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Post by littlemama on May 21, 2024 12:51:05 GMT
I so appreciate all the love from the peas as we navigate this cancer mess. Sorry for taking over this thread with my woes 🥰 Sorry, but I'd like to read about the op. Are you freaking serious right now? I really hope you arent saying what it looks like you are saying.
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Post by samantha25 on May 21, 2024 13:47:54 GMT
Yep.
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Post by gramma on May 21, 2024 13:54:59 GMT
Ya' know - it NEVER hurts to be kind. And there is always the option to scroll on by.
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Post by gramma on May 21, 2024 13:56:52 GMT
seaexplore Don't watch it. My DH has been gone almost a year - there is part of the episode where Mary is speaking at the funeral. Tore me up!!
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Post by littlemama on May 21, 2024 14:25:34 GMT
seaexplore Don't watch it. My DH has been gone almost a year - there is part of the episode where Mary is speaking at the funeral. Tore me up!! My FIL died 11 years ago and it got me as well.
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Post by melanell on May 21, 2024 14:34:47 GMT
I have the whole season sitting on my DVR. I want to watch it but I don’t want to cry. I think it will hit me deeply because my DH is currently being treated for metastasized melanoma that’s found its way to his brain. The fear of losing my husband is real. We have 2 young kids. I will watch it eventually but will probably bawl thru the whole season. Hugs to you, seaexplore.
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Post by Katie on May 21, 2024 14:35:30 GMT
We have watched and loved this show from the beginning. This and Big Bang are our before-bed tv shows every night. We go to bed together and watch 2-3 episodes before falling asleep. They are the only shows that I can watch over and over and over again and not get tired of them.
This final season hasn’t been a favorite but it’s still good. Have not watched the final episode yet - am waiting for DH to get home tonight so we can watch it together.
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Post by smalltowngirlie on May 21, 2024 14:46:55 GMT
I cried quite a bit. Sheldon imagining all different scenarios for the last time he saw his dad was killing me. Yes, this was the saddest part. I was honestly annoyed at Missy for being so ugly to Sheldon. All these years living with him and she still can't see he was trying to reconcile it in his own way. Sheldon never really showed much emotion other than annoyance at others, that is part of his character. She could not see his internal struggles, and he could not see or relate to her internal struggles. Who was really there for Missy? She was just really starting to connect with her father and he is very suddenly gone. Her Mom was dealing with her own, very natural feelings and was not there for Missy. Mee Maw was struggling and Georgie was suddenly taking on a role he was thrown into. I feel like Missy was feeling very much alone. Let's think about what her future looked like also. Mom stays angry, we see that in TBBT. Georgie has his own family and we know there is tension there so they are not with Missy. Not sure about Mee Maw. I am totally speculating here, but her teen years were probably pretty lonely. I am also going to speculate that Sheldon continued to receive a lot of attention from everyone. I totally get her feelings and struggles. I also have a very strong opinion that you are not allowed to tell others how to mourn. Missy was young when her dad died and did not know how to process everything. Lashing out was her way.
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Post by Lurkingpea on May 21, 2024 16:00:46 GMT
Wow, I have always found you abrasive and mildly rude, but your comment was downright ugly and mean.
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Post by snyder on May 21, 2024 16:08:22 GMT
Wow, I have always found you abrasive and mildly rude, but your comment was downright ugly and mean. And I do hope that if this pea ever has a need for support, the rest of the peas will remember this thread. I'm appalled.
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Post by samantha25 on May 21, 2024 16:46:10 GMT
I'm reading a thread about the show Young Sheldon. Posters can put a trigger warning about cancer or other illnesses as yes, I'm going through some things so trying to read about generic topics. I just said I'd like to read about the op and not read about something else. Trigger warnings are good, if off topic.
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Post by Lurkingpea on May 21, 2024 19:15:28 GMT
I'm reading a thread about the show Young Sheldon. Posters can put a trigger warning about cancer or other illnesses as yes, I'm going through some things so trying to read about generic topics. I just said I'd like to read about the op and not read about something else. Trigger warnings are good, if off topic. How simple it would have been to post that instead of what you did.
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Post by samantha25 on May 21, 2024 20:07:25 GMT
Guess I could address the thread and not quote someone? Would that be acceptable? PsA:Post trigger warnings for people dealing with cancer in a thread topic that has nothing to do with cancer so they don't have to see it.
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Post by littlemama on May 21, 2024 21:59:07 GMT
You know what I do if Im reading a post that goes in a direction I find upsetting whether it was part of the OP or not? I close it and dont go back to it. There are numerous topics that one person or another could find upsetting.
Once the thread turned to the death in the show that anyone who watches knew was coming, it wasnt a big stretch to think the conversation could turn to illnesses and deaths we have experienced.
It wouldnt have cost you anything to just exit the thread when it turned in a direction you found upsetting. Instead you chose to shit on someone who told us horrible news that she hadnt felt up to sharing previously.
That being said, Im sorry you are going through a difficult time.
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Post by seaexplore on May 21, 2024 23:48:31 GMT
seaexplore Don't watch it. My DH has been gone almost a year - there is part of the episode where Mary is speaking at the funeral. Tore me up!! Thank you. Love to you on the loss of your DH. I feel like I’m invested in the show tho and to not finish it would be weird.
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Post by seaexplore on May 21, 2024 23:51:58 GMT
Aren’t you sweet. I almost didn’t comment on this thread because of peaches like you. Thankfully I’m a big girl and it takes more than you to hurt me so whatever. Feel free to block me or whatever if you feel the need to be rude. For everyone else- I’m ever so thankful for this community of loving and kind and supportive people for whatever anyone is dealing with in life. Thank you for being my friends who live in my phone. ❤️ eta: I’m sorry you too are dealing with a crappy hand samantha25 but I was relating to the loss of a spouse and what I’m dealing with and why I’m having a hard time watching it. If you know anything about BBT and YS then you should have expected this thread to discuss things like the loss of a spouse/loved ones because that’s EXACTLY what this season is about.
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Post by seaexplore on May 21, 2024 23:53:12 GMT
seaexplore Don't watch it. My DH has been gone almost a year - there is part of the episode where Mary is speaking at the funeral. Tore me up!! My FIL died 11 years ago and it got me as well. I’m gonna have to watch it. I’m sure my DH will be sobbing with along with me as will my 8 and 12 yo.
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Post by seaexplore on May 21, 2024 23:53:44 GMT
I have the whole season sitting on my DVR. I want to watch it but I don’t want to cry. I think it will hit me deeply because my DH is currently being treated for metastasized melanoma that’s found its way to his brain. The fear of losing my husband is real. We have 2 young kids. I will watch it eventually but will probably bawl thru the whole season. Hugs to you, seaexplore . Thank you.
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Post by samantha25 on May 22, 2024 0:28:16 GMT
Did you see that George was in the audience of his funeral, dressed up with blonde wig?
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