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Post by onelasttime on Jun 3, 2024 0:10:57 GMT
Within the last couple of the days Kylie and Jason Kelce were having a date night someplace in NJ. A woman saw them and asked to take a picture and Kylie declined and the woman threw a hissy fit. She has since apologized.
On the reels I caught part of a pod cast between 2 empty head Valley Girls. It seems one of the saw Ryan Reynolds walking down the street in NY. She wanted to talk to him but when he realized she did he started to speed walk away from her. She was very indigent that he did and he’s now “dead to her”.
There is always a question. Do you think the Kelce’s should have posed for the picture and Ryan Reynolds instead of walking away at a quick pace, he should have talked to her?
For me the answer is no to both cases.
All I want from celebrities that I like is a good performance if they are actors and good music if they singers.
If I should see them out & about they would get a smile and I would keep on going.
So what do you think?
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Post by StephDRebel on Jun 3, 2024 0:15:54 GMT
I think it would be a huge scandal if Travis Kelce went on a date with his sister in law.
They owe us nothing, as we do them. It's wild to make demands on peoples time and privacy.
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Post by onelasttime on Jun 3, 2024 0:19:21 GMT
Here’s a reel of Tom Cruise talking about the time he was on the London Underground and a teenage girl recognized him when no one else seemed to . With the exception of not taking a picture I would react the way she did. youtu.be/UyJ8EeOGO4U?si=VtwoH5_EDfsiR2wN
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Post by onelasttime on Jun 3, 2024 0:22:40 GMT
I think it would be a huge scandal if Travis Kelce went on a date with his sister in law. They owe us nothing, as we do them. It's wild to make demands on peoples time and privacy. It’s “Jason” isn’t it. Thanks.
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Post by cakediva on Jun 3, 2024 0:30:50 GMT
She didn’t just ask for an autograph - apparently she was banging on their vehicle windows 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
But I agree - they owe us nothing. Sure they are grossly overpaid, but they get paid to do their job. Just because their job makes then famous does not entitle the rest of us to any part of them.
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Post by tracylynn on Jun 3, 2024 0:34:34 GMT
They don't owe anyone a damn thing.
People have become so entitled.
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Post by peasapie on Jun 3, 2024 1:27:30 GMT
I agree they owe nothing. Just the other day someone said, “that’s the price they pay for fame,” as if it’s part of their job to give up any semblance of personal time.
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Post by hannahruth on Jun 3, 2024 1:47:27 GMT
I agree with others above, it is their 'job' - they are paid through concerts etc but they are still entitled to private time, even if they are out having a meal or whatever.
I think the public are the ones that are entitled thinking that these celebrities owe them something. Everyone is entitled to a private life.
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Post by milocat on Jun 3, 2024 1:51:14 GMT
Should they occasionally stop and talk to the fans, take a picture, sign an autograph, yes that would be nice. Should they do it every time someone recognizes them, no. They'd never get anywhere is they stopped for everyone.
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Post by wellway on Jun 3, 2024 6:49:36 GMT
I am reminded of a recent article I read about K-Pop super fans. BBC When K-pop star Karina posted a handwritten apology on Instagram earlier in March, it was both contrite and profuse. "I sincerely apologise for surprising my fans who have supported me," the frontwoman of the girl group aespa wrote. Her offence? Publicly acknowledging that she was in a relationship with actor Lee Jae-wook. That Karina felt compelled to say sorry for being in a relationship has puzzled many outside the K-pop scene, but it opens a window into the world of the industry's "super fans". www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-68572668
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Post by Lexica on Jun 3, 2024 9:03:00 GMT
I have never understood the people who go nuts when they see a celebrity. I have seen several celebrities during all my years in California and I never approached a single one of them. The two biggest stars were dealing with animals when I saw them. The only time I almost spoke to a celebrity was when I had my cockatoo at the bird vet. There was a celebrity there with his bird as well and it was gorgeous and super cuddly with him. It was obvious that he spent a lot of time with the bird to develop that bond. If it were any other person, I would have commented on how beautiful his bird was and that I admired the bond they obviously had. But I didn’t say or do anything because he was a celebrity. I didn’t want to be that person.
I also saw a huge celebrity as he was leaving the home of my dog breeder. I was picking up my pup and he was there with his wife looking at the litter.. I didn’t say anything to him either. The breeder said she asked to take a picture of him together with the mother dog and she said she intended to frame it and hang it in her living room. I almost asked her for a copy of the picture because the mother dog was my dog that she had asked me if she could get one litter from her since she was a champion as were both of her parents. I wasn’t into the whole dog show thing so she would pick up my pup and take her to shows and bring me the ribbons that she won. I don’t know if he came back and bought one of my dog’s puppies or not.
To me, they are just people doing a job. Just because we see them on TV in our own home doesn’t mean they are our friends. There was a time when acting was considered a shameful career choice.
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Post by malibou on Jun 3, 2024 9:38:49 GMT
Because of where I live, I've seen a lot of celebrities, but I don't go up to them.
When Kim Kardashian was pregnant the first time, a party was being thrown for her at a local movie theater. Everyone came dressed as her in a black tank dress and had fake bellies. Ds was 11. He and I had parked at the back of the strip mall where the theater was and had to walk down the side of the theater to get where we were going. Ds saw all the paparazzi and for some reason decided to do a ridiculously exaggerated slow walk the whole way. Everyone was just arriving and the paparazzi were yelling at ds to get out of the way. This only made him walk slower. 😂 They also yelled at me to make him move out of the way. I opted to let ds do his thing. No doubt there was loads of editing to get us out of those pictures. 😋
My other accidental brush with a celebrity was in my mid 20s. I was taking a summer class at a small Jr college that was also where the Miami Dolphins were doing some spring training. I was running late to my class and was full blown running down these steps with a really wide tread. I saw a bunch of guys all geared up walking in front of the bottom of the steps, and I was trying to get down the steps fast enough to go in front of them, so I wouldn't be held up. What I missed was the one guy out in front of the others. I totally smacked into him and we both went flying and tumbling to the ground. I ran into the quarter back Dan Marino. Holy cats you should have heard the other guys laughing. Full on doubled over, cracking up. A couple of them managed to rush over to make sure I was okay as they massively ribbed Dan Marino for getting a full body check by a "very small girl in a dress." He escorted me to my class to explain why I was late.
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Post by gillyp on Jun 3, 2024 10:10:46 GMT
I thinks its nice if they do pose or sign when caught unawares but it shouldn't be expected. They are not "doing their job" when just walking down the street, in a restaurant or on the train or whatever, they are just being human and humans need their space and privacy.
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Post by monklady123 on Jun 3, 2024 10:31:48 GMT
I think the only thing they absolutely do "owe" us is to do the best they can at whatever entertainment form they do. For example, if I pay a lot of money to go to a concert I expect a good concert -- put together well, long enough (whatever "enough" means exactly, lol), etc. Or if I pay to see a professional sports team I expect them to play hard, show good sportsmanship, not cheat, etc. Other than that though, no they don't "owe" us autographs or photos or anything else. It's nice if they do these things once in awhile of course because fans are the ones buying the entertainment. But there's also a time and place for autographs and photos, and fans aren't entitled to interrupt the private life of an entertainer just because they want a photo.
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Post by dawnnikol on Jun 3, 2024 10:41:52 GMT
Within the last couple of the days Kylie and Jason Kelce were having a date night someplace in NJ. A woman saw them and asked to take a picture and Kylie declined and the woman threw a hissy fit. She has since apologized. The short clip I saw of Kylie with that woman was both hilarious and ridiculous. The woman was telling her they "wouldn't be welcome back" in their city. The entitlement... meanwhile Kylie stands almost 6' and towers over this woman who was just hysterical because they wouldn't interrupt their date to take photos with her. Celebrities put their pants on one leg at a time like everyone else. I have zero interest in chasing them, let alone stalking them. I also have a problem with people snapping photos of them as a further invasion of their privacy. At a concert that they're performing? Cool. Out at Trader Joe's? No. I once saw women in a FB group I was in bring up Travis Kelce (coincidentally to this thread) and how "he goes to such and such Chick-fil-a". So, some of these women would, literally, go sit in their mini vans (sometimes with their children in tow) to stalk this possibility. Absolutely crazy.
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Post by SweetieBsMom on Jun 3, 2024 11:36:42 GMT
I think celebrities "owe" us good performances in their chosen medium. That's it. If they're out having dinner or walking down the street, they owe us nothing. Unfortunately paparazzi is a byproduct of their chosen profession but the every day person should leave them alone if they are out and about.
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Post by artbabe on Jun 3, 2024 13:35:57 GMT
I was in Rehoboth Beach one year and saw Luke Wilson walking on the boardwalk. Everyone around him had their camera out. It must be a huge pain in the butt to be minding your own business and have 10 people with their cameras out recording your every move. It felt really invasive.
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Post by workingclassdog on Jun 3, 2024 13:42:17 GMT
I do love that comment from Tom Cruise.. that cracks me up. No they don't owe us anything. I have seen/met quite a few celebrities for someone who isn't normally near them much.
There was only one time that I was taken aback by one celebrity and about a year after it, I realize it wasn't her fault and it was all on me. My daughter and I went to see Melissa Gilbert in a Broadway type show. We wanted to get her autograph and someone said if you wait by the exit door where they come out they might stop. Might not either. We were good with that. We went to the exit area with my book she wrote. She came out and signed it and took a pic with my daughter and all was good. We didn't hound her or anything but I felt like she was very cold about it. I don't know why that rubbed me the wrong way. It was silly. It was her personal time and at that time I believe she was having a lot medical issues (mainly her back).. and I am sure she must have been in pain. But at the time I didn't know that and thought she was just acting 'stuck up', but really she wasn't.
Anyways, in all the other celebrities I have never wanted to say much in fear for one, I didn't want to bother them and two, didn't want to get yelled at.. haha. Fortunately most of them have been super nice.
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Post by kitkath on Jun 3, 2024 13:48:48 GMT
I wouldn’t even recognize most celebrities when they are out and about. Years go we were at Atlantis in the Bahamas and DH commented “did you see Dwayne Johnson (the Rock) at the pool this afternoon?’ Nope. DH saw him and didn’t bother to point him out to me.
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Post by Prenticekid on Jun 3, 2024 13:57:01 GMT
Nothing.
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Post by worrywart on Jun 3, 2024 14:03:58 GMT
People are so ridiculous!
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Jun 3, 2024 14:26:49 GMT
I don't think celebrities owe their fans their privacy.
I was in a shop in town a few months ago, and I recognised someone but couldn't place him. Thinking it must me one of the customers from when I worked in retail, when he caught my eye, I smiled cheerfully and said "hello". He smiled back and said "hello" too. It was only when I had left the shop that I realised it was someone on the TV who just happened to be visiting my town. What he must have thought, I have no idea, but he was just normal and friendly. I expect the people he was with were used to it.
I also want to have a little boast that I had a phone call yesterday (yes, Sunday) from someone else famous who is on TV, to talk about wildlife in my area. I'm still walking on clouds!
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Post by gar on Jun 3, 2024 15:26:50 GMT
I don't think celebrities owe their fans their privacy. I was in a shop in town a few months ago, and I recognised someone but couldn't place him. Thinking it must me one of the customers from when I worked in retail, when he caught my eye, I smiled cheerfully and said "hello". He smiled back and said "hello" too. It was only when I had left the shop that I realised it was someone on the TV who just happened to be visiting my town. What he must have thought, I have no idea, but he was just normal and friendly. I expect the people he was with were used to it. I also want to have a little boast that I had a phone call yesterday (yes, Sunday) from someone else famous who is on TV, to talk about wildlife in my area. I'm still walking on clouds! Spill the beans...we need names!
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Post by disneypal on Jun 3, 2024 15:55:00 GMT
Living in Georgia, the Hollywood of the south, we see celebrities out & about from time to time. People generally leave them alone, as well they should. They are entitled to have a private life. I think they only owe their fans a good performance in their line of work. I would hope they wouldn’t be mean or obnoxious to anyone when they are approached, but I think that of all people, not just celebrities.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Jun 3, 2024 16:52:34 GMT
I don't think celebrities "owe" the general public anything.
I also think (mostly from a scrapbooking point of view), that depending on the situation (dinner with Family-NO!, walking down the sidewalk-yes) that it doesn't hurt to politely ask for a quick photo with them and say that you admire them or to take a photograph from of them from a distance (scrapbook page >> out and about...never know who you'll see). If they politely decline a photo with me, then I would be gracious and move along.
In general, I think encountering fans and groupies comes with the territory. I would expect a celebrity to be polite and civil at first (a polite no thank you), and if a fan or groupie gets pushy, rabid, extremely intrusive....then the celebrity has every right to enforce their personal boundaries.....as Mrs Kelce did.
In regards to the situation with Mrs Kelce, she handled herself well. They were on Family time-date night and she had every right to deny the request. The jackass who caused the scene should be ashamed of herself.
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Post by papersilly on Jun 3, 2024 17:55:02 GMT
the same thing i owe them----nothing.
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Post by pantsonfire on Jun 3, 2024 18:01:15 GMT
Not a dang thing. They are a celebrity because of their career.
I have been getting irritated lately (one of the ma y reasons I took a month break from here and other social media) in regards to people asking xyz influencer or creator or celebrity to denounce Israel and the war going on.
People are downright trying to cancel anyone famous who doesn't.
It is their platform. They can post what they want.
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Post by Rhondito on Jun 3, 2024 18:49:52 GMT
Zack Myers, lead guitarist for Shinedown, posted this just last night:
(they fly private)
I also saw a random comedian on TikTok say that he had an entire family waiting at his gate on a very late night flight into Chicago. When he questioned them on how they knew he was on the flight, they said they just happened to be there - yet they had photos and posters for him to sign.
CREEPY.
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Jun 3, 2024 20:50:37 GMT
I don't think celebrities owe their fans their privacy. I was in a shop in town a few months ago, and I recognised someone but couldn't place him. Thinking it must me one of the customers from when I worked in retail, when he caught my eye, I smiled cheerfully and said "hello". He smiled back and said "hello" too. It was only when I had left the shop that I realised it was someone on the TV who just happened to be visiting my town. What he must have thought, I have no idea, but he was just normal and friendly. I expect the people he was with were used to it. I also want to have a little boast that I had a phone call yesterday (yes, Sunday) from someone else famous who is on TV, to talk about wildlife in my area. I'm still walking on clouds! Spill the beans...we need names! Mark Miller from DIY SOS was in the shop. I can't say who the phone call was from.
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Post by peabay on Jun 3, 2024 21:28:39 GMT
Nothing beside the performance you paid for.
Sure, they should be polite when they say no, but the audience is owed nothing beyond the performance.
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