imsirius
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Post by imsirius on Jul 23, 2016 19:02:08 GMT
I wouldn't fake an illness or make an excuse. I would just be honest and say " I don't think it's an appropriate celebration for the baby with a drunk fest going on. Sorry, we won't be attending."
Tell them straight or go and grin and bear it. Why lie?
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bil
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Post by bil on Jul 23, 2016 19:02:39 GMT
Yea I chased her away. I think you know what really happened she talked shit about me and my family and when I found out about it she ran away
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bil
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Post by bil on Jul 23, 2016 19:04:07 GMT
I wouldn't fake an illness or make an excuse. I would just be honest and say " I don't think it's an appropriate celebration for the baby with a drunk fest going on. Sorry, we won't be attending." Tell them straight or go and grin and bear it. Why lie? Someone saw the posts she was making about me and found her threw fb and then found me. This is someone neither of us knew. Kinda sad someone has my back better then my own family.
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Post by miominmio on Jul 23, 2016 19:05:48 GMT
Yea I chased her away. I think you know what really happened she talked shit about me and my family and when I found out about it she ran away You are an asshole! I hope admin kicks you out of here!
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bil
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Post by bil on Jul 23, 2016 19:06:14 GMT
Nothing says how special a first birthday is more than getting drunk with Dad. Oh, I saw that card at the Hallmark store too. That baby aka my baby. Lives a very good life.
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imsirius
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Post by imsirius on Jul 23, 2016 19:08:56 GMT
Yea I chased her away. I think you know what really happened she talked shit about me and my family and when I found out about it she ran away Well give yourself a gold star and a great big pat on the back then. Better yet, why don't you get off this board and go spend time with your baby and maybe forgo the drunk fest so you can afford food. SMH.
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bil
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Post by bil on Jul 23, 2016 19:10:47 GMT
Oh, I saw that card at the Hallmark store too. That baby aka my baby. Lives a very good life. [br Stoesscrapmetal@gmail.com. That is my personal email. Any one of you can email me and I will send you my number. And I'll give you the true story. I'm am a pretty kind person. I don't believe Iv been rude or insaulting. There was no reason for her to delete her acct. the cats out of the bag. There was no reason to run
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imsirius
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Post by imsirius on Jul 23, 2016 19:11:09 GMT
I wouldn't fake an illness or make an excuse. I would just be honest and say " I don't think it's an appropriate celebration for the baby with a drunk fest going on. Sorry, we won't be attending." Tell them straight or go and grin and bear it. Why lie? Someone saw the posts she was making about me and found her threw fb and then found me. This is someone neither of us knew. Kinda sad someone has my back better then my own family. I don't give a rat's ass how you found her. FTR, I think lying to you is not ok, but I also think having a drunk on at your baby's first birthday is ridiculous and so very inappropriate. Time to grow up.
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Post by Sam on Jul 23, 2016 19:13:46 GMT
Yea I chased her away. I think you know what really happened she talked shit about me and my family and when I found out about it she ran away Well, the good news for her is that she no longer needs to worry about going to your party. I am pleased for her. Your brother has a good reason to avoid it as well, so I am pleased for both of them right now. I bet she's still good enough to get a gift for your child as well.
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Post by redrulz on Jul 23, 2016 19:17:30 GMT
Yea I chased her away. I think you know what really happened she talked shit about me and my family and when I found out about it she ran away I can understand that her "talking shit" about your family might have been hurtful as you were reading what she wrote, but this place is supposed to be someplace safe to vent without acting out inappropriately in person. Everyone vents about someone at one time or another. I'm sure you have too, but it just wasn't recorded or caught. Also, because you have not been a member here, you may not realize that invitations are discussed frequently. Most of the time it is harmless fun because none of us actually KNOW the person being talked about. Yes, we make judgments, but why do you care so much? None of us knew you before you went trolling around to find your SIL's post. Before you posted most of us thought your invitation sounded immature and inappropriate. So what? After the thread died, I can promise you that NONE of us gave you even a second passing thought about you or your family. Now, however, after your sudden appearance, you have removed all doubt that you are immature and a giant asshole.
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bil
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Post by bil on Jul 23, 2016 19:23:00 GMT
Yea I chased her away. I think you know what really happened she talked shit about me and my family and when I found out about it she ran away I can understand that her "talking shit" about your family might have been hurtful as you were reading what she wrote, but this place is supposed to be someplace safe to vent without acting out inappropriately in person. Everyone vents about someone at one time or another. I'm sure you have too, but it just wasn't recorded or caught. Also, because you have not been a member here, you may not realize that invitations are discussed frequently. Most of the time it is harmless fun because none of us actually KNOW the person being talked about. Yes, we make judgments, but why do you care so much? None of us knew you before you went trolling around to find your SIL's post. Before you posted most of us thought your invitation sounded immature and inappropriate. So what? After the thread died, I can promise you that NONE of us gave you even a second passing thought about you or your family. Now, however, after your sudden appearance, you have removed all doubt that you are immature and a giant asshole. Well considering this isn't the only post on here about me and my family. Like I said. If you would actually like to get the full story. I posted my Personal email and I have nothing to hide from. You can think I'm an asshole that your opinion and I don't personally know you. But now that I'm see most your the people's reaction to my posting. You are a bunch of caddy women that probably need to get off the internet and enjoy life
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Post by femalebusiness on Jul 23, 2016 19:27:34 GMT
Soooo, someone from this board went on facebook, found bil and told on carblover? Please, please, please tell me that my reading comprehension sucks donkey balls and this didn't happen.
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bil
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Post by bil on Jul 23, 2016 19:32:34 GMT
Soooo, someone from this board went on facebook, found bil and told on carblover? Please, please, please tell me that my reading comprehension sucks donkey balls and this didn't happen. You can actually read. It's true congrates
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Post by smalltowngirlie on Jul 23, 2016 19:35:05 GMT
Soooo, someone from this board went on facebook, found bil and told on carblover? Please, please, please tell me that my reading comprehension sucks donkey balls and this didn't happen. This is actually the saddest part of this entire thread. That someone here will not be outing us if they feel like it. How safe do we all feel venting now?
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Post by femalebusiness on Jul 23, 2016 19:35:56 GMT
Soooo, someone from this board went on facebook, found bil and told on carblover? Please, please, please tell me that my reading comprehension sucks donkey balls and this didn't happen. You can actually read. It's true congrates Well I knew this board had some fucked up, profoundly disturbed people who post here but that one takes the cake. Pay attention peas.
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Post by Sam on Jul 23, 2016 19:36:08 GMT
Soooo, someone from this board went on facebook, found bil and told on carblover? Please, please, please tell me that my reading comprehension sucks donkey balls and this didn't happen. You can actually read. It's true congrates Most ( ) of us can and, better yet, we are able to translate your appalling mangling of the language you speak into something that is intelligible.
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Post by redrulz on Jul 23, 2016 19:41:44 GMT
I can understand that her "talking shit" about your family might have been hurtful as you were reading what she wrote, but this place is supposed to be someplace safe to vent without acting out inappropriately in person. Everyone vents about someone at one time or another. I'm sure you have too, but it just wasn't recorded or caught. Also, because you have not been a member here, you may not realize that invitations are discussed frequently. Most of the time it is harmless fun because none of us actually KNOW the person being talked about. Yes, we make judgments, but why do you care so much? None of us knew you before you went trolling around to find your SIL's post. Before you posted most of us thought your invitation sounded immature and inappropriate. So what? After the thread died, I can promise you that NONE of us gave you even a second passing thought about you or your family. Now, however, after your sudden appearance, you have removed all doubt that you are immature and a giant asshole. Well considering this isn't the only post on here about me and my family. Like I said. If you would actually like to get the full story. I posted my Personal email and I have nothing to hide from. You can think I'm an asshole that your opinion and I don't personally know you. But now that I'm see most your the people's reaction to my posting. You are a bunch of caddy women that probably need to get off the internet and enjoy life Yes, I realize that wasn't the only post. Like I asked in my earlier post, why did you have to come here? We don't know you. We don't want to know you. The "whole story" doesn't matter here. This was your SIL's place to post. She has friends here, people that support her. We NEVER get the "whole story" here. We only get one person's version, but this board is a community, here for (mostly ha!) like-minded people. We are not here to give any sort of legal judgment. Our opinions don't really matter to people that don't post or read here. And, now that you have come on here we still won't get the "whole story", we will just get *your* version of it. Just like we got your SIL's. But, I can tell you, that the way you came on here you are not going to get much sympathy for "your side". I can tell that you are hurt by what you read, but what you are doing here is not helping anything. I am sorry you were hurt and I hope you can find a way to move on.
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Post by annabella on Jul 23, 2016 19:43:18 GMT
Carblover was always a bitch, so karma just came to bite her and she ran away with her tail between her legs. She obviously embellished the story and her bil has been nothing but polite here in setting the record straight.
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Post by bil on Jul 23, 2016 19:44:25 GMT
Carblover was always a bitch, so karma just came to bite her and she ran away with her tail between her legs. She obviously embellished the story and her bil has been nothing but polite here in setting the record straight. Thank you
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Post by freecharlie on Jul 23, 2016 19:50:20 GMT
That baby aka my baby. Lives a very good life. [br Stoesscrapmetal@gmail.com. That is my personal email. Any one of you can email me and I will send you my number. And I'll give you the true story. I'm am a pretty kind person. I don't believe Iv been rude or insaulting. There was no reason for her to delete her acct. the cats out of the bag. There was no reason to run I dont need your side. Anybody who would use that wording on an invitation sounds like a loser to me.
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Post by freecharlie on Jul 23, 2016 19:51:23 GMT
Carblover was always a bitch, so karma just came to bite her and she ran away with her tail between her legs. She obviously embellished the story and her bil has been nothing but polite here in setting the record straight. right, because everything he has to say is obviously the truth.
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Post by mollycoddle on Jul 23, 2016 19:51:39 GMT
Well considering this isn't the only post on here about me and my family. Like I said. If you would actually like to get the full story. I posted my Personal email and I have nothing to hide from. You can think I'm an asshole that your opinion and I don't personally know you. But now that I'm see most your the people's reaction to my posting. You are a bunch of caddy women that probably need to get off the internet and enjoy life Yes, I realize that wasn't the only post. Like I asked in my earlier post, why did you have to come here? We don't know you. We don't want to know you. The "whole story" doesn't matter here. This was your SIL's place to post. She has friends here, people that support her. We NEVER get the "whole story" here. We only get one person's version, but this board is a community, here for (mostly ha!) like-minded people. We are not here to give any sort of legal judgment. Our opinions don't really matter to people that don't post or read here. And, now that you have come on here we still won't get the "whole story", we will just get *your* version of it. Just like we got your SIL's. But, I can tell you, that the way you came on here you are not going to get much sympathy for "your side". I can tell that you are hurt by what you read, but what you are doing here is not helping anything. I am sorry you were hurt and I hope you can find a way to move on. Agreed. If you scroll down the first couple of pages, you will see all kinds of vents-about friends, spouses, kids, work, etc. I am sorry that you were hurt, too. Your SIL was just venting. Doesn't mean that she dislikes you. I hope that you guys can make things right.
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imsirius
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Post by imsirius on Jul 23, 2016 19:53:47 GMT
You can actually read. It's true congrates Well I knew this board had some fucked up, profoundly disturbed people who post here but that one takes the cake. Pay attention peas. Had to have been someone who knew her real name. That's really low.
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Post by femalebusiness on Jul 23, 2016 19:55:11 GMT
Carblover was always a bitch, so karma just came to bite her and she ran away with her tail between her legs. She obviously embellished the story and her bil has been nothing but polite here in setting the record straigh Other than a handful of posters on this board I can't remember from one moment to the next who is nice or nasty. The thing that I am focused on here is that some asshole,who is a poster here, actually invaded another poster's privacy to this extent. That is a disturbed individual. This is exactly why I keep my footprint on the Internet small and would never, ever do facebook.
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imsirius
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Post by imsirius on Jul 23, 2016 19:55:45 GMT
Carblover was always a bitch, so karma just came to bite her and she ran away with her tail between her legs. She obviously embellished the story and her bil has been nothing but polite here in setting the record straight. How do you know she embellished? How do you know BIL is telling the truth either? Unless you know different, you can't assume. Your hatred for carblover is showing it's ugly head.
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Post by craftykitten on Jul 23, 2016 19:56:56 GMT
Carblover was always a bitch, so karma just came to bite her and she ran away with her tail between her legs. She obviously embellished the story and her bil has been nothing but polite here in setting the record straight. He hasn't 'set anything straight'; he's made himself look like an asshole and reminded everyone of his existence. It is in no way OK to stalk someone in real life and then go and tell their family what they've been saying about them. Would you like me to go and find your friend whose teeth you always Photoshop because you don't think they're white enough?
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Post by femalebusiness on Jul 23, 2016 19:58:08 GMT
Carblover was always a bitch, so karma just came to bite her and she ran away with her tail between her legs. She obviously embellished the story and her bil has been nothing but polite here in setting the record straight. How do you know she embellished? How do you know BIL is telling the truth either? Unless you know different, you can't assume. Your hatred for carblover is showing it's ugly head. Maybe we now know the disturbed poster. A normal person would never justify what happened.
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Post by craftykitten on Jul 23, 2016 19:58:15 GMT
Carblover was always a bitch, so karma just came to bite her and she ran away with her tail between her legs. She obviously embellished the story and her bil has been nothing but polite here in setting the record straigh Other than a handful of posters on this board I can't remember from one moment to the next who is nice or nasty. The thing that I am focused on here is that some asshole,who is a poster here, actually invaded another poster's privacy to this extent. That is a disturbed individual. This is exactly why I keep my footprint on the Internet small and would never, ever do facebook. This is certainly why I am not FB friends with any Peas. I guess the spreasheet keepers are alive and well.
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Post by christine58 on Jul 23, 2016 19:58:25 GMT
Carblover has deleted her account, which makes me sad, so to her bil, I just have to say this: Why you give a damn about what a forum of Internet women think of you is beyond me, but grow some balls and get over it. How dare you chase off your sister in law from a place she used to vent off steam. We were right, you are "klassy" and immature. The true bitch here is you. WTF?? That BIL needs to NOT be here. Report his posts. The admin needs to boot him. This is ridiculous.
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Post by christine58 on Jul 23, 2016 19:59:09 GMT
Yea I chased her away. I think you know what really happened she talked shit about me and my family and when I found out about it she ran away You're a dick.
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