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Post by freecharlie on Aug 11, 2022 1:37:32 GMT
Currently I have as stbx name
What should I put for him in my phone.
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Post by leannec on Aug 11, 2022 1:39:03 GMT
Loser?
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Post by elaine on Aug 11, 2022 1:41:23 GMT
Dick Head
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Aug 11, 2022 1:43:45 GMT
Xh!
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Post by Merge on Aug 11, 2022 1:46:50 GMT
The Former Guy?
200 lbs lost? (Or whatever he weighs)
Goodbye, Earl?
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Post by peanutterbutter on Aug 11, 2022 1:51:25 GMT
No longer my problem
Sayonara Sucker
Loserville
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Post by mollycoddle on Aug 11, 2022 1:59:59 GMT
Why not just X?
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Post by busy on Aug 11, 2022 2:09:57 GMT
I'd just leave his name. Your kids will see it and though they are older and can draw their own conclusions about what a douchebag he is, I still wouldn't want to call their dad names that they could see/hear.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Aug 11, 2022 2:16:04 GMT
Mr Asshole
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Post by MerryMom on Aug 11, 2022 2:25:35 GMT
I'd just leave his name. Your kids will see it and despite they are older and can draw their own conclusions about what a douchebag he is, I still wouldn't want to call their dad names that they could see/hear. This. |
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Post by kattock on Aug 11, 2022 2:43:35 GMT
After my divorce, I found that seeing my ex’s name pop up when he texted or called brought me a ton of anxiety. I didn’t think that changing to any kind of nickname for him would really change that, but I eventually decided to add his last name to the contact info. Something about doing that added enough distance to make the interaction less stressful somehow. Plus, my kids didn’t accidentally see me label their dad with an unkind name, even though they would have understood.  Wishing you a lifetime of peace… |
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Post by buddysmom on Aug 11, 2022 2:47:43 GMT
POS
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Post by jemali on Aug 11, 2022 2:51:55 GMT
If you don’t want to see his name come up how about just his initials?
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Post by crazy4scraps on Aug 11, 2022 2:59:23 GMT
Not My Circus (or Not My Monkey)
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Aug 11, 2022 2:59:55 GMT
Suggested Xh.
Why? X puts him at the end of your contacts. h is to make him small.
Thus Xh...
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Post by ~summer~ on Aug 11, 2022 3:09:12 GMT
I would just do his first name.
I feel like it would create a lot of negative energy to see something like “loser” etc.
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Post by 950nancy on Aug 11, 2022 3:09:52 GMT
grass
Changing that to incubus
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Post by amom23 on Aug 11, 2022 3:17:48 GMT
I'd just leave his name. Your kids will see it and though they are older and can draw their own conclusions about what a douchebag he is, I still wouldn't want to call their dad names that they could see/hear. As the child of divorced parents I totally agree with this. |
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Post by magenta on Aug 11, 2022 5:44:19 GMT
From one of your posts: "I'll be okay"
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Post by Why on Aug 11, 2022 6:00:19 GMT
HB To your kids it can be "Husband Before"  ...doesn't sound like a slur or put down. But you will know it is really "Has Been"  *has-been*nounINFORMAL a person or thing considered to be outmoded or no longer of any significance. "a political has-been" |
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Post by maryannscraps on Aug 11, 2022 10:59:58 GMT
Much as I'd want to put a nasty word in there for him, I'd take busy's advice and leave it be. Maybe take revirdsuba99's advice to stick an X in front of his last name, so it goes to the bottom of the list and you don't see it as often. |
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Post by Bridget in MD on Aug 11, 2022 12:25:08 GMT
Suggested Xh. Why? X puts him at the end of your contacts. h is to make him small. Thus Xh... While I would LOVE to put him as "ass wipe" I think this is the best idea! |
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Post by cat2007 on Aug 11, 2022 12:44:02 GMT
Asswipe
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Post by gramasue on Aug 11, 2022 12:44:39 GMT
How about Hno1. Stands for husband number one. Look to the future! Hopefully there's a great guy out there just waiting to meet a great gal like you!
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Post by papersilly on Aug 11, 2022 12:45:17 GMT
For anyone I really don't want to see in the general population of my contacts, I put "zzz" in front of their name. Talk about being on the end all, be all list. Lol
I agree with Busy, though. as a child of divorce, there should still be certain level of respect maintained regardless of how much of an ass he was/is. I'm sure the kids would appreciate not seeing a rude nickname for you on his phone.
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Post by iowagirl50147 on Aug 11, 2022 12:59:26 GMT
The Former
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Post by mimima on Aug 11, 2022 14:42:58 GMT
Wasband
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Post by Nanner on Aug 11, 2022 15:15:08 GMT
I just left his name on mine. My kids were younger, though
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Post by littlemama on Aug 11, 2022 16:01:14 GMT
"Deleted"
"Do Not Answer"
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Post by Baseballmom23 on Aug 11, 2022 18:05:02 GMT
sperm donor
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