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Post by lisae on Nov 9, 2022 18:28:08 GMT
Good for you for all the hard work you have put in on this journey. It sounds like you are in a good place and moving forward with your life in only positive ways. I hope the next chapter brings you happiness and fulfillment. You deserve it.
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Post by stormsts on Nov 9, 2022 18:28:08 GMT
You are remarkable. You sound so happy. Congratulations!
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Judy26
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Post by Judy26 on Nov 9, 2022 18:29:48 GMT
What an uplifting thread of a woman taking ownership of her life and power. Congratulations and may the road ahead be filled with joy and new adventures!
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sharlag
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Post by sharlag on Nov 9, 2022 18:32:37 GMT
THanks for sharing! Those details might encourage someone else reading this to make this sort of change for themselves.
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Post by Merge on Nov 9, 2022 18:33:29 GMT
I'm so happy for you! I'm sure it's all been incredibly difficult, but I'm so glad to hear that you feel stronger and things are going well.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 9, 2022 18:47:15 GMT
I wish you nothing but a true, complete happiness! You are already on your way.
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milocat
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Post by milocat on Nov 9, 2022 18:47:38 GMT
Good for you for going and sticking to therapy to learn, grow and move on. Good luck with your new path! Sounds like you are definitely on the right track!
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Post by Deleted on Nov 9, 2022 18:48:00 GMT
What an uplifting thread of a woman taking ownership of her life and power. Congratulations and may the road ahead be filled with joy and new adventures! Dang...I should have said ^^^^^^^ that!
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Anita
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Post by Anita on Nov 9, 2022 18:53:00 GMT
I'm very happy for you!
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Post by quinlove on Nov 9, 2022 18:57:47 GMT
Scrappyesq - you aren’t wearing that Superwoman shirt for nothing. You are a Superwoman, and, you always have been. 💙❤️🧡
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Post by sideways on Nov 9, 2022 19:04:39 GMT
All I could do was “like” the post, but I really love reading this.
Congratulations. The ending of a marriage is sad, but it sounds like you’re in a good place. I’m sure there’s a lot more good coming your way.
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Post by maryannscraps on Nov 9, 2022 19:25:07 GMT
Isn't it interesting -- I've always thought of you as one of the most pulled together people on here. I had no idea of your history. I hope your next adventures are full of wonder and joy.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 9, 2022 19:27:18 GMT
I am so thrilled that you are coming out on the other side healthier and happier! Realizing we can't change the other person and working on dealing with our own issues is so freeing, isn't it? I'm glad you got some closure and can move forward now! Lots of cheering for you and hugs!
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purplebee
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Post by purplebee on Nov 9, 2022 19:30:47 GMT
Wow! You are such a strong and smart woman! I wish you peace and joy in knowing you did the right thing.
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Post by Basket1lady on Nov 9, 2022 19:36:30 GMT
Good for you for taking control of your life. I wish you only happiness!
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scrappyesq
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Post by scrappyesq on Nov 9, 2022 19:53:39 GMT
I've always thought of you as one of the most pulled together people on here. I had no idea of your history. I hope your next adventures are full of wonder and joy. **Blushes** thank you. I should dig up some of my old threads. Pure cringey insanity.
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Post by bluebird71 on Nov 9, 2022 20:12:37 GMT
What an amazing journey you have been on and I am so happy you have learned to value yourself.
That is very hard when Mama trains you that you are not worth valuing, and I know from personal experience.
I just joined Tinder and, eeeek. Is all I can say. I met a guy on Bumble yesterday and we already had dinner together and had a great time. Not a man for forever but for fun, right now, for sure.
Enjoy your new chapter!
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Post by Bridget in MD on Nov 9, 2022 20:17:49 GMT
You guys are amazing. Thank you for all of your kind words. I wish that things had turned out differently, but you have to make a choice to help yourself. He wouldn't and after all of the years, between my family and him I was just tired. EXACTLY!!!! I am so glad you put yourself first!!!!!
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Post by cynthia1218 on Nov 9, 2022 20:18:46 GMT
I've always thought of you as one of the most pulled together people on here. I had no idea of your history. I hope your next adventures are full of wonder and joy. **Blushes** thank you. I should dig up some of my old threads. Pure cringey insanity. I can understand the past insanity. I am in the middle of it or just started to get divorced from a narcissist. thank you so much for your post. It gives me strength and gives me faith that i can do this
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anaterra
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Post by anaterra on Nov 9, 2022 20:21:24 GMT
((((Big hugs)))) amazing!!! Here's to your next chapter!!!
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Post by GiantsFan on Nov 9, 2022 20:22:02 GMT
Congratulations! (weird to say to someone who is newly divorced).
I can identify with the weight being lifted when it's finally over. Wishing you all the best going forward.
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Post by cindytred on Nov 9, 2022 20:30:46 GMT
I am very excited for you! You are obviously a very smart woman. You can't soar if you are dragging all that weight of negativity. Enjoy your new life - you deserve it!!
Cindy
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Post by malibou on Nov 9, 2022 20:50:40 GMT
I am so sorry you didn't get the mother you deserved nor did your ex. I am abundantly proud of you for doing all of the hard work to get your headspace where you would like it to be. Way to get out there and get a move on with your life.
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Post by 950nancy on Nov 9, 2022 21:10:20 GMT
I don't know what is in store for you, but it sounds like you are on a great path. Enjoy!
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Post by flanz on Nov 9, 2022 21:14:33 GMT
I am so very happy for you, dear sweet pea friend! Woo Hoo!!!! I can only imagine the freedom and lightness you are feeling now... along with a sense of excitement and curiosity about what the future holds.
You go, girl! xoxoxo
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Post by bc2ca on Nov 9, 2022 21:15:49 GMT
I'm pretty proud of you. You have done the work and come so far.
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fofana
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Post by fofana on Nov 9, 2022 21:55:51 GMT
Good for you! Be proud of yourself and enjoy your new life!
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Post by AussieMeg on Nov 9, 2022 21:55:57 GMT
Congratulations on your new you! I'm sorry that your ex husband wasn't able to follow your remarkable lead. I wish you all the best in your new and wonderful life. ❤️
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tanya2
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Post by tanya2 on Nov 9, 2022 22:00:08 GMT
I'm glad it's all worked out for you. And kudos for working so hard on yourself
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Post by papersilly on Nov 9, 2022 22:01:14 GMT
i'm glad your journey ended with the results you wanted. congrats on your newfound freedom!
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