Feast your eyes on this then help me redecorate please

There is something about the counter I like ... I'd keep it, and go gray or all white LOL

Embrace that counter! I love it.

I would paint the walls a neutral color. A cool beige with no red tones.
Frame in the mirror . So many options there.
Add some better lights.
Change the hardware to a neutral finish
Dark cherry towels and throw rugs.

Or go white
Still frame that mirror.
Find warm gold fixtures.
And warm pink linens.

What about using tile paint until you are ready to redo the bathroom. Paint the tile neutral, put in a new countertop and change out the fixtures for brushed nickel
Tile paint won't last for ever, but paint is cheap and you won't have to live with it

I'm going to stick my neck out here.

I actually don't have the hate for this bathroom that most here do. I would definitely switch out the faucets and drawer/door knobs to pewter or whatever the light fixture is.

Other than that, I find the overall feel of the room to be kind of peaceful and pleasant.  

ETA: I just re-read your OP and noticed that you're saying that the pink in the tile is so dark it's more red . My laptop definitely doesn't pick that up, so maybe you shouldn't listen to my opinion. 

In total agreement.

AND after doing granite in one bath and one counter/sink piece in another-- all one piece is so much easier to keep clean... and I do like the gold with the pink    the tile I could go without.  I would Lily Pulitzer the heck out of that bath focusing on the pink counter

Good work MalleyCat

That's awesome, MalleyCat!

I like the pink! I would paint the walls a silver/grey, change the mirror and fixtures and glam it out!

Oh please get rid of the triple mirror thing.
That will give you a nice shelf.

Our first house had a pink main bath. They previous owner has changed the tub and surround to grey. But the sinks and toilet and walls were still pink! I played up the pink with pink and white plaid towels.
I would lose the countertop for sure - go with something inexpensive - check Home Depot or Lowe's. You can get inexpensive countertops in a light color. Change the light fixture and faucets but get something you can reuse when you do finally take the pink tile out.
OR just keep it all and play it up - pink poodle crocheted toilet paper cover - pink towels - pink or white fluffy rug.

Our house came with a bathroom like that. We tore it all out and started over, doing the work ourselves to save money. On a budget you could paint the walls a color you love, cover the tile with wood bead board (you can glue it directly to the tile) and top with trim. Put spar varnish over it all to waterproof. Then replace the vanity top with granite. Assuming it is a standard size you could get something off the shelf at Home Depot or lowes for a reasonable price. Then replace gold fixtures with brushed nickel. If the floor needs replacing, high quality sheet vinyl is a good short term option that won't break the bank. Most baths are small so it might not cost all that much.

Good luck. Congrats on the new house

I agree with this. While gray complements the pink, I think warmer colors will tone down the pink. Natural marble has a tendency to blend with a variety of color tones. For paint, maybe a linen or oatmeal color, and walnut brown for the cabinetry. That color pallette would bring the entire room back to neutral, and you could accent with just about anything from there. I like the idea of touches of "merlot" as an accent color too.