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Post by magentapea on Jul 11, 2014 17:29:15 GMT
I'm glad you got a judge with common sense. I hope things continue in your favor. Good luck with the next hearing.
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Post by uksue on Jul 11, 2014 17:36:19 GMT
My soon to be ex's first wife tried filing false claims against me about 12 years ago. She even coached the kids into saying that I starved them and tried to strangle them when they came to stay with us. The court appointed psychologist and CAFCASS officer saw through it all before they even talked to the boys because of all the carp she had already pulled. What on earth gets into people? My oldest stepson has been back in touch with us about 3 1/2 years now after many years of no contact and he was so embarrassed , apologising to me for what he had said. All I could do was reassure him we knew where the real problem lay! It's hard that this is being instigated by your own child though.
I hope this is all resolved quickly for you.
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Post by gypsymama on Jul 11, 2014 17:38:36 GMT
Glad it went well (or as well as it could for the time being)! I must say, your avatar picture always makes me stop and linger- that sweet little face! Those eyes! I love that picture! And then I remember that I've been seeing it for years over at TwoPeas, and the little guy must be quite a bit older now. Is he the 5yo that's visiting his dad in NY? yes he is! Attachment Deletedhere they both are at the airport on their way to NY
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Post by gypsymama on Jul 11, 2014 17:40:20 GMT
My soon to be ex's first wife tried filing false claims against me about 12 years ago. She even coached the kids into saying that I starved them and tried to strangle them when they came to stay with us. The court appointed psychologist and CAFCASS officer saw through it all before they even talked to the boys because of all the carp she had already pulled. What on earth gets into people? My oldest stepson has been back in touch with us about 3 1/2 years now after many years of no contact and he was so embarrassed , apologising to me for what he had said. All I could do was reassure him we knew where the real problem lay! It's hard that this is being instigated by your own child though. I hope this is all resolved quickly for you. oh wow ![:(](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/mYSUyHtG9Jrcmm_ydVcK.jpg) i'm so glad he got back in touch! my dh went through similar garbage with his ex, she took the kids and disappeared for years and when they finally came back, she'd poisoned the girls so much against him that to this day one hates him but will speak now and then and the other will not have anything to do with him at all.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jul 11, 2014 17:43:15 GMT
I am so sorry you are going through this. Good thing the judge saw through him too. I will keep you in my prayers that this gets resolved quickly and those kids are back with you soon.
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Post by valincal on Jul 11, 2014 17:47:34 GMT
![:(](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/mYSUyHtG9Jrcmm_ydVcK.jpg) So sorry you're dealing with this. I hope it is resolved quickly. Take care. ETA...Oops, I posted without reading your updates. Glad it's all worked out for the time being! You must be so relieved.
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Post by bdawnb on Jul 11, 2014 18:03:55 GMT
Ugh. I'm sorry you are having to deal with this mess. Iim happy things are moving in your favor. Hopefully it will be settled soon.
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Post by mikklynn on Jul 11, 2014 18:07:52 GMT
I am so sorry. Sending lots of good thoughts your way.
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Post by melissak on Jul 11, 2014 18:22:22 GMT
Glad it went well!
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Post by mollycoddle on Jul 11, 2014 18:28:14 GMT
I hope that this works out in your favor. 12 is such a difficult age. Hang tough!
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Post by purplebee on Jul 11, 2014 18:31:57 GMT
Sounds like the judge saw your side of it. Glad to hear that it was rescheduled and that things might be turning around for you. I wondered what had happened. Keep us posted, you're in my prayers.
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Post by bluepoprocks on Jul 11, 2014 19:11:10 GMT
I hope you get your kids back and I hope he gets on trouble for making false claims.
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Post by maurchclt on Jul 11, 2014 19:42:19 GMT
Hugs, sounds like the judge has some common sense. Hopefully this will all work out.
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Post by lucyg on Jul 11, 2014 20:29:39 GMT
ugh. Best wishes to you. I'm glad the judge seems understanding.
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Post by marianne on Jul 11, 2014 20:38:59 GMT
I'm sorry you're having to deal with this. Glad to hear the judge was on his toes about jurisdiction and I hope things go well in August.
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Post by gypsymama on Jul 25, 2014 17:35:07 GMT
bumping this with new info
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Post by magentapea on Jul 25, 2014 17:43:24 GMT
Thanks for the update. I am still thinking positive thoughts that it all ends quickly in your favor.
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Jul 25, 2014 17:45:57 GMT
I read your update and I just want to give additional (((hugs)))
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Post by River on Jul 25, 2014 17:51:23 GMT
Lots of hugs and prayers. I hope this gets resolved soon.
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Post by mikklynn on Jul 25, 2014 17:52:37 GMT
Read your update...still sending lots of good thoughts your way!
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Post by TXRangersFan on Jul 25, 2014 17:55:27 GMT
Thank you for keeping us updated. I can't imagine how stressful this must be for you. Please remember to take care of yourself!
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Post by purplebee on Jul 25, 2014 17:56:00 GMT
Oh my, was hoping for a better update. But it doesn't sound like ex is doing himself any favors. [Hugs]
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Post by miominmio on Jul 25, 2014 18:15:22 GMT
Lots of hugs coming your way!
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Post by Native New Yorker on Jul 25, 2014 18:18:18 GMT
Wishing all the best for you and your family!!!
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Post by anniebygaslight on Jul 25, 2014 18:20:35 GMT
Crikey. I hope this gets sorted quickly and satisfactorily.
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Post by 1lear on Jul 25, 2014 18:25:24 GMT
How stressful-I'm praying it gets resolved quickly.
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Post by alibama on Jul 25, 2014 18:29:24 GMT
No wonder you are loosing your mind! I would be too. Prayers continue for you.
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Post by cherrie on Jul 25, 2014 18:45:05 GMT
I have been hoping for an update Gypsymama. So he is ticking this judge off but over the weekend he has time to try and brain wash the kids before they meet with officials! I just don't get it....if I were a judge his visitation rights would have been suspended since he hasn't bothered to file the papers needed. Prayers for you to get through this trying time!
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Post by mimima on Jul 25, 2014 22:20:53 GMT
Hugs. I'm sorry .
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Post by azredhead on Jul 25, 2014 23:52:13 GMT
Hugs! I hope you get things better soon. ![:(](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/mYSUyHtG9Jrcmm_ydVcK.jpg) Sent from my KFSOWI using Tapatalk
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