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Post by Merge on Jun 1, 2016 22:57:01 GMT
 And announces her intention to wear it to an outdoor music festival this weekend. What is your response? |
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Post by The Birdhouse Lady on Jun 1, 2016 22:59:08 GMT
Umm, the hell you are!
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Post by theroadlesstraveledp on Jun 1, 2016 23:01:14 GMT
Sooo.. what else are you planning on wearing under that?  |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 1, 2016 23:02:43 GMT
My response would not be one that she would agree with. HOW is your daughter 15 already??
The first thing out of my mouth would probably be, "There's a reason they named that thing 'out from under'" and things would probably go downhill from there . . .
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Post by Deleted on Jun 1, 2016 23:02:52 GMT
To me, it looks like a one piece bathing suit with denim shorts. If it is going to be really hot, I can see it. My dd is very conservative, by choice, so I do not think it would be something she would wear, but I don't think it is awful either. My dd is also 15.
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Post by sparkyduchess on Jun 1, 2016 23:03:44 GMT
"Sure...it will look lovely under a sweater"
That'd be a big fat no from me - shes too young, and she'll likely end up dealing with idiots who believe they have a right to comment on her. If she were a little older, she'd have the confidence to deal with asshats, but I'm guessing that she's too young to handle that. So...no. But you will SUCK till she gets over it!
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Post by psiluvu on Jun 1, 2016 23:03:56 GMT
LOL I have a 16 yr old daughter who tried something similar also for an outdoor concert. My reaction was yeah no may as well return it and get your money back because you won't be wearing that.
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Post by Merge on Jun 1, 2016 23:04:17 GMT
@tishy, would it change your response if I told you it was backless? No possibility of wearing a bra.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 1, 2016 23:04:22 GMT
And announces her intention to wear it to an outdoor music festival this weekend. What is your response? That plunging neckline will look GREAT over a long sleeved turtle neck sweater. |
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Jun 1, 2016 23:04:30 GMT
Sooo.. what else are you planning on wearing under that? ^^ or what are you planning on wearing OVER that?? |
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Post by Woobster on Jun 1, 2016 23:04:34 GMT
Baha... hahahaHAHA... MWAAAAHAHAHAHAHAH!!! (And then I would fall on the floor, rolling about, laughing for dramatic effect.)
And I don't even HAVE kids.
(As a side note... can I just ask... Why is it fashionable to appear as though your hoohoo is eating your shorts?)
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Post by Deleted on Jun 1, 2016 23:05:38 GMT
Sooo.. what else are you planning on wearing under that? My thoughts exactly!
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Post by Nink on Jun 1, 2016 23:05:52 GMT
Neckline is way too low for my liking so that top would be a no go. but if she agreed to wear a similar top with a much higher neckline and a back to it I wouldn't have a problem with it.
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Post by redrulz on Jun 1, 2016 23:07:19 GMT
My response would be a "HELL NO".
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Jun 1, 2016 23:07:33 GMT
not the person you asked, but the fact that it's backless does make it a BIT like a swimsuit. Except for the fact that swimsuits have built-in bras, or at least some sort of support. I don't have kids but if I did, they wouldn't be wearing anything like that out in public, so it would probably end up being returned.
(heck, I wouldn't wear something like that, myself, even-- lol!)
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Post by Deleted on Jun 1, 2016 23:09:12 GMT
@tishy , would it change your response if I told you it was backless? No possibility of wearing a bra. MergeLeft, If it is not lined, like a bathing suit, then, no I would not want her to wear it. I live in SFL so what I see here in the grocery stores does not cover as much at this outfit, so that is probably why I am not as phased! LOL. I would have to say no to her if the top was not lined like a bathing suit. |
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Post by gmcwife1 on Jun 1, 2016 23:09:56 GMT
If my 17 year old dd brought that home I'd tip over. She doesn't even like or have booty shorts. So before I could say anything I'd have to pick myself up off the floor!
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Post by Scrapper100 on Jun 1, 2016 23:10:27 GMT
If I had a daughter no way in ^^%#~ but it would also depend how well endowed she was. I know that sounds bad but if you are flat like the model it isn't as bad as someone with more to cover. I don't think I would have ever been confident enough to wear that.
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Post by polz on Jun 1, 2016 23:11:47 GMT
No, just no.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Jun 1, 2016 23:12:57 GMT
I'd be laughing too hard to respond. Good luck.
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Post by Merge on Jun 1, 2016 23:18:18 GMT
Thanks all for the validation. No, it is not lined, and she is a B/C cup, so not flat.
My response was similar to several here - started with hysterical laughing and ended with hell, no. She's mad and I have been called the most repressed and conservative person on the planet (which should give some of you a chuckle). And she's pouting in her room. Oh well.
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Post by hop2 on Jun 1, 2016 23:23:39 GMT
I don't know. Mine is way more modest than I expect her to be. So I've never had to. And DH would have yelled enough for both of us.
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Post by buggirl47 on Jun 1, 2016 23:23:44 GMT
I wore a mini skirt once and was told by a guy do you realize how guys see women who dress like that? later I found out he was a rapist. UM HELL NO!! so my response would always be dress to be respected not to be a one night stand. I am fortunately my eldest son dates a girl who is conservative in her attire and she expects boys to respect her not to just chase her for body. I think points need to be made to teenage girls on why they want to dress like that? all their friends are? so if all your friends are sleeping with the guys, do you want them to think of you as a slut too? etc. I think it is crazy that girls dress like this to school (yes they have for years) and still expect boys to be respectful and treat them like they are princesses. last time I checked princesses didn't dress like that!
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Post by NoWomanNoCry on Jun 1, 2016 23:23:47 GMT
I think it's cute. If she's willing to safety pin the chest area a little bit to close the gap some I don't see a issue with it.
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Post by JustKim on Jun 1, 2016 23:24:31 GMT
Thanks for trying but not until you move out of the house and live on your own. That is not acceptable at your age or while I am the parent paying the bills. I agree that it needs to be returned because otherwise it will probably be worn.
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Post by psiluvu on Jun 1, 2016 23:25:51 GMT
Thanks all for the validation. No, it is not lined, and she is a B/C cup, so not flat. My response was similar to several here - started with hysterical laughing and ended with hell, no. She's mad and I have been called the most repressed and conservative person on the planet (which should give some of you a chuckle). And she's pouting in her room. Oh well. most repressed and conservative person on the planet - that is a great Mom title. Congratulations! |
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Post by pastlifepea on Jun 1, 2016 23:26:56 GMT
I would be channeling my inner Bishop Bullwinkle and start singing "Hell naw to the naw naw naw. Hell to the naw to the naw to the naw naw naw." This coming from one who also has a 15 year old DD.
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Post by utmr on Jun 1, 2016 23:27:28 GMT
I agree no. My DD will be at that same festival and I am pushing for a loose long sleeved (or at least sleeved) top and hat. Strictly due to sunburn and heatstroke reasons of course. lol. My DD wants to wear a swimsuit top because they spray water on the crowd. I'll probably back off and agree to swimsuit under a tank or loose top. But she also has a camelback water backpack and that would chafe on a bare back.
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Post by kate on Jun 1, 2016 23:28:33 GMT
Tell her that sun-damaged décolletage is not pretty.  I would not be having it, either. In fact, I'd be worried about the outdoor music concert even if she were adequately clothed! |
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Post by femalebusiness on Jun 1, 2016 23:33:48 GMT
I wouldn't have a problem with it but then I bought and wore a Scandal Suit by Cole when I was sixteen. It was split open lower than that and had a mesh insert.
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