Is this bad of me? Our ballots came in the mail...UPDATE

She didn't withhold it. she put it where the mail goes?

Dude, ya'll act like he's not a grown ass adult male. She sorted his mail, like usual. He even got a text from the Election office.

If my DH was voting for TFG, I would not have held his hand to take the rights away from me, our daughters, or everyone else in America he wants to fuck over. You can choose to have your own opinions, and you have the right to exercise your right to vote, it's not my job to put the gun in your hand.

He told you to fill it out for him... sooo why not??? He just voted for the right petson... good job husband.... lmao

<<sarcasm>>>

Sorry it wasnt an obvious joke

ID is required to register to vote.

You shouldnt need to provide it again when you vote.

Also requiring Voter ID at the polls has been ruled to be a poll tax and should not be allowed.

I dont have to provide ID when I vote absentee, just my signature on the envelope. Just as prior to voter id requirements, I used to provide my signature at the polls.

I really hope you’re joking.

To answer the OP: He’s a grown ass adult. It’s not your responsibility, and I would say that regardless of who he was voting for. I might try to be a bit more persuasive if he was voting blue, though. 😜

Thats a big no! 

I would remind him once about it. But there is no way I am committing election fraud for anyone. Even if it's my husband. 

This is an interesting thread to me, just in how mail distribution works within homes.

Everyone of voting age in my home has received various letters about election, and I absolutely DO want every one of those people to vote since they are all in complete agreement with me on who is best suited to run this country. (And we do all plan to vote. We've checked that all is well with our registration, etc.)

However, every time voting related mail arrives, whichever one of us collects the mail just sorts it out and places it in each of our "official" mail spots where we all pick up our mail. None of us point out if someone has something we deem important. There's your mail spot. There's your mail. You're set. Whether it's a bill, a package, jury duty, or a ballot, my mail goes to my desk, and I find it there and deal with it. And no one ever says a word about any of it, for the most part. (DH likes to look over my Postcrossing postcards, so that's one time when he might mention something if he brings in the mail.)

So the thought of my spouse (or my kid, as the case often is here) specifically saying to me "You got your ballot in mail. Your ballot is where all of your mail goes." isn't something I would expect to be done.

We got our ballots last week and I put them in the same spot where we always put our mail. I voted and took my ballot to the drop box the very next day. I know my husband is voting blue down the ticket but I’m not going to hold his hand to get it done. He’s grown up and can handle his own ballot.

I am going to vote... but in my county i know it really doesn't matter.. i am not exaggerating or being blahhh about it... i know who i am surrounded by... i know who is in my community.... and i know there are other blue voters here but we are not anywhere close to making a difference in this area...

Well today Trump told his followers to vote on January 5th, so I guess this is all moot. Your husband has all sorts of time to get his ballot in..

I actually brought this up at dinner, without any mention at all about it being a politically divided household, as not to throw any bias into the mix.  I just said the ballot arrived, it was placed on the table for the person it belonged to, and they went off on their travels without it, and was the person who brought in the mail at fault for not having specifically pointed out that the ballot was there.

And no one here thought there was any reason for it to be pointed out to an adult that their mail was there. Especially something like a ballot, which one would be looking for if one wished to vote, and which one would also likely receive alerts about being mailed out/delivered.

So I at least know my household wouldn't be upset with me for not escorting them over to their ballot to be sure they attended to it. 

When the conversation was drawing to a close, and I told them the resolution was that the person wasn't voting, then they did guess which party wasn't getting a vote based on me not seeming to care about it. 

He's an adult and he was perfectly capable of seeing that his ballot showed up. He obviously doesn't care so why should OP?