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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2015 16:48:25 GMT
I hate having to call a service person to fix things around the house because it creeps me out to have a stranger in my house when I'm here by myself.
Today, it's a plumber.
Deep breathing. My sister was supposed to be here but something came up so its just me. I can feel the hives starting now.
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Post by grace2882 on Feb 17, 2015 16:49:44 GMT
I hate having to call a service person to fix things around the house because it creeps me out to have a stranger in my house when I'm here by myself. Today, it's a plumber. Deep breathing. My sister was supposed to be here but something came up so its just me. I can feel the hives starting now. I feel the same way.
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Post by Olan on Feb 17, 2015 16:50:02 GMT
No. I figure they are human beings trying to earn a living just like me. Not murderers and rapists.
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Post by padresfan619 on Feb 17, 2015 16:51:05 GMT
Not at all. We had a host of plumbing issues last summer, Albert the plumber and I became good friends over the course of all the issues. I only use reputable companies who perform background checks on all employees, it may cost more but it gives me peace of mind. I would never hire a random handyman off of Craigslist.
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Post by JustCallMeMommy on Feb 17, 2015 16:52:20 GMT
I never know what to do with myself. I don't want to follow them around, I want to be available, but I feel lazy just sitting around.
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Post by BarbaraUK on Feb 17, 2015 16:53:44 GMT
No, not at all - after all, I've called them to take care of a repair and they are just people doing a job of work! 
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2015 16:55:17 GMT
This is a home warranty company-issued guy. I didn't get a "say".
since we moved here, i have tried to have things arranged so DH is home. I do many things by myself but this...
In Nashville, I had one guy who did everything. He was a friend I trusted. We went to the same church. His daughters played w my son. I miss him terribly.
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Post by grinningcat on Feb 17, 2015 16:58:36 GMT
I can't say I've had that reaction to service call people. I'm not really sure why I would have that reaction unless they did something/had a bad vibe that would make me think something was wrong.
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Post by amandad74 on Feb 17, 2015 16:59:13 GMT
Hope your problem is resolved of you have a plumber out and nothing serious.
To answer your question, not really, but we have also used the same companies for a while so it 's not new people. But it does disrupt my day sometimes since I need to be around to answer questions, etc. We only use referrals for new companies as well.
Good luck! Amanda
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Post by grammanisi on Feb 17, 2015 16:59:32 GMT
YES! I can make the calls, go to the hardware store, the mechanics, get the oil changed and all of that, but I hate having service people in my house.
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Post by blue tulip on Feb 17, 2015 17:00:19 GMT
nope. I know the odds are they are fine, friendly people who aren't looking to do anything but their job. and I feel confident in my ability to defend myself/escape/get help I do turn out to need it.
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Post by J u l e e on Feb 17, 2015 17:00:37 GMT
I never know what to do with myself. I don't want to follow them around, I want to be available, but I feel lazy just sitting around. This is how I always feel. I usually get some fabulous house project finished that I've been putting off because I want to at least appear to be productive while someone else is working hard in my home.
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Post by amandad74 on Feb 17, 2015 17:00:52 GMT
This is a home warrantee company issued guy. I didn't get a "say". since we moved here, i have tried to have things arranged so DH is home. I do many things by myself but this... In Nashville, I had one guy who did everything. He was a friend I trusted. We went to the same church. His daughters played w my son. I miss him terribly. Since you don't get a say, I do understand the unease.
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Post by bc2ca on Feb 17, 2015 17:01:43 GMT
It doesn't bother me to have someone in the house and I have never had a bad experience with a service call. I do hate that I don't feel like I can just do my regular thing while they are here. I always feel like I'm on standby to answer questions, so end up flipping through a magazine or on the computer, so it feels like a wasted morning.
ETA We had a home warranty issue that needed a plumber. The guy turned out to be pretty decent, but because DH had cut the ceiling to see where the leak was coming from, release the water and minimize the damage, he told us that technically we voided our warranty. He replaced the section of pipe, but fixing the ceiling would be two other service call outs with two more deductibles (one to tape & mud the new drywall, one to texture & paint). It wasn't worth going through the warranty, so I called our regular handyman.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2015 17:10:04 GMT
I clean. Or rather, shuffle stuff around. Aimlessly.
Frankly, we have two other bathrooms...I don't see why we need a third...we could just let it be, right? (My sons do not agree--it's their bathroom w the issue.)
I don't believe them to be evil or murderers and rapists. (Although now that I think about it...) I just don't like strangers in my space.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2015 17:10:30 GMT
Ps thanks for keeping me company, Yall.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Feb 17, 2015 17:15:15 GMT
Nope. They don't creep me out at all. DH is in a service profession himself and through his networking groups he "knows a guy" who can do just about everything, so pretty much everybody who comes to the house is somebody he knows personally and has been vetted by him beforehand. We just had cabinets and shelving installed in my studio by two different contractors, both were fine. My advice would be to ask around with family and friends for recommendations, or use Angie's List or something similar where you can look up Real life recommendations.
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Post by valincal on Feb 17, 2015 17:18:05 GMT
I'm not comfortable with it at all. I don't feel threatened or unsafe, just uncomfortable.  There will be guys in our condo all day Wednesday installing closets and I'm dreading it.
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Post by anonrefugee on Feb 17, 2015 17:19:31 GMT
It only takes one bad apple to make you feel that way. I make a lot of phone calls, always mentioning the name of the repair guy and company within his hearing. If I have to I leave it as a voicemail to myself.
I used to do it only during rare time I got a creep. Then I remembered some of the worst bad guys were the most charming.
I always offer them a gatorade or glass of water and try to polite. Most are people just trying to do a job, support families like everyone wlse.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2015 17:20:25 GMT
Being a single female my choices are never get any service work done or learn to deal with it. I deal. While they are here I take my laptop and get comfortable on the living room sofa with facebook and play a round of candy crush, hit up the refugees, edit some photos or whatever... I do let my family know what company they are from and why they are here so if I go missing they have some information to go on.
eta: I figure the majority of men are just trying to make an honest living like my sons. They aren't there to pass judgement on my house or on me... they are just there to fix whatever and go on to the next job site.
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Post by freebird on Feb 17, 2015 17:21:12 GMT
My husband is one of those dudes. (although he'll just stay in your garage). Trust me, he just wants to get done, get paid and leave.
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Post by pretzels on Feb 17, 2015 17:21:34 GMT
Nope. I do always worry that the issue is going to be much worse than we think, i.e., $1250 for water pipe repair last October.
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Post by loco coco on Feb 17, 2015 17:22:00 GMT
no it doesnt bother me at all, maybe bc my dad was a service guy. I do agree about not knowing what to do while they are there! I like to see whats going on but dont want to be the person standing over their shoulder the whole time!
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2015 17:22:44 GMT
No, they don't freak me out. I'm pretty sure most service companies do criminal background checks. I do try to be around, but not annoy the guy. Plus, I don't have anything nice to steal. 
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Post by scorpeao on Feb 17, 2015 17:26:21 GMT
I never know what to do with myself. I don't want to follow them around, I want to be available, but I feel lazy just sitting around. This...this is about my only concern. I wander aimlessly.
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Post by alittleintrepid on Feb 17, 2015 17:34:03 GMT
Doesn't bother me at all. It goes without saying that once I find someone that I like, I continue to seek the service from that person so that it's not as awkward. Sorry that you don't get that choice.
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Post by originalvanillabean on Feb 17, 2015 17:41:05 GMT
I've never thought about it. Never had a bad experience (thank goodness).
We are pretty loyal to the same people though. Same housekeeper for over 6 years, same pest control company for 9 years (only had 2 changes in personnel). Our regular guy brought in a "new guy" one time and I grilled him pretty hard {since they do walk through every room in our house}.
My DH prefers that he handle most of those calls though, which is fine by me.
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Feb 17, 2015 17:48:58 GMT
nope, not at all. I hung out all day with the painters and the guys who re-did the carpeting while we were getting ready to move into our latest house.
I was unemployed at the time, and it was early summer... I asked them if they needed a glass of water occasionally, but that's pretty much it-- otherwise, I just surfed the internet and tried to stay out of their way.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2015 18:02:38 GMT
I can't remember the last news story I heard about a service man attacking a housewife. I just don't think it happens very often at all. Wives of service men probably find these posts offensive. These men don't walk into your home and suddenly become savage rapists. They're working. Their office just happens to be in your bathroom or laundry room for a few hours.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2015 18:09:14 GMT
I can't remember the last news story I heard about a service man attacking a housewife. I just don't think it happens very often at all. Wives of service men probably find these posts offensive. These men don't walk into your home and suddenly become savage rapists. They're working. Their office just happens to be in your bathroom or laundry room for a few hours. Reading comprehension is a good thing...but thanks for playing.
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