purplebee
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Post by purplebee on Feb 20, 2016 21:54:31 GMT
I don't wear dresses because the trend of bare legs just does not suit my white, flabby, 64 year old legs. If they were long, slim and tan, you bet I'd be rocking the bare legged look.
I used to wear hose with skirts/dresses all the time, when everyone did, and when I had to dress for the office. I liked the control top hose that held in my belly a bit, and I especially liked the darker opaque hose that were popular in the fall and winter. I never had a problem with pantyhose creeping down, they always seemed comfortable to wear. I don't like the feel of my bare thighs rubbing together in the summer heat, even with a long dress.
So now if I have to dress up a bit, it's dressy pants and top. I'm glad our required scrubs at work eliminate the possibility of wearing a dress. I wish hose would come back in style again.
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Post by myshelly on Feb 20, 2016 21:54:52 GMT
I must have more slips than all the peas put together. I don't wear dresses any more except to an occasional wedding but I have half-slips of varying lengths and colors including one my grandmother made for her wedding in the early 1900's. It amuses me that no one thinks they need a slip when I see people all the time when, against the light, I can see every curve of their body, legs and inner thighs. But, maybe people don't care. To each her own. Serious question - why does it matter if you can see the shape of a person's body? Their legs? How is it any different than if that person was wearing a pair of skinny jeans? I mean, I understand if you can see the person's underwear or lack thereof. I don't like that. But I don't understand the purpose of wearing a slip to avoid seeing the shape of legs.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Feb 20, 2016 22:00:07 GMT
I must have more slips than all the peas put together. I don't wear dresses any more except to an occasional wedding but I have half-slips of varying lengths and colors including one my grandmother made for her wedding in the early 1900's. It amuses me that no one thinks they need a slip when I see people all the time when, against the light, I can see every curve of their body, legs and inner thighs. But, maybe people don't care. To each her own. Serious question - why does it matter if you can see the shape of a person's body? Their legs? How is it any different than if that person was wearing a pair of skinny jeans? I mean, I understand if you can see the person's underwear or lack thereof. I don't like that. But I don't understand the purpose of wearing a slip to avoid seeing the shape of legs. Because in the olden days we were taught it was immodest. Of course, we also covered our pregnant bellies with tents so there is that. Younger woman probably don't care that one can see everything, at my age I'm still modest.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 20, 2016 22:01:26 GMT
I don't know anyone who wears nylons. I don't know how many people wear slips. I have one that I do wear with a couple dresses/skirts only because they are a little too transparent for my comfort when light shines through.
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Post by tiffanytwisted on Feb 20, 2016 22:13:06 GMT
I haven't been to a formal enough occasion where I couldn't get away w/pants in a really long time. I do still own nylons (and I have only heard to them referred to as 'hose' here, lol) and a few half slips.
So now I have a question . . . I have been out of the work force for a really long time, so bear with me. Do women still wear suits to work? And if so, is everyone going bare legged? I've worked in places where the dress code is casual, so this would be fine, but I'm wondering what goes on in law offices, the upper floors of big corporations, etc.
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Post by Woobster on Feb 20, 2016 22:17:08 GMT
I wear dresses quite often, especially when the weather is warm. I don't own any pantyhose (haven't for about 15 years), and I only have one dress that needs a slip under it.
I can't even imagine fighting with hose in the heat/humidity of Florida. No thank you.
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Post by AussieMeg on Feb 20, 2016 22:37:13 GMT
I stopped wearing nylons/hose many years ago. They are itchy and if you aren't wearing the thigh high ones they make your hoo-haw sweat...even still pretty much the only people who wear hose around these parts are the elderly. I wear dresses or skirts to work all year round. I do wear pantyhose every now and then in winter. Black hose when I'm wearing a black skirt and yes, skin colour when I'm wearing a lighter colour dress. To me, they are not itchy, they don't make my hoo-haw sweat, and they're not just for the elderly. I never wear slips. I think I might have an old one in the depths of my cupboard, I vaguely remember wearing it with a sheer skirt. But that was a long time ago. Funnily enough, when I was young and skinny.
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Post by jbelle on Feb 20, 2016 22:37:19 GMT
I have sold vintage lingerie online. About 99.5% of all my buyers were men who have paid $350 for one pair of panties, $45 for one package of pantyhose, and $80.00 for a full slip. This experience gave me a new appreciation for the items I once complained about but also enjoyed wearing as a teen in the 80s. Why let the guys have all the fun? I have now added a few of these items back into my wardrobe and it has been surprisingly nice.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Feb 20, 2016 22:39:45 GMT
I hugely disagree with you on the timing. The no hose thing has been the norm for closer to 15 years or longer. At least here. I also think that associating it with the elderly has more to do with attitude (the elderly refusing to accept current fashion norms and clinging to what was the norm in their time) than with time. Or maybe because our once beautiful legs are now dotted with big fat ugly age spots that look worse than the hose we wear to cover them. I do, however, rock wearing tights with a long sweater in the winter and look fabulous if I do say so myself. I hear you! Or scars from bug bites, chicken pox, surgery, etc. Or in my case the ever present rotation of bruises from constantly getting whacked in the legs by dogs, the kid, or tripping over stuff left in my path by the aforementioned dogs and kid. Or varicose veins. Or stretch marks. My legs just don't look nice anymore, so the more I can cover them up the happier I am. On the very, VERY rare occasion when I *have* to wear a skirt or dress I absolutely wear a half slip and usually nylons of some sort. I would rather wear a slip and not need to than need to and not have one on.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Feb 20, 2016 22:42:41 GMT
I haven't been to a formal enough occasion where I couldn't get away w/pants in a really long time. I do still own nylons (and I have only heard to them referred to as 'hose' here, lol) and a few half slips. So now I have a question . . . I have been out of the work force for a really long time, so bear with me. Do women still wear suits to work? And if so, is everyone going bare legged? I've worked in places where the dress code is casual, so this would be fine, but I'm wondering what goes on in law offices, the upper floors of big corporations, etc. When I last worked in an office, I always wore dress slacks and trouser socks with flat loafer type shoes.
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Post by rockymtnpea on Feb 20, 2016 22:50:29 GMT
Didn't mean to insult anyone by using the term elderly. I am 51....my kids think I am elderly...I am not!!! Although I guess saying nylons shows my age. I also disagree that the no hose thing started 7-8 years ago....much longer in these parts and I remember exactly when I stopped wearing em. I was on a cruise with my husband struggling to put a pair of flesh colored hose on. I told him I "hated" wearing em and he said "then don't." I didn't and the world did not come to an end.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 20, 2016 23:13:07 GMT
I also think it's funny that, when looking for some sort of hosiery to wear to a wedding in January (in Michigan, where no one's legs are dress-ready in January), that "sheer tights" are now a trend. Aren't those just nylons/hose?? I wonder the same thing. I've also never understood why nylons don't pass the fashion test, yet tights do. I've worn both and they both feel the same to me. One is just thicker. Also, I don't see the big deal if someone chooses to wear a slip. It isn't always needed, but I like it when I'm wearing a simple cotton skirt or dress. Sometimes they cling to my skin when it's hot (underwear lines can show). The slip solves that problem. It's no different than wearing a lined dress or skirt.
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Post by mom on Feb 20, 2016 23:20:51 GMT
I don't wear hose - ever - but will wear a slip if the material is thin.
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Post by Jockscrap on Feb 20, 2016 23:31:30 GMT
I've worn tights of the thick opaque type, the wooly type and the sheer type in nude,black and navy (and in the eighties any other colour to match the other clothes I was wearing - green, blue, maroon) my whole life. I also wear a petticoat under my unlined dresses as it makes them hang better and stops them clinging. I can't stand waist slips. My legs are pale and dry. They look considerably better in sheer tights. I also hate the way shoes other than sandals feel with bare feet. My feet just get sweaty and blistered, or feel cold, if they are bare.
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Post by brina on Feb 20, 2016 23:33:25 GMT
I wear tights sometimes - I especially love patterned ones. I have not owned a slip since I was a child. I do agree that hose do result in a more polished look, but I rarely wear them.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 20, 2016 23:36:39 GMT
I haven't worn pantyhose in years, though I usually wear a dress or skirt to church. Sometimes if it's really cold I'll wear tights, but thin little pantyhose don't do anything to keep me warm, so why bother?
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Post by AllieC on Feb 20, 2016 23:45:22 GMT
No hose, ever for me. I will wear black opaque tights in Winter with a dress etc but I rarely wear dresses and if I do they are Summer ones and no-one here wears hose in Summer. I hate hose and buggered if I'm going to wear them for fear of offending someone! I don't really care if people see scars etc (and I have plenty on my legs).
My last few job interviews I have worn a black pantsuit so I don't even wear hose then LOL. I wear black pants to work everyday.
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Post by M in Carolina on Feb 20, 2016 23:59:33 GMT
At the Christian schools I went to the girls were required to wear stockings/tights. I hate them. I will wear tights in the winter, but I only wear stockings if absolutely necessary. There are some nice silky ones that actually match your real skin colour. If at all possible, I will put a bit of gradual leg tanner to make my bare legs look better. There are also Leg Bronzers that make your legs look great. I've used the Caudalie and loved it. I didn't look orange even though my legs are super white. I also tried the Sally Hansen and HATED it. I got spray all over the bathroom and the formula wiped off everywhere even though it promised that it dried and wouldn't rub off. Princess Diana stopped wearing stockings, and then tons of women followed her. The royal family wasn't happy about the no stockings so Duchess Kate wears them. I just googled to see if Kate wore nude stockings and found this cool Kate's sheer stockings She wears them all the time. You can't tell at all. I think I'm going to have to find some stockings like those. I also wear slips when needed. It's usually to keep the fabric from clinging and trying to creep between my legs when I walk--like when I wear jersey dresses. I would also wear one under a sheer skirt. My SIL doesn't wear slips and wears thongs. She would sit in the front of church, and you could see her thong and even the colour. She's such an ass about being told anything, so nobody tells her. She's got to have a mirror and realize that you can see *everything* even the cottage cheese cellulite. I do really like the way silk slips feel and how little silk camis and short slips look under clothing. I want to make some because they're really expensive and finding real silk is difficult. Clothes just lie better with the right foundations.
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Post by kath323 on Feb 21, 2016 3:25:01 GMT
So now I have a question . . . I have been out of the work force for a really long time, so bear with me. Do women still wear suits to work? And if so, is everyone going bare legged? I wear suits 3-4 days per week and if it's a skirt or dress suit, yes, stockings for sure. When I wear a pants suit I wear trouser socks or knee highs. Most of us are too cold to not wear them this time of year up here.
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Post by Freefallfast on Feb 21, 2016 3:35:12 GMT
I thought I read that The Duchess of Cambridge wears nylons. Therefore I have hope for my life marked and very not tanned legs. Here's to proper hosiery! ! (For me)
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Feb 21, 2016 4:00:09 GMT
Unless the skirt is lined, I wear slips when I wear skirts... it helps to smooth out the thigh area. I don't ordinarily wear dresses (due to some of the same issues- my bottom half is a different size than my top half) but if I did, I'd wear a slip with a dress, too. I live in Phoenix so pantyhose are out for me due to the heat, but honestly I wish I could. Like some other posters have already said, my legs are white and I have a lot of spider veins. I would feel much more comfortable about how my legs look if I could wear pantyhose. (and I would never wear thigh-high hose. I have in the past, and they were really uncomfortable, and I'd always have to worry about them staying up. I feel much more comfortable in control-top pantyhose.) eta: as M in Carolina said, "Clothes just lie better with the right foundations."
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Post by tiffanytwisted on Feb 21, 2016 4:10:21 GMT
When I last worked in an office, I always wore dress slacks and trouser socks with flat loafer type shoes. I wear suits 3-4 days per week and if it's a skirt or dress suit, yes, stockings for sure. When I wear a pants suit I wear trouser socks or knee highs. Most of us are too cold to not wear them this time of year up here. Since nylons seem to be a no-no, I figured trouser sox were also out, lol. Which would be sad for me because I still have tons!
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Feb 21, 2016 4:13:27 GMT
no no no! The less layers I have on the better and I REALLY detest constantly tugging tights/nylons/hose up all day long and pulling down slips and arranging my skirts! If it requires anything under, it doesn't get bought. ^^^ not to get too personal, but if you have to do this all the time, doesn't this mean the clothes you're wearing are perhaps the wrong size?? No one should have to tug and pull on their clothes umpteen times during the day.
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Post by seaexplore on Feb 21, 2016 4:33:09 GMT
no no no! The less layers I have on the better and I REALLY detest constantly tugging tights/nylons/hose up all day long and pulling down slips and arranging my skirts! If it requires anything under, it doesn't get bought. ^^^ not to get too personal, but if you have to do this all the time, doesn't this mean the clothes you're wearing are perhaps the wrong size?? No one should have to tug and pull on their clothes umpteen times during the day. Nope. I buy the right size (5'7" 140lb) but my legs are long and nothing stays up. I also HATE anything above my belly button level on my waist. I'm weird. Lol. i've even tried control top! While it helped keep the up a bit, it just wasn't worth it.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Feb 21, 2016 14:39:49 GMT
When I last worked in an office, I always wore dress slacks and trouser socks with flat loafer type shoes. I wear suits 3-4 days per week and if it's a skirt or dress suit, yes, stockings for sure. When I wear a pants suit I wear trouser socks or knee highs. Most of us are too cold to not wear them this time of year up here. Since nylons seem to be a no-no, I figured trouser sox were also out, lol. Which would be sad for me because I still have tons! When I was an office worker, all employees HAD to wear some type of socks, stockings, hosiery etc. because it was specifically stated in the dress code. They didn't want people showing up to work in boat shoes or sandals with no socks or stockings. And believe it or not, they even specifically stated in the employee handbook that all employees needed to wear "appropriate undergarments" to work. Back then I couldn't believe allegedly grown up people really needed to be TOLD this, but apparently some people do and a few of my co-workers were reprimanded / sent home for coming to work inappropriately dressed for a professional setting.
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Post by SockMonkey on Feb 21, 2016 15:02:09 GMT
I wear dresses almost exclusively to work now. I am off pants. I hate khakis and think they're fugly. I'll wear some pants, but mostly they're less comfy than a skirt or dress.
In the winter, I wear dresses with tights or leggings, and go bare legged in the late spring/summer/warm fall. I will occasionally wear a decorative slip (with lace on the bottom) for cute factor, but not for coverage. If a dress is that sheer, I don't buy it.
I'm a teacher; in my 20 years of teaching now, I think the last time I saw someone wear true nylons to work was at least 15 years ago. Tights, yes. Nylons? Very rare.
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Post by likescarrots on Feb 21, 2016 18:29:07 GMT
I'm 36 and I wear tights all winter long. I prefer wearing dresses and it's way too cold to not have anything covering my legs. I wear fleece-lined tights from nov-april and usually regular tights april-may (Depending on how cold it is), and then starting again in sept or oct.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Feb 21, 2016 18:38:57 GMT
I wear hose when I weigh less than I do. I love silky looking legs. I also have to be a whole tonne (metric tonne) lighter than I am now. That said, if I wear a dress now it is with boots and bare legs. You don't see any skin so that's a good thing. I am hoping by summer (God willing) I won't need to hide my skin so badly. But for now I make sure I am covered up. Also, my skin colour is glow in the dark, Ross' white teeth white.
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Post by likescarrots on Feb 21, 2016 18:40:43 GMT
no no no! The less layers I have on the better and I REALLY detest constantly tugging tights/nylons/hose up all day long and pulling down slips and arranging my skirts! If it requires anything under, it doesn't get bought. ^^^ not to get too personal, but if you have to do this all the time, doesn't this mean the clothes you're wearing are perhaps the wrong size?? No one should have to tug and pull on their clothes umpteen times during the day. Not necessarily. The brand of tights I wear changed their sizing and now they are a tiny bit too big and slide down, but I wear the smallest size so there's not really anything I can do about it. I wash them once or twice and dry them on warm and then they fit... but it is a pain the first few times. I don't understand slips - don't they get bunched up under dresses/skirts? I hate when anything is bunched up.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2016 18:58:07 GMT
^^^ not to get too personal, but if you have to do this all the time, doesn't this mean the clothes you're wearing are perhaps the wrong size?? No one should have to tug and pull on their clothes umpteen times during the day. Not necessarily. The brand of tights I wear changed their sizing and now they are a tiny bit too big and slide down, but I wear the smallest size so there's not really anything I can do about it. I wash them once or twice and dry them on warm and then they fit... but it is a pain the first few times. I don't understand slips - don't they get bunched up under dresses/skirts? I hate when anything is bunched up. A properly fitted slip does not bunch/ride up. It may not be the same dress size you wear. A slip should fit not fit snugly across your rump. It should have a slight bit of looseness to it. If it is too tight it will ride up. But it should not be so loose fitting it has folds to the fabric either; that is what makes it feel bunched up. It can be a bit tricky to find the size that is loose enough so it doesn't ride up but not so big it becomes bunchy either. Even when women's skirts are not "see through" I can still tell if she is not wearing a slip when she walks. Skirts invariably end up pressing into the front of the legs and riding up a bit as a woman walks.. very camel toe look to it. If that doesn't bother you, fine. But know the view of someone seeing you moving down the hall or sidewalk is very different than the view standing in front of your mirror at home. (owns about a dozen half slips and wears one daily)
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