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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Sept 24, 2024 20:42:59 GMT
The latest photo: There is no reason to post photos like that on social media.
Attention seekers. How embarrassing for their children.
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Post by marmargirl on Sept 24, 2024 23:45:19 GMT
Her kids lost their father, his kids have been through the trauma of divorce.... I'm SURE the kids love seeing these public photos! Another reason I hate about influenzas is that they don't think of the BULLYING their kids might endure because of their vanity and need for "likes".
Gross.
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pantsonfire
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Post by pantsonfire on Sept 25, 2024 0:43:55 GMT
I honestly think he grabs his package and tucks it up while wearing obviously too small of swim trunks on purpose. (You can see them cutting into his sides)
These social media "influencers" do some stupid stuff to get attention.
She needs to see a qualified therapist as do her kids. And he needs to learn how to buy clothing.
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pantsonfire
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Post by pantsonfire on Sept 25, 2024 0:46:27 GMT
Btw who is taking care of her kids while she is out having fun with her boy toy?
I mean no shame to couples who get away every year for a break but she is away a lot AND her kids lost their dad.
She needs to focus on them, not her dick on a stick.
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Post by mom on Sept 25, 2024 16:01:56 GMT
I honestly think he grabs his package and tucks it up while wearing obviously too small of swim trunks on purpose. (You can see them cutting into his sides) These social media "influencers" do some stupid stuff to get attention. She needs to see a qualified therapist as do her kids. And he needs to learn how to buy clothing. I wouldn't be shocked if she wasn't trying to get into the reality tv world with the other Utah women.
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Post by gramma on Sept 25, 2024 18:30:01 GMT
I honestly think he grabs his package and tucks it up while wearing obviously too small of swim trunks on purpose. (You can see them cutting into his sides) I think it's a spare pair of socks
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Post by pantsonfire on Sept 25, 2024 18:30:41 GMT
I honestly think he grabs his package and tucks it up while wearing obviously too small of swim trunks on purpose. (You can see them cutting into his sides) I think it's a spare pair of socks 😆😂🤣 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
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Post by Night Owl on Sept 25, 2024 18:42:11 GMT
Somebody who lives by her said her son misses her because she leaves him a lot and today I noticed she featured him in pictures. I don't know if that was a response but I hope she does give him more attention offline.
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Post by pantsonfire on Sept 25, 2024 18:46:38 GMT
Somebody who lives by her said her son misses her because she leaves him a lot and today I noticed she featured him in pictures. I don't know if that was a response but I hope she does give him more attention offline. Wow. What a shitty parent.
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Post by riversong1963 on Sept 26, 2024 15:02:08 GMT
He's stuffing his shorts. It doesn't look natural. Pathetic. People should stop paying attention to them and feeding the SEO. It is hard, though, like a train wreck. You don't want to look, but it's difficult not to. I don't bother with attention seekers myself, but it is sometimes very tempting.
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Post by paperwhoreder on Sept 26, 2024 20:43:50 GMT
And if these two would cheat on their spouses, they'll cheat on each other. We'll see how long this lasts. They are truly nasty and we don’t need to see his junk 🍆at “attention” for Dear Lizzy.
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Post by mom on Sept 27, 2024 2:15:06 GMT
And if these two would cheat on their spouses, they'll cheat on each other. We'll see how long this lasts. They are truly nasty and we don’t need to see his junk 🍆at “attention” for Dear Lizzy. Ya lose 'em like you got them....
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Post by sleepingbooty on Sept 27, 2024 19:05:23 GMT
She needs to see a qualified therapist as do her kids. And he needs to learn how to buy clothing. Didn't she become a certified therapist herself just last year? It's truly a bonkers situation.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Sept 27, 2024 19:44:13 GMT
She needs to see a qualified therapist as do her kids. And he needs to learn how to buy clothing. Didn't she become a certified therapist herself just last year? It's truly a bonkers situation. Even if she did get a degree and certified as a Therapist......I personally think her inappropriate behavior disqualifies her from counseling and giving advice, to someone who is truly in need of counseling and help. Based on my own life experience....a narcissist, especially one who has a "desperate need for attention" to be on her at all times and to be the proverbial "star of the show" doesn't have the compassion, nurturing, empathy, and selflessness to focus on someone other than themselves. A narcissist is all about themselves and no one else. A narcissist "influencer" does EVERYTHING for show and for the ATTENTION it bring them. She seems to thrive on extreme "OVERSHARING" everything in her life. Everything she does seems to be about gaining attention for herself. Hipaa laws would prevent her from gaining any attention at all, as a therapist to someone. Her narcissist self, wouldn't thrive on that.
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Post by scrappintoee on Sept 27, 2024 21:24:00 GMT
Btw who is taking care of her kids while she is out having fun with her boy toy? I mean no shame to couples who get away every year for a break but she is away a lot AND her kids lost their dad. She needs to focus on them, not her dick on a stick.THANK You for making me LOL! Did you see the multiple photos about "GRIEF" where she's the major focal point of the photos while hugging an elderly family member? It just seems sooo performative and fake. The next photo also focuses on her little yoga outfit AGAIN. At least there weren't any piks of dick on a stick in that post.
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Post by scrappintoee on Sept 27, 2024 21:36:43 GMT
@scrapbookmylife...... Everything you said is so true! Can you even imagine if, after a few sessions of pouring their heart out to her, they saw her IG? I'm fascinated by human behavior/ mental illness, and everything I've read says narcissists CAN NOT change, because they don't WANT to....that's scary but also fascinating to me. (same with Borderline Personality Disorder, but that's a whole other topic!)
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Post by sleepingbooty on Sept 27, 2024 21:52:02 GMT
Didn't she become a certified therapist herself just last year? It's truly a bonkers situation. Even if she did get a degree and certified as a Therapist......I personally think her inappropriate behavior disqualifies her from counseling and giving advice, to someone who is truly in need of counseling and help. Based on my own life experience....a narcissist, especially one who has a "desperate need for attention" to be on her at all times and to be the proverbial "star of the show" doesn't have the compassion, nurturing, empathy, and selflessness to focus on someone other than themselves. A narcissist is all about themselves and no one else. A narcissist "influencer" does EVERYTHING for show and for the ATTENTION it bring them. She seems to thrive on extreme "OVERSHARING" everything in her life. Everything she does seems to be about gaining attention for herself. Hipaa laws would prevent her from gaining any attention at all, as a therapist to someone. Her narcissist self, wouldn't thrive on that. Unfortunately, there are therapists who are quite a ways on the narcissistic spectrum including actual NPD. The superior-inferior relationship between the therapist and vulnerable client attracts some of them. They make the worst couple therapists as they will gladly join in on the gaslighting and victim-blaming of the "weak" partner. There are some good articles out there on helping to identify toxic therapists like this one if anyone reading this is ever in need. I, however, don't see Lizzy becoming a full-time therapist. I think achieving her Master's and certification was more of a vanity project than a career path after Collin's death. She's completely absorbed by her influencer lifestyle and keeping up appearances with her fellow gym rat.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Sept 27, 2024 22:54:46 GMT
I'm fascinated by human behavior/ mental illness, and everything I've read says narcissists CAN NOT change, because they don't WANT to....that's scary but also fascinating to me. (same with Borderline Personality Disorder, but that's a whole other topic!) I too am fascinated by human behavior. Especially the healing aspect of it. How exactly do I heal? When do I know when I am healed? What is the process during the healing phase? Why do some wounds and trauma always feel so raw? Can a person fully heal? I love discussion about the healing journey.
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Post by pocketaddict on Sept 28, 2024 15:20:25 GMT
I'm fascinated by human behavior/ mental illness, and everything I've read says narcissists CAN NOT change, because they don't WANT to....that's scary but also fascinating to me. (same with Borderline Personality Disorder, but that's a whole other topic!) I too am fascinated by human behavior. Especially the healing aspect of it. How exactly do I heal? When do I know when I am healed? What is the process during the healing phase? Why do some wounds and trauma always feel so raw? Can a person fully heal? I love discussion about the healing journey. Since you mentioned it- I really enjoyed and recommend the book "what it takes to heal". The author said her working definition for healing is: "the process, often lifelong, of restoring and reawakening the capacities for safety, belonging, and dignity, on the other side of trauma." She expands on what these three capacities are and how they are lost - very powerful. Then she wrote: "even when our conditions change, we can struggle internally to feel or believe that these 3 capacities are possible for us. we may never feel safe even though we have what we need. we may question belonging even when we are clearly wanted. we may live with a persistent shame that doesn't allow for boundaries or choices that care for us. it's the fracturing of these capacities that follow us through our lives." Very illuminating book. I took lots of notes as you can see.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Sept 28, 2024 17:01:07 GMT
I too am fascinated by human behavior. Especially the healing aspect of it. How exactly do I heal? When do I know when I am healed? What is the process during the healing phase? Why do some wounds and trauma always feel so raw? Can a person fully heal? I love discussion about the healing journey. Since you mentioned it- I really enjoyed and recommend the book "what it takes to heal". The author said her working definition for healing is: "the process, often lifelong, of restoring and reawakening the capacities for safety, belonging, and dignity, on the other side of trauma." She expands on what these three capacities are and how they are lost - very powerful. Then she wrote: "even when our conditions change, we can struggle internally to feel or believe that these 3 capacities are possible for us. we may never feel safe even though we have what we need. we may question belonging even when we are clearly wanted. we may live with a persistent shame that doesn't allow for boundaries or choices that care for us. it's the fracturing of these capacities that follow us through our lives." Very illuminating book. I took lots of notes as you can see. I've read that book. Very informative.
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Post by edie3 on Oct 1, 2024 2:05:14 GMT
How can you talk about grieving for your husband yet post photos like these? Is it even possible to do both?
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Oct 1, 2024 18:05:40 GMT
How can you talk about grieving for your husband yet post photos like these? Is it even possible to do both? It's not about grieving. IT'S ABOUT HER GETTING AS MUCH ATTENTION AS POSSIBLE. She is desperate for attention. She will post whatever it takes, in order to get attention. Grief, inappropriate photographs, inappropriate behavior, her children, her personal drama (cutting up a gift card that was given to her by someone she doesn't like, her now late Husband flipping off Law Enforcement), etc... she doesn't leave anything out.
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Post by steakgoddess on Oct 3, 2024 4:43:42 GMT
How can you talk about grieving for your husband yet post photos like these? Is it even possible to do both? I think you can grieve and still go slut-nuts. JMHO. I thought she needed professional help after her husband died, and I still think she does.
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Post by mom on Oct 3, 2024 18:50:32 GMT
How can you talk about grieving for your husband yet post photos like these? Is it even possible to do both? I think you can do both -- but I am not sure it's healthy. Maybe it is, though? I will be honest - after my mom passed, my dad had his version of old man slutty. And even at 34 (the age I was when my mom died), it was deeply painful + embarrassing, really. I cannot imagine being a kid or teenager dealing with that. I so wish my dad had taken his time with healing and dating and marriage. 10 years later, he still isn't healed from the loss, he's married to a much younger woman and regrets it. He's also lost any meaningful relationship with some of my siblings. But he's 80 now, and it is what it is. I just wish he'd made different choices and could spend these years happy.
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Post by paperwhoreder on Oct 10, 2024 3:19:01 GMT
New pics up on her IG...and the teets (and ass) are all out! smh
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Post by Night Owl on Oct 10, 2024 4:20:29 GMT
New pics up on her IG...and the teets (and ass) are all out! smh LOL at myself, I just ran to IG to look and it was my top post on there. I know I sound like a prude but this guy gives off horn dog vibes that would make me uncomfortable to have him around my kids. Is her point to make us jealous that they are hot for each other because all it does is make me question her judgment.
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Post by pantsonfire on Oct 10, 2024 5:00:55 GMT
New pics up on her IG...and the teets (and ass) are all out! smh Eh those aren't bad. More normal beach pics He also has looser fitting swim trunks on.
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Post by Night Owl on Oct 10, 2024 16:04:35 GMT
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Post by sleepingbooty on Oct 10, 2024 18:08:58 GMT
Laughing my derrière off at the top comment: "I used to workout at the same gym as them during that time.. I thought they were married 😂😂😂" @dearlizzy:
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Post by mom on Oct 14, 2024 21:56:30 GMT
Oooof. Nothing like re-writing history.
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