styxgirl
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Post by styxgirl on Jul 27, 2014 12:54:11 GMT
This is kinda like an "I tired this amazing new recipe" and not giving the recipe ....there are "rules" about that, around here, you know.
I feel bad for you in your situation and I can only say depending on the severity of what they did, I would decided to forgive them, or forget them. I don't have that info on the situation so I can't say what I would do.
It sucks losing friends no matter the circumstances. Hopefully it wasn't bad enough and it can be mended.
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Post by magentapea on Jul 27, 2014 13:14:37 GMT
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Post by Sassy Sabrina SWZ on Jul 27, 2014 13:27:03 GMT
Both of you may be right. I was only searching for a little background, not the specific situation. It would be nice if the OP came back to provide more context.
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Post by cindyupnorth on Jul 27, 2014 18:32:05 GMT
Wonder if the OP will ever come back? That sucks when people post and run..
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marianne
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Post by marianne on Jul 27, 2014 19:01:40 GMT
Wonder if the OP will ever come back? That sucks when people post and run.. I agree, it does suck, but with people pretty much demanding information she didn't feel comfortable enough to disclose and then making light of her distress, I can't say as I blame her. It isn't always necessary to know every little detail in order to respond to someone's request. Maybe now she is embarrassed to say anything more for fear of ridicule.
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Post by cindyupnorth on Jul 27, 2014 20:19:12 GMT
Eh...it is STILL the NSBR after all!! We can't lose our rep's now!
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oldcrow
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Post by oldcrow on Jul 27, 2014 20:37:59 GMT
Oh, you think. Well, I don't know what to say. DQ comes to mind.
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Post by SabrinaM on Jul 27, 2014 20:38:04 GMT
Now people are stalking the 2Peas board digging up dirt on the OP.
Some things never change! LOL
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Post by Sam on Jul 27, 2014 20:41:55 GMT
Eh...it is STILL the NSBR after all!! We can't lose our rep's now! It's a bit of a shame though - some people haven't taken note of the comments made by others that the behaviour on NSBR was not always the best. Gloating that women behave like that is not something I would be proud of.
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marianne
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Post by marianne on Jul 27, 2014 20:42:39 GMT
Eh...it is STILL the NSBR after all!! We can't lose our rep's now! Just out of curiosity, who are we having to prove "our reps" to?
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Post by peasapie on Jul 27, 2014 21:36:04 GMT
Am I the only one with the lyrics to "(Hey Won't You Play) Another Somebody Done Somebody Wrong Song" by B.J. Thomas running through my head now? Well no, but I was thinking of My Fair Lady.
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Post by cindyupnorth on Jul 27, 2014 21:40:04 GMT
"Just out of curiosity, who are we having to prove "our reps" to?"
ooh good gravy. Lighten up. Talk about same old..
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Post by Sam on Jul 27, 2014 21:42:29 GMT
"Just out of curiosity, who are we having to prove "our reps" to?" ooh good gravy. Lighten up. Talk about same old.. Same old you anyway! Some things never change!
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marianne
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Post by marianne on Jul 27, 2014 22:09:32 GMT
You know, Cindy, rather than your usual snarky put downs, it would be nice if you offered something a little more constructive to a conversation.
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Post by Zee on Jul 27, 2014 22:44:46 GMT
Let up on Cindy--she was kidding. Good grief.
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marianne
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Post by marianne on Jul 27, 2014 22:56:29 GMT
No, she wasn't... it's SOP. But if that's your idea of kidding, lighten up, I was kidding.
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Post by Chips on Jul 27, 2014 22:59:18 GMT
We have some friends who treated us wrong about a month ago. We haven't spoken to them since but our kids have talked through social media. We've only known them for about 14 months. I don't want to get into what happen, but they did us wrong. What would you do if you really liked someone but they did you wrong? I really miss them but don't know what to do. Should I not talk to them ever again or call them and try to talk things out. I don't want to be treated this way ever again through. It not only hurt me and my husband but it hurt my kids too. If these were friends I really liked, I'd ask them over or out for lunch and talk about what happened. More often than not it is usually just a misunderstanding. Good friends are hard to find and you should not just cut them off without reaching out to them.
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Post by papersilly on Jul 27, 2014 23:39:11 GMT
If you feel you cant get over or don't want to get over it then walk away. Friendships with hidden resentment are never the same again.
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Post by Zee on Jul 27, 2014 23:44:11 GMT
No, she wasn't... it's SOP. But if that's your idea of kidding, lighten up, I was kidding. Oh...kay. I hope your eyes don't get stuck like that!
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nickle831
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Post by nickle831 on Jul 27, 2014 23:52:45 GMT
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Post by Sassy Sabrina SWZ on Jul 28, 2014 1:32:57 GMT
Oldcrow: sorry, I don't know what DQ means here. Disqualified? Dairy Queen? SabrinaM: if you're referring to my post, I wasn't trying to dig up dirt. After two pages of everybody saying that they couldn't give good advice without more information on the neighbor's offense, I thought of searching previous posts by the OP for something on a similar topic. I wasn't making any value judgment. Oh, boy, I guess I'm a full-fledged Refupea, now. My first controversy!
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Post by cindyupnorth on Jul 28, 2014 1:39:08 GMT
And I was kidding too. Marianne quit acting like a hypocrite. You are Queen of SOP. I was freaking kidding. Hence the lighten up comment. cripes. And I DID give advice earlier on. It was you and your usual handslapping that got things off course.
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scrapaddie
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Post by scrapaddie on Jul 28, 2014 1:41:23 GMT
What so YOU want to do ? The kids seem to be ok.... You are. An adult so act like one. .. Talk!
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Post by grammyj64 on Jul 28, 2014 2:56:15 GMT
So is this the first train wreck on the new board?
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marianne
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Post by marianne on Jul 28, 2014 3:05:21 GMT
And I was kidding too. Marianne quit acting like a hypocrite. You are Queen of SOP. I was freaking kidding. Hence the lighten up comment. cripes. And I DID give advice earlier on. It was you and your usual handslapping that got things off course. And there it is... the handslap card! Where are my pearls? Go ahead and call me whatever you like, Cindy, but it's no secret that you've got a snarky mouth and react predictably when called on it. You're not fooling anyone, with the possible exception of yourself.
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