Not in the news college campus but SA/drug trigger warning

Thats horrible. What school is this?
I’m sure the news will eventually trickle nationwide, but it may take a bit of time.

Don't go to frat parties.

One hopes that not only will the perpetrators be prosecuted, but that this chapter of whatever fraternity will be shut down immediately. That needs to be a zero tolerance issue.

I remain grateful that neither of my girls was interested in Greek life or fraternity parties. Even in my college days, frat parties were often unsafe for women. I was groped/assaulted at one, and more importantly - almost every girl I knew had the same experience at some point.

Yes, girls, parties and social events on campus are not for you. You need to stay in your dorm or the library where it won’t be your fault if boys will be boys.

She didn’t say don’t go to parties.

I also didn't say it was a girl's fault if something happened to her at a frat party. These are not policed parties. These are not parties with adults in attendance. Not all frats are bad. Know your frats. If rumors like this are going around campus, you are taking a risk going to a party. No, it isn't your fault if something happens, but something might happen. You have to ask yourself if the risk is worth the reward.

You have to know your frats. There is a reason some have a reputation. Believe the reputation. Some of the frats are perfectly safe. 

First: this sounds like those stories about sex trafficking at Walmart in the dressing room. Like, maybe based on an actual incident, but wildly overblown.


It's an unfortunate fact of biology that we will always be potential victims, not fair sure but using common sense isn't a bad thing. Add alcohol to raging testosterone and you don't always get a good result. I've never been to a frat party, never was real fond of drunk frat boys in bars either.

"boys will be boys"?!? I hope you are using sarcasm. 

Man, I had some great times at frat parties and hanging out at the house when I was at San Jose State!  The guys all looked out for me and made sure I was safe. ❤️. Would I want my DD going to frat parties with guys she didn’t know? Heck no!  Make friends with them and they’ll be like your big brother.

What university? This sounds like urban myth.

This perfectly sums up how guys don't understand that we have to worry about things they don't even think about. I went to frat parties all the time and never worried about anything more than a hangover from grain alcohol in the punch. Now, my girls toss out a drink if they even turn their backs on it in a public place. The predatory behavior is mental. Sadly, the fact that there are guys like that is the world we live in. I hate blaming the victim or excusing the perpetrator, but I also don't want to suffer the consequences of ignoring the warnings.

If a frat has been reported, they shouldn't still be on campus. That's something that gets you shut down and your charter revoked. If not, the university should be held liable. DS's fraternity got banned from having parties for a semester because they made pledges act as designated drivers and somebody's family sued because it was "harsh." Poor baby was tired.

This is one of the reasons I hate frats and sororities. The mentality of treating pledges like crap, getting off on making them do things and then if they say they are too tired to drive (which is legit, we have a mountain of evidence proving how dangerous fatigued driving is) grown adults mock them as poor babies.

I know kids make stupid decisions. So do adults. I have made my fair share. However, if my daughter was on a campus where the university issued a warning about a frat drugging women, I would tell my daughter not to go to the party.