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Post by mztfied on Jul 22, 2014 23:10:41 GMT
I would will myself to be absolutely in crazy love with exercise. I would wake up every.single.morning wishing for that moment when I could get to it. Every square inch of my body would be smooth and svelte. Yea..right!! Oh wait a minute...here come another hot flash.
I would also have gone to college before I had my family. I married young which in hindsight I can see was not a good thing.
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Post by Native New Yorker on Jul 22, 2014 23:21:47 GMT
I can throw more shade than the tallest tree. I need to choose my words more carefully at times and in a nicer way.
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Post by myboysnme on Jul 23, 2014 0:15:34 GMT
My huge stomach. I have hated it since it was flat and I thought it wasn't. Now it is anything but flat and I hate it. I fantasize about having surgery, but at my age and financial situation there is no way. I probably wouldn't be happy anyway, because it would probably never be flat. But if given the opportunity I would suffer the pain just to have a chance that it would cease to be an embarrassment.
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Post by bluepoprocks on Jul 23, 2014 1:19:09 GMT
I wish I didn't have such a bad temper and that I didn't have so much anxiety.
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sharlag
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Post by sharlag on Jul 23, 2014 1:25:32 GMT
I wish I could fly. Like Superman. I have dreams that I can. In my dreams I'm sort of wobbly though, and sometimes have issues with power lines.
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azredhead
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Post by azredhead on Jul 23, 2014 1:37:33 GMT
My stomach. It's never been the same since my surgeries. I'm not overweight at all but my stomach always looks a little swollen and I don't have kids and don't plan on it.
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uksue
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Post by uksue on Jul 23, 2014 1:39:11 GMT
The thing I hate most about myself and am constantly fighting is being intolerant . I am strangely tolerant and liberal about 'big' things, but little things- like the smell of cigarette smoke, noisy eating, people picking at their nails, cracking their knuckles etc etc etc- drives me mad. I am always blighting my tongue to stop myself saying something and I hate the fact that I even notice it.
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Post by Aheartfeltcard on Jul 23, 2014 1:45:01 GMT
I wish I didn't care enough about things big and small. I have very few relationships with people because of things I have no tolerance for . I am not a phony and I can't pretend. I'm kind of a loner because of it.
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Post by bdawnb on Jul 23, 2014 2:21:05 GMT
I procrastinate. And I interrupt. A lot. Mostly my husband though. I can't figure out if that is because I talk to him more or if it's because he drags everything out so long. haha
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tiffanytwisted
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Post by tiffanytwisted on Jul 23, 2014 2:25:44 GMT
Physically, I wish I was healthier all the way around - eating habits, exercise, getting enough sleep, keeping up w/doctors apps., etc.
And I really need to work on my procrastination.
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Post by chaosisapony on Jul 23, 2014 2:26:43 GMT
I wish I was more motivated. Many people my age have gone back to school and started real careers. I have absolutely no desire to ever set foot in a classroom ever again. Ever. I also quite like my low end jobs. I don't want a career. If I could just get some motivation I could really improve my life.
Physically it would be my poor eyesight. I am so tired of wearing glasses. And my facial hair. I would do anything to get rid of my dark, thick facial hair.
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moodyblue
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Post by moodyblue on Jul 23, 2014 2:48:52 GMT
Like so many others, my weight. I wish I had been able to stay at the weight I was at age 25. I had lost weight and looked good and I felt like I was at the weight my body should be at for my build.
I wish I had been better at saving money from the time I started working full-time.
On a less serious note, I wish I could sing.
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caro
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Post by caro on Jul 23, 2014 2:51:24 GMT
I would like to have thicker hair and more of it. [br ^^^ that^^^. And I would be thin like I was on my 20's.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 23, 2014 3:33:23 GMT
Only one? Well if I could do a physical thing it would be get my weight and fitness back to where it was 10 years ago.....if I were allowed any number of things I'd throw a nose job in there and a boob job too. Personally, I should be less judgmental and bitchy and more tolerant. I'm also very outspoken (goes well with judgmental )
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M in Carolina
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Post by M in Carolina on Jul 23, 2014 5:23:31 GMT
I also wish I could easily lose the 30lbs that would make me more healthy and help with my non-alcoholic cirrhosis. That is very difficult when I can barely eat and can't exercise.
I struggled with my weight most of my life. I was told I was fat as a child when I wasn't. I was too skinny in high school, then I started gaining more and more weight after I could no longer exercise and wasn't as active as I used to be. Then my illness piled the weight on. After I had my stroke and had to stop all the hormones for my endometriosis, etc. I lost a ton of weight.
That negative voice in the back of my head hadn't gone away. That's the dirty little secret about losing weight. Everyone wants to be you, wishes they had lost the weight, fawns over you, but they don't know that inside, you still see every little flaw and still hate yourself. Part of this negativity was my mother. I stopped listening to her and started to change the way that I thought of myself.
My husband insisted that I was the most beautiful woman in the world---how many of us write those comments off as something our loved ones *have* to say. Dh sat me down and told me how much he valued my opinion and believed what I said about everything. I told him I felt the same way about him..."but then why don't you believe me when I say you're beautiful?' That was a huge turning point for me. Also as a Christian, God tells us that we are wonderfully made. Who am I to not believe God?
I'm still a work in progress, but I have spent a lot of attention on being comfortable in my own skin. I kicked that negative voice out and got a restraining order--any time it tries to come back, I think positively.
I also wish that I had my health. I hate that I am so limited, not just for myself, but because I can't be there for other people. I get so tired of being in constant pain and rarely having a great day. I know things could be worse, and there are others worse off than me. I just wish I could help my wonderful dh more, and we could do more stuff together.
I also have problems crying at the worst moments. Mine came as my MS like neurological disease got worse. I still hate it. I do the ugly cry and sometimes it doesn't go along with my mood or feelings.
I wish I could wear heels and pretty shoes. I try to find pretty flats, but there are so many beautiful shoes I can't wear. I hate it.
Sharla, I too wish I could fly like a bird. The dreams where I'm flying are my favourites. I've always wanted to go on the flying trapeeze. Paragliding is also on my bucket list. I saw people doing that on top of a mountain in France. They had a harness where they could sit and someone else helped keep their small chute open as the paraglider slowly lifted off the ground. Amazing.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 23, 2014 6:12:21 GMT
I wish I didn't care enough about things big and small. I have very few relationships with people because of things I have no tolerance for . I am not a phony and I can't pretend. I'm kind of a loner because of it. We may be sisters. I always say, with me, I'm the same yesterday today and tomorrow-good or bad. Thank god for my sister or I'd never have anyone to do anything with. I have almost no friends IRL.
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Post by formerpea on Jul 23, 2014 13:27:55 GMT
My height - I am 5'2". You'd be surprised at the amount of styles I can't wear & am dying to. Oh well, just have to compensate like always!
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