothing to do with it and all of the nonsense that you posted after that is false, based on a false premise. Moving goalposts again. You have not provided evidence or proof of anything on this thread. Just false claims, false premises, factual inaccuracies, spin and gaslighting.
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Post by pixiechick on Nov 6, 2021 5:07:22 GMT
What evidence did you post that teachers are steering away from critical thinking? eta - I see that you posted one letter and one video. From the perspective of 1 teacher and 1 parent. I’m sure it would be easy to find videos or letters contradicting them. Even if you accept both as factual, they are only relevant to those 2 schools and not evidence of steering away from critical thinking. Find Just because I provided only proof of 2 out of thousands experiencing it, doesn't mean they don't exist. Clearly they do. More evidence is in the election and NOT voting in the guy who said parents shouldn't have a voice in their child's education. On this thread, it’s been posted that the election of a black lieutenant governor is proof that the election was not based on race. Yes, it’s significant but it absolutely does not prove that the election was not based on race. Plenty of evidence of how the election was based on race has been posted.I did not say, that it was proof they weren't racist. I pushed back against the assertion that voting for her IS proves they are racist. I didn't see any evidence, that election was based on race. I saw a lot of assertions that it was, that's not evidence. You claimed that McAuliffe was involved in the “hoax”. He had nothing to do with it and all of the nonsense that you posted after that is false, based on a false premise. Moving goalposts again. I never claimed he was involved. I said "McAuliffe used a racist hoax against his opponent. IF he didn't set it up, he certainly did use it to try to "disqualify" Youngkin. And he lost." Not moving any goal posts. They remain in the original place. You have not provided evidence or proof of anything on this thread. Just false claims, false premises, factual inaccuracies, spin and gaslighting. Just because you don't like the evidence and it shows you something you don't want tp believe, doesn't mean I didn't provide any, or that those people don't exist in the thousands.
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Post by onelasttime on Nov 6, 2021 5:08:26 GMT
It’s not a guess that voters are uniformed. You SAID "I'm guessing that many who voted for her are uninformed and don't even know that she's black. She has a R after her name, that's all that matters." Furthermore, both candidates for lieutenant governor in Virginia are women of color. So, the election of a woman of color does not in any way prove that Virginia voters were not motivated by racism. It certainly doesn't prove that they are. Also, the McAuliffe campaign was not involved in the “hoax” as you claim. He actually tweeted that "it should disqualify Youngkin". And you conveniently ignored my question about evidence that teachers are steering away from teaching children to think critically. You conveniently ignored the evidence I already posted.You mean that letter and Twitter speech is your evidence? Really? That is the opinion of two people. Yes the teacher said in her professional opinion but it’s still one persons opinion. And yes her opinion is based on her experiences which does not necessarily mean her experiences and observations are happening at every school in America. In other words it’s not an actual study with data from a sampling of schools across America.
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Post by aj2hall on Nov 6, 2021 6:03:10 GMT
Evidence that the Virginia race was based in part on race, not just an assertion. from the article linked Call it a "racist dog whistle," as McAuliffe did; call it white grievance, but Democrats have to come up with a convincing way to answer the (often false) charges about how children are being taught about structural racism in schools.
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Post by aj2hall on Nov 6, 2021 6:08:42 GMT
www.npr.org/2021/11/03/1051974843/why-republicans-did-well-in-the-virginia-and-new-jersey-electionsThe result in the Virginia governor's race Tuesday night highlighted some major shifts in the electorate, according to exit polls. (There were no exit polls in New Jersey.) The shifts were notable, especially considering that education and how children are taught in schools about racism dominated as a campaign issue.Overall, the electorate in Virginia was older and whiter than in the 2020 presidential election — both were advantages for Republican Glenn Youngkin. More evidence of how race played a role in the election.
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Post by pixiechick on Nov 6, 2021 6:11:35 GMT
You SAID "I'm guessing that many who voted for her are uninformed and don't even know that she's black. She has a R after her name, that's all that matters." It certainly doesn't prove that they are. He actually tweeted that "it should disqualify Youngkin". You conveniently ignored the evidence I already posted.You mean that letter and Twitter speech is your evidence? Really? That is the opinion of two people. Yes the teacher said in her professional opinion but it’s still one persons opinion. And yes her opinion is based on her experiences which does not necessarily mean her experiences and observations are happening at every school in America. In other words it’s not an actual study with data from a sampling of schools across America.
VIDEO LINK A teacher in Loudon County trying to get someone to go against their own critical thinking to parrot the narrative. At the end of the video another teacher standing up in public and saying what the problem is.Another one with students being forced to conform to the "approved" narrative: Another teacher resigning because of it. The superintendent sent out an email that stated you are not allowed to have a dissenting opinion even in your personal life and asking teachers to snitch on each other. DIVISIVE:
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