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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Jul 26, 2022 12:35:14 GMT
I was checking in for any further updates and don’t want to leave out without offering you more support. If you think of anything tangible we can do, please let us know.
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oh yvonne
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Post by oh yvonne on Jul 26, 2022 14:29:39 GMT
Checking in as well, sending my love and prayers that his progress continues. Poor mama <hugs> I'm so so sorry you are all going though this. Heartbreaking.
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Rhondito
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Post by Rhondito on Jul 26, 2022 15:02:11 GMT
Popping in to check for updates. Still praying. (((hugs)))
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Post by silverlining on Jul 26, 2022 16:54:40 GMT
I'm very late to this thread, but so relieved to see your son will be moved out of the ICU soon. I'm praying for continued healing for your son and strength for you and all those who love him.
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msliz
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Post by msliz on Jul 27, 2022 0:54:29 GMT
Thinking of you and your son tonight
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Post by misse336 on Jul 27, 2022 0:57:05 GMT
I just saw this thread. I am so sorry. As a mom, I can't imagine what you are going through. Praying your son is able to continue to recover and the therapy he's going to get is able to help him.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Jul 27, 2022 4:26:47 GMT
mom thinking about your DS, as well as your whole family. (((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))
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peaname
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Post by peaname on Aug 6, 2022 12:38:38 GMT
I hope he is continuing to improve!
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Post by christine58 on Aug 6, 2022 14:14:45 GMT
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Post by hmp on Aug 6, 2022 14:21:55 GMT
Hoping you all are continuing to heal. Hugs to you & your family.
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Post by gramasue on Aug 6, 2022 23:07:13 GMT
Sending hugs and continued prayers.
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Post by Skellinton on Aug 7, 2022 0:18:56 GMT
Adding my prayers and positive thoughts to you, your son and family.
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TankTop
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Post by TankTop on Aug 7, 2022 0:55:30 GMT
Thinking of you all.
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Post by auntiepeas on Aug 7, 2022 2:57:07 GMT
I’ve just seen your latest update and am so grateful your ds seems to be recovering relatively well under the circumstances. Continuing to think of and pray for you all.💚
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Post by freecharlie on Aug 7, 2022 12:55:34 GMT
I'm glad he seems to be doing better. You all continue to be in my thoughts
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Post by mikklynn on Aug 7, 2022 13:09:53 GMT
Thank you for updating us. I am so happy to hear he's home and making improvements. Giant hugs to you, mom.
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ddly
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Post by ddly on Aug 7, 2022 13:29:07 GMT
I’m glad he’s improving. I’m sad he’s back with the girlfriend.
My dd was on an anxiety med once that made her suicidal. It was a rough time but she was able to tell us what was happening after a bit and a change in medication made a big difference. I’m not sure if she hadn’t been in therapy should would have been able to do that. Granted this is definitely not the same as what you are going through but my goal is to give a little hope that a change in meds may help with those thoughts. My dd said that it’s hard enough to learn to cope with anxiety.
I will continue to keep him and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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Post by quinlove on Aug 7, 2022 13:49:56 GMT
((( mom ))) Thank you for the update. Sounds promising to me. I have heard that certain meds for anxiety and depression can cause suicidal thoughts in people who have NO desire to want to do this. I would go as far, as an untrained person, to say it’s somewhat common with these drugs. It’s a serious hit and miss situation usually, trying to find the right medicine to help with mental health needs. You know your son best. But, I think (hope) that it was the medicine talking and not him. ❤️
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Post by smcast on Aug 7, 2022 14:23:07 GMT
Hugs to you, mom. Prayers he continues in the right direction. Your ds has had a lot to juggle and maybe the girlfriend will be on the way out as he heals. Fingers crossed he sees that she isn't part of his future to stay healthy.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Aug 7, 2022 14:49:05 GMT
Having read your update, I understand your worry. But there’s much that’s positive in there too. Hopefully he’ll build on those positives and get himself to a healthier place. I’ll be pulling for him.
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Post by stormsts on Aug 7, 2022 16:55:53 GMT
I’m happy to read your update. I’ll continue to keep all of you in my thoughts.
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Jili
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Post by Jili on Aug 7, 2022 17:05:19 GMT
Just read your update. It seems like some positive baby steps, and at the same time, your feelings are totally valid. Thinking of you and hoping things continue to improve all around.
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Post by gramasue on Aug 7, 2022 17:10:13 GMT
I'm glad to read that he's home and seems to be doing well. I hope he continues to recognize his value and worth. I agree, I think it was the meds that created suicidal thoughts. So glad he's off them! It is one of those 'one day at a time' situations. Please know that you have our positive thoughts coming your way from 'Pea-Land' that things will gradually calm down and your son feels better and better. Take care of yourself.
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janeliz
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Post by janeliz on Aug 7, 2022 17:14:04 GMT
Thinking about you, mom. I’m so glad he’s making steps in his recovery, but I know you are still carrying a lot of worry. ((Hugs))
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Post by lucyg on Aug 7, 2022 18:51:11 GMT
Your update makes me feel hopeful. I understand you still have fears to deal with, but at least things are looking up now. Hopefully he will lose the girlfriend as he starts feeling better. Hugs to you again. So hard to get through.
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janeinbama
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Post by janeinbama on Aug 7, 2022 19:01:12 GMT
So glad to see an update from you MOM. So happy he wants to do things with the family. There are no telling what the GF has told your son and I hope he sees through her soon.
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Post by alsomsknit on Aug 7, 2022 19:03:44 GMT
Wellbutrin is just awful. I was on it for 2 to 3 weeks. One night I was taking a shower and went from a desire to leave, wanting to self-harm (previous cutter), to thinking about suicide. Seriously, boom-boom-boom. Thankfully, I knew what was happening, as I had this side effect from Lupron years before, when I had started cutting, but was having some serious suicidal ideation.
The night of the Wellbutrin issue, I knew enough to stay up and busy myself with movies. Waiting for my husband to arrive home from work. I would not go to bed because the thoughts were particularly prevalent when I was trying to go to sleep in the past.
I really hope the Wellbutrin was your son’s issue. At least he is now aware of the dangers and can get immediate help.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Aug 7, 2022 19:29:11 GMT
mom thanks for the update.. Glad he's out of the hospital and participating with family. I will stay cautiously optimistic for his full recovery. (((((((((((HUGS)))))))))) for mom!!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 7, 2022 20:16:06 GMT
I've been away for a couple of weeks and just reading this now. I'm so glad he is doing much better. One thing that we did for my child when they were struggling was to take the Genesight test. Genesight We discovered that the 3 different anti-depressants they had tried were not compatible. We switched immediately and the change was incredible. I highly suggest you consider it for DS. Also, do you think he would agree to an outpatient facility? We also did that and it was the exact tool that we didn't know we needed. It gave them a very good foundation to tackle the every day life while recovering from a suicide attempt. You can always PM me if you'd like more info. I will keep you all in my prayers.
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Post by mollycoddle on Aug 7, 2022 20:30:38 GMT
It’s great that some positive things are happening. I hope that he continues to improve, and that he dumps the girlfriend. Remember to take care of YOU.
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