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Post by cropduster on Jun 18, 2016 18:29:20 GMT
We just signed the purchase agreement on the sale of our home. After 22 years, my hubby and I have decided to build one more time on a lot in the country. (Not too far from town. In fact, it will take me less time to get to the grocery store with the new route I will be taking due to very little traffic.)
Since it's been so many years, plus a dog, college age son and 10x more junk, I'm feeling a little overwhelmed. (Okay, a LOT overwhelmed!).
The buyer is giving us ample time to get out of this house. We will be moving into a rental home or apartment until our new house is complete. I plan on having only the essentials with us there and put the rest in storage. Hoping we will be in our temporary home no more than 3-4 months.
Any advice to keep my sanity and hopefully make our move(s) a smooth transition.
Thanks in advance!
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Post by ExpatBackHome on Jun 18, 2016 19:41:50 GMT
My only advice is to mark the boxes really well. Which room they go in and the contents. That way you can prioritize when you unpack. Also, start purging now! The more you purge, the more that doesn't have to be packed and unpacked congratulations!
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Post by quiltz on Jun 18, 2016 20:20:18 GMT
While you're packing items for storage, ask yourself if these items are necessary to keep & to pay the money you are spending to pay the storage. The less you keep, the smaller the storage locker you need.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2016 20:23:39 GMT
Only store or move items that have been used in the last 12 months. If you havent used it in 12 months it will be cheaper to rebuy it IF you need it again than it will be to pay for a larger storage unit.
If you go by that rule I think you'll find most of your belongings will fit just fine in your rental.
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Post by 950nancy on Jun 18, 2016 20:25:51 GMT
Give each room in the new house a color for the boxes. Buy a set of markers to label the boxes on all four sides. Sometimes U-Haul has a space for used boxes. See of you can get them there. I would honestly start going through the attic or crawl space now. Purge away. Start saving newspapers or asking other people who have moved for any extra packing materials. Box as much as you can. The huge clothes hanging boxes are good for moving pictures. Start putting together an area in the house for moving materials.
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Post by Eddie-n-Harley on Jun 18, 2016 20:36:11 GMT
My best advice is that if you can afford it go BUY your boxes. Last time I moved I bought a bunch at Sam's Club, plus giant rolls of bubble wrap and packing tape. It is a million times easier to stack boxes that are ALL ONE SIZE than it is to figure out how to stack the banana box on the cereal box on top of the tuna fish box that you got for free.
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Post by Lexica on Jun 18, 2016 20:58:08 GMT
I will be doing a similar thing. I am planning on moving to Southern Oregon and will most likely rent a house before deciding which area to buy in. I don't know how long it will be until I find a place and can move into it, so my things will need to be split into short term need and long term need.
I have already started packing boxes and have a system to do so. My system starts with numbering my boxes in big black felt tip pen. All boxes from a specific room will start with the same number. Kitchen will be number 1, with the first kitchen box being 101. The family room will be 2xx, and so on.
Here is the important part. I also pack everything using a small card table because it hurt my back too much to keep bending down. I set up the card table in the room I am working in and I put the empty numbered box and everything planned to go in it on the card table and snapped a quick picture with my phone. I don't overpack the boxes because I can't carry a heavy box, so sometimes I could have squeezed in more things, but I don't. Only the items on the card table go into that box.
I have tons of packing paper that I bought off a guy on Craigslist. He was selling huge rolls of plain packing paper for $5. I have plenty to make sure everything is well packed. I am wrapping breakables really well.
Every evening after all the packing of the day, I downloaded all the photos from that day to my laptop and then changed the name of each photo to correspond to the number of the box in the photo. I will be making a main folder called Moving Boxes, and then separating my photos into a folder for each room.
The items that get used everyday and will get an E on the box, then the room number. So for last minute kitchen things used daily, it will be E1xx. There will be E boxes for the bathroom, kitchen, and master bedroom. This will be things I can't live without. They will be the last ones to be packed and first ones to be opened. I will most likely be living in a temporary house until I find one I want to buy. All of the E boxes will be moved into the temporary house and the remaining boxes will be sent to a storage facility. I will do the same thing taking a picture of the E boxes and renaming the photos on my laptop. And depending on what I end up renting, some of the longer term boxes may end up coming with me too, and I can easily separate those out by their checking the contents in my pictures and listing the numbers that I want.
Big items like furniture will get a piece of blue tape on them with their room number too. Then when I finally move into the house I buy, I will tape a number above the door to each room and the movers can unload the boxes into the appropriate rooms for me.
As I said, this is a more involved process, but really doesn't involve a lot more time. It just takes a few seconds to snap a quick photo and a couple of minutes to rename those photos each day at the end of a packing day.
And if I really need something that is in one of the packed boxes, I can pull up all the pictures for the room that item was in and quickly find it in the photos. Then I can go to the storage facility and grab just that one box.
Another reason for doing it this way is if I should be missing a box, I will know exactly what was in it. I have heard too many people talk about things getting "lost" in their move. Most of those people had put a list of what was inside the box on the outside of that box. A person wanting to steal something just had to read their labeled boxes and know which one has the "good silverware" or "jewelry" or whatever it is they decide to steal. With mine, all they get is a number on the box.
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Post by anniefb on Jun 18, 2016 21:03:43 GMT
I agree about being ruthless with the purging first. My Mum moved after over 30 years in the same house and we got rid of a ton of stuff.
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Post by Lexica on Jun 18, 2016 21:15:01 GMT
Oh yeah, I forgot to put that I also have a few big boxes in the garage where I keep putting yard sale/donation things. I am finding a lot of stuff that won't make the cut to move with me. Some will be sold, some donated, some offered to friends. I haven't moved in over 30 years, and have accumulated a lot of things that I don't want going forward. I also still have a huge amount of my son's items. I told him to pick them up or they will be sold. I'm not taking anything like that with me.
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Post by bc2ca on Jun 18, 2016 21:23:53 GMT
Only store or move items that have been used in the last 12 months. If you havent used it in 12 months it will be cheaper to rebuy it IF you need it again than it will be to pay for a larger storage unit. If you go by that rule I think you'll find most of your belongings will fit just fine in your rental. We pretty much used this rule when we moved to CA. I was ruthless about purging things that we didn't use regularly, were outgrown or hadn't been used for years (all our ski equipment). We ended up renting longer than anticipated and the garage was our storage locker. Well marked boxes made it easy to find things as the year went on and things were unpacked as needed. SaveSave
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2016 21:29:59 GMT
Is your house going to be larger or smaller than your current home?
Keep scale in mind when you think about what furniture you plan to keep/store, etc. We moved from a very large home with high ceilings to a much smaller home with only 8' ceilings. We made the mistake of moving all of our furniture. Not only was there way too much for our new home (what were we thinking?) but we ended up replacing even the pieces that made the "final" cut because their scale was just too large.
We moved again after about 9 years, this time across country - and we kept very, very little furniture this time around.
I can't give box packing advice because I always start out with fully inventoried and labeled boxes and end with boxes that are labeled "crap on the floor" and "stuff I don't want to deal with."
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Post by Basket1lady on Jun 18, 2016 21:37:37 GMT
Craigslist will have used boxes for sale or for free. Especially if you are in a military area.
Don't use newspaper to wrap anything. The ink comes off on your stuff and it's a mess.
I typed up a nice long response and the board ate it. Ugh. Have a last box that you toss the coffee pot, mugs, extension cords, paper towels, a roll of TP--stuff that you will need immediately. Move the rugs in first. It's a pain to move in furniture and then move it again to lay down a rug. Plan on the build taking longer than you think and put all of your Christmas stuff in a corner of the storage room. You may need a bit of familiar if you are still "homeless" at Christmas.
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Post by peasapie on Jun 18, 2016 21:40:14 GMT
Mark boxes clearly
Make a list of all boxes and what's in them.
Pack the things you need least first and, if you can, put them in storage with your moving company to hold.
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Post by Scrapper100 on Jun 18, 2016 21:52:17 GMT
Purge, purge and purge some more lol.
I read somewhere to use duck tape to mark which room they went in. You mark them on two sides so you can quickly see which room it goes in. Much quicker than writing the room on it. Label what's inside very well it will save you a lot of time and frustration later. Start packing as soon as possible. We ended up with multiple storage units near our new house which made it easier after we moved in. Have s plan though so you aren't paying for extra months.
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Post by LeaP on Jun 18, 2016 22:41:33 GMT
In the past two years, we moved to Canada and back. First thing, purge and declutter. I suggest starting with the low hanging fruit so that you will have a sense of accomplishment. Shred, shred, sherd old paperwork. Donate magazines and books. Give old blankets and towels to an animal shelter. The more you give away the better you will feel.
Buy boxes in a variety of sizes from a moving store. We had 12"x12"x12" boxes for books to keep the weight down. Label the contents of the boxes so that when you are unpacking 250 boxes you will have an idea of what is in the box. Buy a lot of newsprint (unprinted newspaper paper). Use it to wrap everything. Even in humid Vancouver it protected against condensation. I wrapped fragile books, vases, kitchen everything, frames, TV, electronics in paper before the bubble wrap.
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Post by mrgiedrnkr on Jun 19, 2016 0:17:27 GMT
We are moving in 2 weeks and we have done a total purge. We also rented plastic boxes instead of scouring for cardboard. It is so nice but it is a local thing and wouldn't work well with storage. I am wrapping breakables in off-season clothes so I am not using paper/bubble wrap, etc. I like that I am not wasting and it all needs to be moved anyway! Stacy
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Post by scrapmaven on Jun 19, 2016 0:33:15 GMT
Dynamite and matches! Seriously, this is a great time to clear your clutter and really get organized. Take pictures of stuff that you aren't sure if you should toss and toss the items, keeping the photos as a memory.
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Post by M in Carolina on Jun 19, 2016 0:52:19 GMT
Lexica, I'm going to use your methods.
I've moved 7 times in 16 years. The first time it was a cross country move paid by dh's company. The others we've moved ourselves. Never again.
We are still finding the little orange inventory stickers they stuck on all the boxes from the first move...
The moving companies and Uhaul sometimes have used boxes they'll sell you cheap or give you. Our local grocery stores have also set aside banana boxes for us, and the liquor stores are also good places to find boxes.
I agree on the unprinted newsprint. We bought a huge box of it at a Uhaul once and still have some. We also kept those huge wardrobe boxes and have reused the banana boxes.
I'm also buying those huge plastic bins a few at a time at Walmart, etc. and using them to pack up stuff that I don't need right now since we'll be moving soon.
I have a bin for my sewing stuff. I taped a piece of paper to the lid with a list of what I put in it. As I find more sewing stuff around the house--I'm doing some embroidery and have a small sewing box in my bedroom--I put it in the box. I'm putting all my craft stuff together, I'm going through and culling my books, etc. so when we do pack it will be a lot easier and will have less random crap.
I have been slowly going through the rooms in our house purging stuff, unpacking the boxes we never unpacked because we knew we weren't staying here for long, etc. I have purged A LOT and have gone through most of our house. I only have dh's office and the extra stuff in our garage to go. I have done all my clothes and have a ton to donate and sell. There's also some stuff in our kitchen that I won't pack again. There's a few things we no longer use.
I'm like Burning Feather--we started out with good intentions, but we weren't that organized because we did a local move last time and the move before that was super fast while I was really sick, so we had a ton of boxes full of random crap. We literally had boxes marked--random crap, office. We still have boxes we haven't unpacked.
Before we move again, I'll have gone through and repacked all those boxes, only keeping what I really need.
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Post by Flibbertigibbet on Jun 19, 2016 1:01:09 GMT
My family is preparing for a cross country move. We used the Marie Kondo method to get rid of everything that we don't really need or truly want. We have a pod coming on Friday. I made $2000 at our yard sale. We are soooooooo happy to be rid of stuff. Do it and don't look back.
I prefer Marie's second book: Spark Joy: An Illustrated Master Class on the Art of Organizing and Tidying Up
I went through each room in the house and pulled everything that we didn't want to keep. Everything left is okay to pack and haul with us. There is not a lot left, which is so freakin' awesome.
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Post by FrozenPea on Jun 19, 2016 1:19:19 GMT
This is us, only we are talking about moving from Alaska to Washington state. We have been in this house 22 years, 3 kids & 2 dogs. Not sure if we are selling it or renting it.
Lexica great ideas! I saved your post for reference.
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Post by cropduster on Jun 19, 2016 19:05:18 GMT
Thanks everyone so much! I have started the purging process already. Started out with games/puzzles/DVDs/CD's (we had a TON!) Then onto books and I just went through my clothes in my closet. Still have so much to do. The dynamite and match idea is looking more attractive. Lol!
We still need to finalize things with the builder. He said he can get us in in four months. But from my prior experience, I'm betting 6-7 months and am allowing ten percent over budget. We will see.
I will be referring to this thread much during the next few weeks. You guys rock! :-)
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Post by tmarschall on Jun 20, 2016 8:25:33 GMT
Is your house going to be larger or smaller than your current home? Keep scale in mind when you think about what furniture you plan to keep/store, etc. We moved from a very large home with high ceilings to a much smaller home with only 8' ceilings. We made the mistake of moving all of our furniture. Not only was there way too much for our new home (what were we thinking?) but we ended up replacing even the pieces that made the "final" cut because their scale was just too large. We moved again after about 9 years, this time across country - and we kept very, very little furniture this time around. I can't give box packing advice because I always start out with fully inventoried and labeled boxes and end with boxes that are labeled "crap on the floor" and "stuff I don't want to deal with." I seem to end up with lots of boxes in the end like this. I think the last box I unpacked had a frying pan, a pair of old jeans and 2 rolls of tp. Talk about random!
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Post by Dori~Mama~Bear on Jun 20, 2016 11:14:09 GMT
Make sure you make a small craft box so that you will have somethings fun to do.
When we moved we bought totes so that when stacked in storage they take up less space and stack easier and taller stacks.
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Post by whopea on Jun 20, 2016 14:09:44 GMT
Give each room in the new house a color for the boxes. Buy a set of markers to label the boxes on all four sides. Sometimes U-Haul has a space for used boxes. See of you can get them there. I would honestly start going through the attic or crawl space now. Purge away. Start saving newspapers or asking other people who have moved for any extra packing materials. Box as much as you can. The huge clothes hanging boxes are good for moving pictures. Start putting together an area in the house for moving materials. ^^ This is good advice. In addition to this, try to use all similar sized boxes. They distribute the weight more evenly and therefore stack better saving you space. Label well with a color code by room but also a brief list of contents. It will make finding things easier. Do a thorough purge now because I guaranty you that once you move into your new home, you'll say why did we pay to store THIS? If you're keeping things for sentimental value only, try taking a picture of it then purge. Create a small album of favorite things. Depending on the nature of your climate and storage unit (heated / cooled) beware of what you store there. Moisture and humidity can ruin many things. In a move we made, we converted one of the bedrooms in the apartment to our storage area. Same goes for furniture. Donate or purge if you don't think it will work in the new house.
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Post by YooHoot on Jun 20, 2016 14:20:08 GMT
Lowes has great moving boxes. They have handles! Highly recommend.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Jun 20, 2016 15:43:58 GMT
I totally agree with the point about buying/using standard sized moving boxes, it makes packing up the truck so much easier. Be sure to label EVERYTHING on more than one side of the box so it can be seen from any side no matter where in the stack it ends up.
Start as soon as possible and do as much of it yourself as you can. DH and a friend packed up a bunch of my stuff from our basement and I still have no idea what is in those boxes. DH and a different friend packed up the kitchen when I was out of town and even after all of the kitchen boxes were unpacked I'm still missing a few things. I hate it when other people pack up my stuff.
Purge, purge and then purge some more. Think very, very hard before putting anything in paid storage. I would only pay to store something if I absolutely loved it, it absolutely wouldn't fit and that isn't easily replaceable. A friend of mine put a bunch of her stuff in storage when she moved "temporarily" to her brother's house--and then ended up living there for three years! With the amount of money she paid to store her old stuff, she could have sold it, saved the money she paid to the storage place and bought all brand new stuff once she moved into her new place. $150/mo x 36 months = $5,400! Her old furniture was definitely not worth that much. Also, the storage unit she rented got flooded--TWICE!--and some of her stuff ended up getting ruined anyway, and then she had to pay more to dispose of it.
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