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Post by hop2 on Jul 24, 2016 23:30:07 GMT
So there shouldn't be any drama now. I know dh and his parents are relieved. After sleeping for a while, and thinking about someone who is causing trouble IRL, I decided the best thing to do would be to remove this thread. I know it's a kinda chicken shit thing to do. I really did need some perspective and to vent. Thanks to those who understood. Can't blame you there. There's a couple of posts in my past is consider removing ( vents ) but they were all quoted so no point. Scary crap ya know
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Post by christine58 on Jul 24, 2016 23:35:56 GMT
After sleeping for a while, and thinking about someone who is causing trouble IRL, I decided the best thing to do would be to remove this thread. I know it's a kinda chicken shit thing to do. So sad that we all need to start and think this way because of one idiot. Glad it will work out.
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Post by cindyupnorth on Jul 25, 2016 1:12:34 GMT
After sleeping for a while, and thinking about someone who is causing trouble IRL, I decided the best thing to do would be to remove this thread. I know it's a kinda chicken shit thing to do. So sad that we all need to start and think this way because of one idiot. oh, yea. I missed all that. but good point.
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M in Carolina
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Post by M in Carolina on Jul 25, 2016 2:32:38 GMT
So there shouldn't be any drama now. I know dh and his parents are relieved. After sleeping for a while, and thinking about someone who is causing trouble IRL, I decided the best thing to do would be to remove this thread. I know it's a kinda chicken shit thing to do. I really did need some perspective and to vent. Thanks to those who understood. Can't blame you there. There's a couple of posts in my past is consider removing ( vents ) but they were all quoted so no point. Scary crap ya know I think it's difficult to think that people would do that sort of thing so we get complacent. It's easy to forget that we don't really know the people we share things with here. I've definitely made some huge mistakes, but I'm hoping to learn from them. There have been multiple vent threads of the extra drama crap that peas have had to deal with on top of losing a loved one. Emotions run high, and people say stuff they wouldn't normally say and then regret it. There's been more than one pea who had to deal with huge family rifts because of drama surrounding funerals. I also never said that this thread wasn't about me. It was. Because of the peas who helped me work through this, and even point out my selfishness, I was able to better support dh when he got upset today about the whole situation. I did realize that I wasn't being fair to my BIL at all. So I was able to remind dh that his BIL is overwhelmed, too. Dh had been frustrated with his parents expectations as well. So now instead of being a selfish asshole SIL, I can help dh understand what BIL is dealing with. So instead of being resentful of the way BIL handled the situation, dh and I can help smooth everything over. So thanks to everyone for helping me. I've been able to work through this without adding more to what dh is going through. There isn't anything else that I need to say. Thanks again for helping me and slapping some sense into me because I needed it.
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Post by hop2 on Jul 25, 2016 3:37:54 GMT
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