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Post by lucyg on Jul 23, 2016 19:59:12 GMT
Carblover was always a bitch, so karma just came to bite her and she ran away with her tail between her legs. She obviously embellished the story and her bil has been nothing but polite here in setting the record straight. Shut the hell up, Annabella. You're showing your ass. Again.
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Post by redrulz on Jul 23, 2016 19:59:34 GMT
Carblover was always a bitch, so karma just came to bite her and she ran away with her tail between her legs. She obviously embellished the story and her bil has been nothing but polite here in setting the record straigh Other than a handful of posters on this board I can't remember from one moment to the next who is nice or nasty. The thing that I am focused on here is that some asshole,who is a poster here, actually invaded another poster's privacy to this extent. That is a disturbed individual. This is exactly why I keep my footprint on the Internet small and would never, ever do facebook. This is exactly why I don't post more and why I am hesitant to post anything personal.
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Post by femalebusiness on Jul 23, 2016 20:00:25 GMT
Other than a handful of posters on this board I can't remember from one moment to the next who is nice or nasty. The thing that I am focused on here is that some asshole,who is a poster here, actually invaded another poster's privacy to this extent. That is a disturbed individual. This is exactly why I keep my footprint on the Internet small and would never, ever do facebook. This is exactly why I don't post more and why I am hesitant to post anything personal. Smart girl!
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Post by christine58 on Jul 23, 2016 20:00:29 GMT
Soooo, someone from this board went on facebook, found bil and told on carblover? Please, please, please tell me that my reading comprehension sucks donkey balls and this didn't happen. Looks that way...might be time to leave here too And after seeing a response here by someone....hmmm...I think I know who.
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Post by imsirius on Jul 23, 2016 20:01:45 GMT
Carblover was always a bitch, so karma just came to bite her and she ran away with her tail between her legs. She obviously embellished the story and her bil has been nothing but polite here in setting the record straight. Shut the hell up, Annabella. You're showing your ass. Again. ....Glass houses and all.
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Post by annabella on Jul 23, 2016 20:01:54 GMT
Other than a handful of posters on this board I can't remember from one moment to the next who is nice or nasty. The thing that I am focused on here is that some asshole,who is a poster here, actually invaded another poster's privacy to this extent. That is a disturbed individual. This is exactly why I keep my footprint on the Internet small and would never, ever do facebook. She violated his privacy trying to get a laugh at him, but the joke is now on her. He hasn't 'set anything straight'; he's made himself look like an asshole and reminded everyone of his existence. It is in no way OK to stalk someone in real life and then go and tell their family what they've been saying about them. Would you like me to go and find your friend whose teeth you always Photoshop because you don't think they're white enough? I don't see him acting as an asshole or stalking her, he said he was sent the link and came over, not reading her posts here for years. And see you're embellishing my story. I said next to mine in a photo, hers looks so yellow, I didn't want her to look bad next to me. I would do the same thing if someone has a red eye. She's moved out of state so we haven't hung out in years.
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Post by Sam on Jul 23, 2016 20:02:05 GMT
Carblover has deleted her account, which makes me sad, so to her bil, I just have to say this: Why you give a damn about what a forum of Internet women think of you is beyond me, but grow some balls and get over it. How dare you chase off your sister in law from a place she used to vent off steam. We were right, you are "klassy" and immature. The true bitch here is you. WTF?? That BIL needs to NOT be here. Report his posts. The admin needs to boot him. This is ridiculous. To be fair, this is a public message board and he really does have the right to respond on it. Do I like what he says (once I work it out)? Not really, but he hasn't said anything that would get a 'regular' member banned in a forum argument.
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Post by annabella on Jul 23, 2016 20:02:46 GMT
Shut the hell up, Annabella. You're showing your ass. Again. I see bitches flock together.
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Post by bil on Jul 23, 2016 20:03:09 GMT
Carblover was always a bitch, so karma just came to bite her and she ran away with her tail between her legs. She obviously embellished the story and her bil has been nothing but polite here in setting the record straight. right, because everything he has to say is obviously the truth. As I said I didn't use that wordings take your blinders off
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Post by oaksong on Jul 23, 2016 20:05:08 GMT
Wow, I'm sorry this all happened for so many reasons. This has got to be devastating for Carblover's whole family. I hope they can sort out all of the hard feelings this has caused. bil, I can't imagine seeing something like this and not being hurt by it. I really hope that you can all talk this out and move forward with some kind of forgiveness for the sake of your entire family. It's hard to imagine that someone found someone's family from this anonymous board through Facebook, and contacted them! Not the first time it's happened, but creepy nevertheless.
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Post by femalebusiness on Jul 23, 2016 20:05:14 GMT
WTF?? That BIL needs to NOT be here. Report his posts. The admin needs to boot him. This is ridiculous. To be fair, this is a public message board and he really does have the right to respond on it. Do I like what he says (once I work it out)? Not really, but he hasn't said anything that would get a 'regular' member banned in a forum argument. I agree. I would be more in favor of banning the poster who invaded privacy and ran and tattled.
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Post by imsirius on Jul 23, 2016 20:05:58 GMT
Shut the hell up, Annabella. You're showing your ass. Again. I see bitches flock together. Omg Girl..have a look in the mirror. You are not sweet as sugar yourself. You have had your moments too.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 23, 2016 20:14:32 GMT
Wow, I'm sorry this all happened for so many reasons. This has got to be devastating for Carblover's whole family. I hope they can sort out all of the hard feelings this has caused. bil , I can't imagine seeing something like this and not being hurt by it. I really hope that you can all talk this out and move forward with some kind of forgiveness for the sake of your entire family. It's hard to imagine that someone found someone's family from this anonymous board through Facebook, and contacted them! Not the first time it's happened, but creepy nevertheless. There's a 2peas FB group that is largely inactive but if anyone knows carblover's real name and she is part of that group, I'd imagine it's easy to figure out who the brother-in-law is. And off to remove myself from that group.
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Post by imsirius on Jul 23, 2016 20:17:29 GMT
Wow, I'm sorry this all happened for so many reasons. This has got to be devastating for Carblover's whole family. I hope they can sort out all of the hard feelings this has caused. bil , I can't imagine seeing something like this and not being hurt by it. I really hope that you can all talk this out and move forward with some kind of forgiveness for the sake of your entire family. It's hard to imagine that someone found someone's family from this anonymous board through Facebook, and contacted them! Not the first time it's happened, but creepy nevertheless. There's a 2peas FB group that is largely inactive but if anyone knows carblover's real name and she is part of that group, I'd imagine it's easy to figure out who the brother-in-law is. And off to remove myself from that group. Even still, whoever decided to out her to BIL should be ashamed. We all vent here. This was personal obviously.
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Post by cindosha on Jul 23, 2016 20:21:21 GMT
First of all, I'd like to find out how the party went. Did carblover go? Did everyone get drunk? Is BIL going back and finish school so he can learn some grammar and how to put a readable sentence together?
Inquiring minds want to know....
Cindy
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Post by peatlejuice on Jul 23, 2016 20:23:17 GMT
Carblover was always a bitch, so karma just came to bite her and she ran away with her tail between her legs. She obviously embellished the story and her bil has been nothing but polite here in setting the record straight. Polite??? Lol, I think your own bitchiness has altered your perception of reality.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 23, 2016 20:25:16 GMT
There's a 2peas FB group that is largely inactive but if anyone knows carblover's real name and she is part of that group, I'd imagine it's easy to figure out who the brother-in-law is. And off to remove myself from that group. Even still, whoever decided to out her to BIL should be ashamed. We all vent here. This was personal obviously. I agree. This was personal. I removed myself from the group because I do not want someone to have a personal vendetta against me and try to match up any vent on here with an actual person and then rat me out. And yes, whoever gave the BIL the link to this place should be ashamed. When people talk about cyber-bullying, I believe this kind of crap falls within that category.
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Post by Outspoken on Jul 23, 2016 20:29:40 GMT
Carblover was always a bitch, so karma just came to bite her and she ran away with her tail between her legs. She obviously embellished the story and her bil has been nothing but polite here in setting the record straight. He hasn't 'set anything straight'; he's made himself look like an asshole and reminded everyone of his existence. It is in no way OK to stalk someone in real life and then go and tell their family what they've been saying about them. Would you like me to go and find your friend whose teeth you always Photoshop because you don't think they're white enough?Is this true? Or are you just playing? Because I'm almost speechless!
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Post by mom on Jul 23, 2016 20:31:18 GMT
Soooo, someone from this board went on facebook, found bil and told on carblover? Please, please, please tell me that my reading comprehension sucks donkey balls and this didn't happen. You can actually read. It's true congrats I call bullshit. 1. How would anyone know who BIL was? 2. I dont think anyone here really care that much to get involved. edited: ah. I see it is, indeed, true. Wow.
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Post by annabella on Jul 23, 2016 20:33:15 GMT
Other than a handful of posters on this board I can't remember from one moment to the next who is nice or nasty. The thing that I am focused on here is that some asshole,who is a poster here, actually invaded another poster's privacy to this extent. That is a disturbed individual. This is exactly why I keep my footprint on the Internet small and would never, ever do facebook. Or you could just not talk trash about people you know on the internet. I don't. I might ask help in dealing with a non-drama friendship situation or a silly work vent I need constructive advice on how to handle. But geez, nothing nasty about people for others to laugh at. @dknitter Unless your profile pic is the same on facebook, not sure how someone would find you in the group? Did carblover have a profile pic? I don't remember. I don't think it's random pea, it has to be someone that knows both her and her bil, and knew of the invite, so it had to be a family member. It's not cyber bulling to call someone out on their shit.
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Post by craftykitten on Jul 23, 2016 20:33:28 GMT
He hasn't 'set anything straight'; he's made himself look like an asshole and reminded everyone of his existence. It is in no way OK to stalk someone in real life and then go and tell their family what they've been saying about them. Would you like me to go and find your friend whose teeth you always Photoshop because you don't think they're white enough?Is this true? Or are you just playing? Because I'm almost speechless! It's true, sadly. It was on a really long thread about something else and I can't remember which one, now. I think it may have been the one about bridesmaids and armpit hair. It just stuck in my mind! And of course, Annabella corrected me...it wasn't that her friend's teeth weren't white ENOUGH, just that they weren't as white as HERS.
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Post by smalltowngirlie on Jul 23, 2016 20:35:38 GMT
How do you know she embellished? How do you know BIL is telling the truth either? Unless you know different, you can't assume. Your hatred for carblover is showing it's ugly head. Maybe we now know the disturbed poster. A normal person would never justify what happened. I had the exact same thought.
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Post by christine58 on Jul 23, 2016 20:37:56 GMT
To be fair, this is a public message board and he really does have the right to respond on it. Do I like what he says (once I work it out)? Not really, but he hasn't said anything that would get a 'regular' member banned in a forum argument. I agree. I would be more in favor of banning the poster who invaded privacy and ran and tattled. I agree....maybe bil can enlighten us. Oh wait he won't.
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Post by mom on Jul 23, 2016 20:40:50 GMT
You know, since BIL has told some of the story (and said Carblover is wrong) how about he finish the story and tell us who contacted him.
Yeah, thats not going to happen, I know.
Its chickenshit for him not to say who contacted him.
If you want to bitch and complain about a message board post, then grow a set and give all the details.
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Post by redrulz on Jul 23, 2016 20:53:32 GMT
You know, since BIL has told some of the story (and said Carblover is wrong) how about he finish the story and tell us who contacted him. Yeah, thats not going to happen, I know. Its chickenshit for him not to say who contacted him. If you want to bitch and complain about a message board post, then grow a set and give all the details. I completely agree. I think he should name the person who contacted him.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 23, 2016 20:54:12 GMT
Other than a handful of posters on this board I can't remember from one moment to the next who is nice or nasty. The thing that I am focused on here is that some asshole,who is a poster here, actually invaded another poster's privacy to this extent. That is a disturbed individual. This is exactly why I keep my footprint on the Internet small and would never, ever do facebook. Or you could just not talk trash about people you know on the internet. I don't. I might ask help in dealing with a non-drama friendship situation or a silly work vent I need constructive advice on how to handle. But geez, nothing nasty about people for others to laugh at. @dknitter Unless your profile pic is the same on facebook, not sure how someone would find you in the group? Did carblover have a profile pic? I don't remember. I don't think it's random pea, it has to be someone that knows both her and her bil, and knew of the invite, so it had to be a family member. It's not cyber bulling to call someone out on their shit. It doesn't take a profile picture to match up usernames from here and profile pictures on FB. All it takes is someone knowing at least part of your real name. Since all profile pictures on FB are public, if someone wanted to, they could do a search for any Annabella or variation of that name within the 2peas group, go through their previous profile pictures until they find one that matches. My picture on here was once my FB picture. It's not now but one could do a search for me and probably find my profile if they know my name. Also, if the event was public, you can find that event and its guest list. The host is public, the guest list is public. It is cyber-bullying to go through the trouble of tracking someone down and causing problems for them, family member or not. That is my opinion. I don't care what yours is.
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Post by annabella on Jul 23, 2016 21:15:57 GMT
It doesn't take a profile picture to match up usernames from here and profile pictures on FB. All it takes is someone knowing at least part of your real name. Since all profile pictures on FB are public, if someone wanted to, they could do a search for any Annabella or variation of that name within the 2peas group, go through their previous profile pictures until they find one that matches. My picture on here was once my FB picture. It's not now but one could do a search for me and probably find my profile if they know my name. Also, if the event was public, you can find that event and its guest list. The host is public, the guest list is public. It is cyber-bullying to go through the trouble of tracking someone down and causing problems for them, family member or not. That is my opinion. I don't care what yours is. Yes of course, you could easily find a pea through a friend of a friend, that's not the point. You'd have to know a pea was invited to that event and then if you email someone you don't know on fb it goes to the other box that most people don't check. I just think it's really far fetched to think a random person did this. It's true, sadly. It was on a really long thread about something else and I can't remember which one, now. I think it may have been the one about bridesmaids and armpit hair. It just stuck in my mind! And of course, Annabella corrected me...it wasn't that her friend's teeth weren't white ENOUGH, just that they weren't as white as HERS. It was in a thread someone saying she paid to have all her bridemaids get their teeth whitened so everyone looked flattering in a picture. I didn't want her to feel bad looking at the pic standing next to someone who made her teeth look so dark. It's the same as people using facetune to make everyone look flattering in a picture. You know, since BIL has told some of the story (and said Carblover is wrong) how about he finish the story I think he should post his event as a screenshot, blocking out names, so we can see the exact wording.
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Post by imsirius on Jul 23, 2016 21:16:35 GMT
Other than a handful of posters on this board I can't remember from one moment to the next who is nice or nasty. The thing that I am focused on here is that some asshole,who is a poster here, actually invaded another poster's privacy to this extent. That is a disturbed individual. This is exactly why I keep my footprint on the Internet small and would never, ever do facebook. Or you could just not talk trash about people you know on the internet. I don't. I might ask help in dealing with a non-drama friendship situation or a silly work vent I need constructive advice on how to handle. But geez, nothing nasty about people for others to laugh at. @dknitter Unless your profile pic is the same on facebook, not sure how someone would find you in the group? Did carblover have a profile pic? I don't remember. I don't think it's random pea, it has to be someone that knows both her and her bil, and knew of the invite, so it had to be a family member. It's not cyber bulling to call someone out on their shit. Except BIL said it was someone from this board ,who he didn't know, who contacted him.
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Post by imsirius on Jul 23, 2016 21:20:13 GMT
People really do that? Wow, if my friend thought I needed to have my face tuned to make a better photo for HER, she wouldn't be a friend anymore. If she is ashamed of my looks in a photo , even if she thinks she is doing me a favour, she cannot be a true friend.
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Post by mom on Jul 23, 2016 21:20:46 GMT
You know, since BIL has told some of the story (and said Carblover is wrong) how about he finish the story I think he should post his event as a screenshot, blocking out names, so we can see the exact wording. Oh hell no. He brought this shit to the board, OWN IT and name the names.
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