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Post by Deleted on Jul 5, 2014 19:31:15 GMT
My son has special needs and it's difficult to get out. I'd rather not explain everything about the whole situation. It is what it is, and right now I can't go many places.
What do you do to combat the boredom? Ideas I've came up with is reading, scrapbooking, and watching movies. I know I need to exercise (have a treadmill) but find it hard to do on a daily basis depending on how much sleep I've had. I don't live near any great shopping or movie theaters, so doing something in town is usually stopping at a fast food place.
Any suggestions? I'll come back to check this thread in a bit. My son just fell asleep about a half hour ago and I'm going to take a nap. He was up since 3:00 a.m.
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Post by Eddie-n-Harley on Jul 5, 2014 19:39:50 GMT
Sometimes, I find just being able to go outside for a little bit really helps to combat the cabin fever and boredom. Would you be able to go out for a quick walk around the block or up and down the road?
One thing I like to do on the weekend is go to the Barnes and Noble, have coffee, and look at magazines. You could take your book up to the fast food place and sit and read while you have a coffee or shake or lunch or whatever.
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Post by BarbaraUK on Jul 5, 2014 19:45:49 GMT
Oh gosh, I do feel for you! Nothing like your situation but recently a medical thing made it difficult for me to go out for almost twelve months so I do know how it feels at times. ![>:(](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/angry.png) Apart from what you have said, I can only suggest knitting, crocheting or embroidery to add to your list. Hope that someone comes up with some really interesting suggestions for you! ![:smile:](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/smiley.png)
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Post by Megan on Jul 5, 2014 19:46:54 GMT
Can you go outside? To a park, even your back yard for some sun. Pick up gardening (haha -totally NOT something I could do!), reading outside, just relaxing?
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Post by wellway on Jul 5, 2014 19:49:52 GMT
Do you have a garden? Could you create a space that would help recharge your batteries? or plan a veg patch? Fresh air and a form of exercise
You read, could you be part of a reading group, possibly online. Something that helps you make contact with others
Do you sew? quilting, bag making.
Take an online course on a subject that interests you.
I appreciate what the lack of sleep can do for you, years of a snoring DH and a child who thought sleep was optional.
ETA: revamp old furniture, possibly for your garden. Set yourself a target of baking a new dish every couple of weeks, have fun picking which dish, getting the ingredients and then eating the result.
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Post by my2apps2 on Jul 5, 2014 19:50:05 GMT
I second gardening or going for a quick walk (and bonus, both of those count as exercise!) Maybe start hosting a weekly crop at your home or a book club/ bible study?
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Post by CeeScraps on Jul 5, 2014 19:55:40 GMT
A garden sounds like a good idea if you have the space! You could not only make a veggie garden but a flower garden too.
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Post by Sam on Jul 5, 2014 20:00:25 GMT
Take some photos - could be anything you want - there are loads of ideas out there.
Macro of flowers, leaves, bugs, DUST!!! LOL
Water droplets
You and your son, doing what you do
Leads to maybe journalling a little about your journey...
Kind of like scrapping but doesn't have to be, IYSWIM!
Anyway - other ideas (if you are confined to the house a lot) would include free on-line courses in, oh, I don't know, anything you want/have an interest in (there are loads out there as well); finding a really contentious political forum and just asking a lot of questions (usually only works for a day or two before you want to poke out your own eyeballs, but could be good in an emergency); painting by numbers stuff - for when you need to just be on automatic kind of; solitaire (same reasons as painting by numbers); get a hamster (I swear this sounds MAD, but they are cute, cool and don't require walking - just depends on how son might react/interact, I guess).
Cactus growing - kind of easy on the non-green-fingered! Knitting a great long something which never turns into something but you can call a scarf later is good, too!!.
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Post by MommyofTriplets on Jul 5, 2014 20:22:52 GMT
You've gotten a lot of great suggestions. I don't have anything to add, but just wanted to let you know that I also spend a lot of time at home with a special needs child. I understand where you're coming from.
Amy
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Post by Rainbow on Jul 5, 2014 20:29:49 GMT
Keep a journal? Write short stories? Yoga?
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Post by Deleted on Jul 5, 2014 20:38:34 GMT
I've been enjoying listening to TED talks lately. Some are academic, some are thoughtful, some are funny and entertaining. This has provided a good, easy, and free way to keep my brain happy while at home. ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/MNrJDkDuSwqIMVw33MdD.jpg)
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Post by craftykitten on Jul 5, 2014 20:39:02 GMT
Oh, I do feel for you. I was very ill a few years ago and not being able to leave the house drove me crazy! You've had lots of good suggestions already, the only thing I would add is what about a sketchbook? There are loads of photos online to draw from, even doodling can be very therapeutic. Good luck!
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Post by scorpeao on Jul 5, 2014 20:41:08 GMT
I exercise, clean, cook or pea. Pretty much in that order. I reward myself with peaing. So far today I didn't exercise, but I've vacuumed, steam mopped, and cleaned mini blinds.
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Post by Nicole on Jul 5, 2014 20:44:53 GMT
There are some great suggestions already, I would just add reading, cooking or baking, maybe start a blog? Or maybe try learning a new language if you're feeling like something like that. Duolingo is free (they have a website and an app and there are a lot of different languages.)
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Post by gypsymama on Jul 5, 2014 21:01:27 GMT
how about a chat room\? i go to paltalk sometimes - there's a room for everything under the sun!
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Post by Dori~Mama~Bear on Jul 5, 2014 22:05:27 GMT
I am a home body. I don't work and I don't go very many places. I usually only go to town when I need to... I love staying home. I don't get bored most of the time.
I have my crafts, I have my websites that I like to go to often, I have a few games on my tablet that I like to play. My daughter and I love to color and we usually give each other challenges for color sheets we print from the internet. I have a few day time talk shows that I record and watch (most of the time I fast forward to the interviews) I watch a lot of stuff on netflix. I like doing word puzzles also. I do read but haven't lately. We are getting a hot tub (ordered it now we sit and wait for delivery) so that will take some time out of my day sitting in there each evening. then there is always cleaning house, cooking dinner and keeping the dogs from sleeping all day..
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Post by conchita on Jul 5, 2014 22:08:55 GMT
One thing I didn't see mentioned (or maybe missed) is playing games on the Wii. I have a special needs son of my own and we play different games together. There's Wii Fit, several dancing games, variety of sports and interactive games. I also took up cooking and my son helps with prep and clean. We also like to go on walks in the evening when the weather permits and play in the neighborhood park. If you can, set up an outdoor space and spend some time outdoors. I also frequently rearrange my furniture just to have a change in scenery.
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Post by Florida Cindy on Jul 5, 2014 22:16:35 GMT
Swap BotYou'll find many interesting swaps. -Blogging? Or, is that not popular anymore? -Online gaming-free games are great. -F/B-especially a group that understands the challenges in your family -Writing pen pals -Exercise. When do you usually have the most energy? Maybe it's not possible to workout every day, but perhaps every other day? -Do you have anyone that can help you?
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Post by Deleted on Jul 5, 2014 23:31:06 GMT
Thanks for your suggestions.
I'll try to get out when he goes to sleep. I've been working on getting him to bed early so he'll be ready in time for school. It takes a long time.
I don't think a garden would work. I have some flowers in some pots in my front yard. My son is low functioning. He all ready killed a very small apple tree we planted in the back.
I should look into the online courses. I've heard good things about the TED talks. I know I've watched a couple of them.
I guess I could try some new recipes. Maybe I'll finally like cooking. I forgot about the Wii. It's something my son can't do though.
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Post by whipea on Jul 5, 2014 23:40:28 GMT
How about learning a musical instrument? There are so many choices and tons of how to videos online.
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Post by melissak on Jul 6, 2014 0:06:16 GMT
All the suggestions are good, but have you though about having a play group at your house. Or even just have some friends come for lunch? It might be a good way to break up the boredom as well as get some social interaction for you and your son.
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Post by Yoki on Jul 6, 2014 3:22:02 GMT
The only thing I can think of that I didn't see mentioned yet is puzzles. Pinterest is always a good diversion, too.
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Post by elaine on Jul 6, 2014 3:44:58 GMT
((((Hugs))))
My youngest son turns 13 next month. I still need to bathe and dress him. He has the mental capacity of a 6 year old. He cannot spend any time alone in the house unsupervised. It is very hard. I took up knitting and crochet because I can pick those up and put them down quickly. I make a point of getting up early, before dh goes to work, to run to get my exercise in.
I also got a dog 4 years ago. She has been my lifeline. Seriously, she has been the best thing in my life in a while.
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Post by pynke on Jul 6, 2014 3:52:03 GMT
I was in your situation when my sons were younger. I did crafty things like scrapbooking and knitting/crocheting, gardening, and reading.
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Post by chaosisapony on Jul 6, 2014 3:54:18 GMT
For me even just walking out into the backyard can help. Instead of reading a book inside, what about taking it into the yard? You will get to hear nature sounds, feel a breeze, etc. It can be a good change of pace. Similarly, do an art project with your son outside if he is old enough. Go on a "nature walk" around the yard with him and he can pick a bouquet of flowers. If you'd prefer to stay inside maybe pick something you've always wanted to learn about and do some research online. Maybe there are small things around the house you can easily spruce up with some DIY. It's hard to get out of the funk, but there really are a lot of small changes and things you can do to get out of your rut. ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/MNrJDkDuSwqIMVw33MdD.jpg)
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Post by rst on Jul 6, 2014 4:09:37 GMT
I'm there too. My youngest is currently house/bed bound due to complications of a major surgery and 5 months in and out of the hospital. To go anywhere with him requires an ambulance, so we only get out to go to medical appointments.
I like having a book on tape to listen to. Netflix movies and TV series. Music on Pandora or Spotify.
I find it'skey to have a routine for me, where I get at least 30 minutes of exercise before he's up, plus a shower if all the planets align. I've scheduled quilting days for friends to come over to my house and work on group projects with me-- usually a donation or auction item. Usually it's a smallish group with maybe 3 or 4 other ladies -- so I get a little social interaction, and I have something intersting to work on.
I also try to schedule several visits for my son -- his palliative care team members, friends from school, friends from church, neighbors. We keep the visits short so he doesn't get overwhelmed, but he enjoys about 45 minutes of seeing someone other than me.
I order as many things on Amazon subscribe and save as possible so that when I do get that rare time when I can leave the house, I don't have to waste my precious free time doing mundane errands. I also have a pretty detailed menu planned in advance so that I'm not scrambling to make meals. We keep most meals quite simple and easy to make, and more importantly, easy to clean up.
I've been trying to spend at least an hour each day cleaning out, purging and organizing. I get my son in on these projects when possible by bringing his wheeled bed into the same room with me and telling him what I'm doing. We have music playing, and he at least gets a little change of scene. My son's nonverbal and has no mobility, but his cognition is high, so it sounds like our issues are not exactly the same. But I am wondering if you could come up with some activities that would engage your son and keep him interested outdoors for a change of pace. What about "painting" the sidewalk or patio with water. My boys used to love that when they were toddlers. I let them use an old paint roller and those foam brushes, and they would coat the entire surface with water. OR a sensory bin -- big rubbermaid bin filled with beans and little toys burried to discover. Musical chimes and bells to listen to? A place where he can dig a hole? Obviously, I don't know your son's functional level or interests, but finding things to keep him interested even for a little while will translate to respite for you.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 6, 2014 4:17:46 GMT
I've faced the same issue for a while. My DH also faced it, and now my two adult children have it even worse than we did, since they moved here (from NY) without their cars. DD just got a job (after looking for 9 months!!!!!) and DS is still looking, but this means he'll be stuck at home, alone, most of the time now. He's already going nuts! He works out, looks for jobs and tries to keep busy. He cleans the house and he cooks a lot. I keep reminding him to go outside every day, even for a little bit. I think it helps.
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