Going to a retreat on your own

Go for it! I haven't gone alone, but I do go with some friends. I only knew my one friend the first year. All the other women were very friendly.

If they aren't super friendly, I'd just listen to my iPod and enjoy my time.

I would go. I've never been to a retreat like that, but if I had the opportunity and no one to go with, I would go alone.

I have gone to crops alone and have found most scrappers are friendly and welcoming. You will have one big thing in common, so that helps! Before kids, I used to travel for work and would check out all the LSSs in whatever city I was in (this was when there were lots of stores in big cities - scrapping heyday). I'd often sign up for classes or crops in the evenings and I NEVER knew anyone! It was fun. If the other people aren't super social, or you feel out of the group, bring your iPod and listen to music, scrappy podcasts, or whatever. But I bet you make some new friends.

The part about the spa has me sold. Ha!

3 1/2hour drive is easy. You won't even need to stop for gas! Get a book on CD or download one to play via your car's Bluetooth. It'll fly by!

Yes, I would in a heart beat.

I need to register for one I found but need to wait until I return from vacation. Hope I am not too late.

I am in Canada too. It seems like they are all long distance from me. But the one I hope to go to is only about an hour away.

I went to a 3 day scrapbook retreat by myself and met two woman who have become good friends! Go with an open mind and I'm sure you'll have fun!

I haven't done it myself, but when we were hosting weekend retreats, there were always several ladies who came by themselves. We typically seated them together, and it didn't take long before friendships developed and they were having a great time! I would say "go for it!"

Our little group hosts twice a year retreats at a beautiful bed and breakfast. Group is very small, no more than 12 women at a time. We do try to encourage other "crafters" to come join us, even if they are alone. There is a single bedroom available if they are more comfortable with it. We have new and different people every time. So yes if you want to go please do. We look forward to new people. But there is quite a bit more socialization at our retreats since we are a relatively small group.

I would go in a heart beat if you can afford it and don't mind the drive GO!

I have no problem going anywhere by myself. I drive to see my sis, almost 8 hours. It is always more fun to have a buddy, but I would be happy by myself too.

I can see lots of scrapping and relaxing getting done. The hardest part for me would be the wait until May

I go to crops by myself all the time. None of my friends scrapbook. People are always friendly and I have a great time!!

Sometimes its good to move outside your comfort zone.....go for it!! I bet you have a great time!!

I went to a Copic retreat last year on my own. Well, not technically, since I have a medical service dog, but without a *person*. We paid the extra for the single room though because of the dog and because of my medical issues. Coughing all night is not endearing, or endurable, for all people!

All in all, it was kinda weird. I'm casual friends with the lady that taught the classes at the retreat, so she "looked after" me and hung out with me a little, but it was completely different than when I went with my BFF. Honestly, if not for Sirius I would have been really, really lonely. I enjoyed the time in the room alone, just watching movies on my tablet and having snacks, but the class experience and the meal experience was really lonely. Mostly just sat colouring on my own. I'm friendly, not shy, but I don't have a ton in common with people my age (most were older too) and have a hard time "connecting" I guess is the word. I'm on the fence about doing it again. Not because of my experience, but because of the expense and the fact that I've done it twice now. Going to a retreat alone is not a deal breaker. It was a little lonely, but it was also time away from home and (though strange) kind of enjoyable time away from husband. Somehow spending all that money is more justifiable when going with a friend and having it be "girl time". For me, I could just learn/colour in the privacy of my own home. Strangely, after I left, I was almost tempted to say I should occasionally just get a room in a hotel with just Sirius and I, to give husband a break and myself a break from home. No classes needed!

ETA: the retreat was in AZ and we are in CA. Husband has a brother a few hours away from where the crop was so he dropped me off at the retreat hotel and continued on to stay with his brother for the 3 days.

I would go to a crop by myself. It would be nice if there were some friendly people there. However, even if there are not any friendly people I would enjoy getting away and getting some scrapping done.

I would probably go. I did drive one year to Minneapolis to crop with people I'd never technically met, although I "knew" them from a message board. Personally, I AM an introvert so I don't need small talk to be happy. No one wants to talk to me? No prob. I'm gonna listen to my headphones.

I don't consider 40 people to be a small crop-- I am normally at a crop with 10-15 people. For the most part, everyone works on their own stuff quietly. Occasionally a conversation will strike up; often I tune it out. I hope no one thinks I am being unfriendly-- I am just focused on my own little corner of the table.

I'd {love} to go!! My schedule and life commitments/season of life don't allow it, but my SIL goes to 2-3 a year. She's very determined to go to them.


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