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Post by mom2rjcr on Jan 31, 2024 16:52:29 GMT
Finally, we have the results of DH's bone biopsy. It's not great news. The bone biopsy confirmed that there is lymphoma involvement in his bone marrow in 5 to 7 percent of his marrow cells. They want to get his treatment started ASAP but we have to go through the VA because he has no health insurance. He has a mental health appointment tomorrow and on Friday he has his first appointment to get started with the cancer treatment.
I don't know what to think or do. I am terrified! We are finally able to travel and do things, and then this happens. We are supposed to grow old together.
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Post by katiescarlett on Jan 31, 2024 17:18:57 GMT
I'm so sorry! I hope it's treatable and you are still able to do all the things you planned! ((Hugs)) and prayers!
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Post by smasonnc on Jan 31, 2024 17:20:19 GMT
Hugs to you and healing thoughts to him.
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Post by auntkelly on Jan 31, 2024 17:20:56 GMT
I’m so sorry. I will say prayers for your DH.
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Post by workingclassdog on Jan 31, 2024 17:21:54 GMT
I'm so sorry!! It just sucks. I'm kinda in the same boat but it is my sister. It is a whole new way of living for her and I am far away. It just sucks. Did I say that? Take it one day at a time.. I know for us once the shock wore off we just try to keep up the spirts with jokes and stories. We are pretty bad in some ways. She has to have a colonoscopy bag (hopefully not forever) and the poop jokes are endless. If we didn't do that we would just cry. Our mom is the same way. I thank God for these women in my life.
I hope you have some support.. hang in there... I pray the VA won't be a huge hassle!
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Post by Sarah*H on Jan 31, 2024 17:22:10 GMT
Sending you lots of positive thoughts. Cancer treatment is evolving all of the time and there are so many new options. I'm hopeful that he is able to get great care through the VA.
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Post by huskergal on Jan 31, 2024 17:29:52 GMT
Prayers being sent and hoping for a positive outcome!
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Jan 31, 2024 17:40:48 GMT
Prayers for you both that you will grow old together!
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Post by TXMary on Jan 31, 2024 17:50:44 GMT
It is scary and terrifying and hard. My mantra when I was going through treatment was "You don't have to be brave. You just have to show up.". Once he gets started with treatment it will become your routine and it will be easier. I'm keeping you and your DH in my prayers and I am so sorry that you're going through this.
We have a major medical center here in my town and a large VA Hospital. When I was done with treatment, my oncologist left my cancer center and went to the VA so I know they have excellent doctors because he was amazing.
Don't forget to take care of yourself too.
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Post by teacherlisa on Jan 31, 2024 17:51:23 GMT
I am so sorry. Big hugs!
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Post by ~Susan~ on Jan 31, 2024 17:57:28 GMT
Big hugs to you and your DH ((((HUGS))))
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Post by valincal on Jan 31, 2024 18:06:45 GMT
I’m so sorry. I hope he gets the treatment he needs right away. Take care.
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Post by scrappert on Jan 31, 2024 18:10:06 GMT
Big hugs to you both. I pray that the appointment on Friday will be good information and you can start this journey with knowledge. I love TXMary 's advice! "You don't have to be brave. You just have to show up." |
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Post by MichyM on Jan 31, 2024 18:37:22 GMT
I am so very sorry, this must be so scary. Sending lots of warm, caring thoughts. I hope all goes (relatively) well at his dr appt this week. ❤️
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Post by lurker on Jan 31, 2024 18:39:30 GMT
I'm so sorry you didn't get better news. Hoping for the best possible outcome.
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Post by quinlove on Jan 31, 2024 18:39:46 GMT
I’m so sorry to hear your update. When you are feeling all terrified and alone, remember that you are not alone. You have all of us.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Jan 31, 2024 19:04:12 GMT
I will keep your DH, and you, in my prayers.
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Post by sueg on Jan 31, 2024 19:08:14 GMT
I am so very sorry that you got this diagnosis. I hope that treatment can stop or at least significantly slow the cancer.
Remember to take care of yourself while your DH goes through his treatment.
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Post by christine58 on Jan 31, 2024 21:13:25 GMT
Finally, we have the results of DH's bone biopsy. It's not great news. The bone biopsy confirmed that there is lymphoma involvement in his bone marrow in 5 to 7 percent of his marrow cells. They want to get his treatment started ASAP but we have to go through the VA because he has no health insurance. He has a mental health appointment tomorrow and on Friday he has his first appointment to get started with the cancer treatment.
I don't know what to think or do. I am terrified! We are finally able to travel and do things, and then this happens. We are supposed to grow old together.
What did you decide to do about selling your house? Continued prayers that treatment will be very helpful |
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Post by peabay on Jan 31, 2024 21:35:18 GMT
sending my very best!
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Post by librarylady on Jan 31, 2024 21:45:44 GMT
Prayers for you and your DH.
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Post by kate on Jan 31, 2024 22:49:36 GMT
Prayers for his healing and for peace of heart for you both.
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Post by teddyw on Jan 31, 2024 22:53:18 GMT
Sending prayers.
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Post by gramasue on Jan 31, 2024 22:54:23 GMT
Sending prayers and positive thoughts.
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Post by Sue on Jan 31, 2024 23:07:43 GMT
Sending positive thoughts to you and many wishes that your husband's treatment is successful. Take care of yourself too.
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Post by AussieMeg on Jan 31, 2024 23:42:10 GMT
I'm sorry that the news wasn't what you were hoping for. It must be scary for both of you. I hope his treatment goes well, and you can do all the things you've planned together.
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Post by KikiPea on Feb 1, 2024 1:45:46 GMT
I’m so sorry to hear this update. Prayers that the treatment works and he is on his way to complete healing so that you two can continue on with your dreams.
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Post by brynn on Feb 1, 2024 2:23:50 GMT
I hope his treatment goes well, and you two do everything you planned.
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Post by seaexplore on Feb 1, 2024 3:04:20 GMT
I don't know what to think or do. I am terrified! We are finally able to travel and do things, and then this happens. We are supposed to grow old together.
I feel this to my soul. I'm 10 years from retirement and my DH has melanoma tumors in his brain. He most likely will not be there to enjoy retirement with me if we can't get this crap done and over with. He is starting chemo on Monday because he can't manage to taper off the Decadron steroid. That needs to happen if he's going to be able to do immune therapy. So, chemo first and hopefully follow up with immune therapy. BIG love to you and your family as you navigate these terrifying and difficult waters. |
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Post by quietgirl on Feb 1, 2024 3:30:42 GMT
I'm really sorry. I am thinking of you and wishing the very best.
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