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Post by hop2 on Dec 15, 2023 13:38:33 GMT
After 16 1/2 years of love & loyal companionship we have to let our pup go. He’s having cognitive issues and I don’t want him to suffer.
We are having someone come to the house so he doesn’t have to go in the car which he hates. I feel awful. I feel like I’m betraying him.
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Post by pantsonfire on Dec 15, 2023 13:49:15 GMT
Aw it is so very hard when the time comes. You are being the best pet parent to him, ending his suffering and letting him go peacefully with you there to love him more.
Hugs. Lots of hugs.
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Post by whipea on Dec 15, 2023 13:50:10 GMT
So sorry. You are not betraying him, you are being kind and loving.
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Post by peppermintpatty on Dec 15, 2023 14:01:12 GMT
I am so incredibly sorry. I know how hard this is. (((hugs))))
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Post by crazy4scraps on Dec 15, 2023 14:04:20 GMT
I’m so sorry. 😞 It’s always the worst part of loving a pet. Please don’t beat yourself up, you’ve done your best and your pup knows you love him. I have always heard that it’s better to let them go one day too soon than one day too late. Hugs, it’s super hard.
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Post by River on Dec 15, 2023 15:06:25 GMT
I'm so very sorry! (((HUGS))))
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Post by Tearisci on Dec 15, 2023 15:08:32 GMT
Hugs to you for knowing that you are doing the ultimate kindness for your pet in letting him go without suffering. Even the way you're going about it is so thoughtful and caring for him. You are doing everything right.
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Post by chrissyc72 on Dec 15, 2023 15:11:18 GMT
You aren’t betraying him. You are being a great parent to your fur baby. You are helping them when they can’t help themselves.
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Post by jenr on Dec 15, 2023 16:34:21 GMT
I'm so sorry.  |
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Post by Merge on Dec 15, 2023 16:42:14 GMT
I’m very sorry. We let ours go two weeks ago today. It’s very strange and we miss her, but we know it was the kindest thing for her. And it’s the kindest thing for your pup, too. Be gentle with yourself.
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Post by lesley on Dec 15, 2023 16:47:55 GMT
Sixteen years is a wonderfully long life, and I bet you made him happy just about every day of it. I’m so sorry you have to let him go. It’s three years tomorrow since I lost my boy, and I still miss him so much. But the memories of him make me laugh as well as cry, and they always will. Dogs are an amazing gift. 🥰
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Post by leeny on Dec 15, 2023 17:04:13 GMT
So sorry. It's such a hard decision to make, but you are doing what is best for your pup and you've given him his best life. ((Hugs)) to you and your family.
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Dec 15, 2023 17:10:56 GMT
HUGS. I'm so sorry. It's so difficult!
My SIL's dog died yesterday. He made an appointment to have her put down tomorrow, as he knew she was starting to suffer. He came home and she was already gone. He was devastated. I honestly think she waited until he left, then laid down in her favorite spot in the sunshine on the porch, and went to sleep.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Dec 15, 2023 17:20:20 GMT
Sorry you're having to do this, it's so hard. Hugs.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Dec 15, 2023 17:23:07 GMT
hop2 you are not betraying your pup. You are giving him the gift of painless peace with you there to comfort him. ((((((((((HUGS))))))))))
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Post by mikklynn on Dec 15, 2023 17:55:28 GMT
You are doing the most loving thing you can for your pet. It's not a betrayal. It's incredibly unselfish.
I'm so sorry you are at this point. Hugs.
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Post by scrappert on Dec 15, 2023 18:21:59 GMT
Such a hard decision, I am sorry you have to make it.
Sending hugs to you.
My sister also has them come out, she has Rottweilers so it makes sense, she says they do a very good job and it is less stressful on you pet.
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Post by lurker on Dec 15, 2023 18:26:04 GMT
It's not a betrayal. It's the kindest thing you can do and also probably one of the hardest.
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Post by scrapmaven on Dec 15, 2023 18:28:45 GMT
I'm really sorry to hear such sad news. ((((HUGS)))}.
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Post by hutchfan on Dec 15, 2023 18:33:08 GMT
I am so sorry you are going through this.
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Post by malibou on Dec 15, 2023 18:41:43 GMT
I'm so sorry. May he rest in peace knowing how loved he was.
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Post by dewryce on Dec 15, 2023 19:57:50 GMT
I’m so sorry (((hugs))). Your puppy is lucky he has a loving family like you, and I’m happy you’re able to get someone to come to your home for him.
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Post by librarylady on Dec 15, 2023 20:00:05 GMT
My deepest condolences. I know how it hurts.
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Post by tealpaperowl on Dec 15, 2023 20:03:01 GMT
BIG hugs! It's so difficult, they truly are our furbabies. Keep a piece of his fur in case you ever want to have a keepsake made with it. Know you are doing the very best thing for him by not letting him suffer. And cry, cry, cry it's okay to be sad for awhile without your furry baby.
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Post by purplebee on Dec 15, 2023 20:40:49 GMT
So sorry…. BTDT and it’s never easy.
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Post by karenlou on Dec 15, 2023 20:46:39 GMT
I'm so sorry You are doing the right thing...((((HUGS)))) to you
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Post by hop2 on Dec 15, 2023 21:21:40 GMT
He is gone & I am heartbroken
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Post by KelleeM on Dec 15, 2023 21:22:58 GMT
I’m so sorry. Hugs.
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Post by 950nancy on Dec 15, 2023 21:26:13 GMT
The herdest part of having a pup is the good-bye. How kind of you to make it as comfortable as you can for your pup. You shouldn't feel guilty. You are doing him a kindness based out of love.
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Post by mimima on Dec 15, 2023 21:31:48 GMT
You are giving him a gift. I'm so sorry, it's so hard
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