caro
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Post by caro on Aug 28, 2014 14:31:14 GMT
Not your kids but you.
My kids are in their 30's and they were fully trained in underwear at DD- 24 months and both DSs - at 30 months. And so were their friends. It seemed, back then, we just did it. My DD was very easy to train and only a couple of accidents. The boys were 2 1/2 in the summer and we did have a few accidents but they wore underwear and no shorts around the house.
I find the trend today is not to even start potty training until 3 years old. What changed?
I teach older twos. All of my class will be three now through November. Out of 12 only 4 are fully trained.
Just curious about this trend I see year after year.
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caro
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Post by caro on Aug 28, 2014 14:32:20 GMT
Oh I forgot to say, I was 24 months and easy according to my mom.
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mallie
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Post by mallie on Aug 28, 2014 14:34:03 GMT
According to my mom, we were all trained by our 2nd birthday.
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Post by ntsf on Aug 28, 2014 14:35:27 GMT
we never talked about it. and I grew up in the days of cloth diapers..
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Post by gloryjoy on Aug 28, 2014 14:36:37 GMT
I work in daycare and I notice this too.
When my kids were younger they were trained by 2.5, both were boys. I know for sure my oldest son was about 2 and 3 months because I was bound and determined he would be trained before I had my second son, they are 2 and 6 months apart. I couldn't afford to have 2 kids in diapers at the same time.
In my experience, Pullups are part of the problem. We didn't have Pullups, when my kids peed they peed and they knew right away. I think they're great for a trip in the car etc., but for everyday at home or at daycare, I think that a lot of times they slow the process down.
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Post by chaosisapony on Aug 28, 2014 14:48:04 GMT
My mom claims my sister and I were both potty trained at 18 months.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Aug 28, 2014 14:49:36 GMT
According to an article in the NY Ties in 1957 92% of children were toilet trained by 18 months. No doubt disposal diapers with their feel dry attributes have played a huge role. NYT
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Post by cynipidae17 on Aug 28, 2014 14:56:16 GMT
I was 18 months when I was trained, but my brother was 3. My daughter was 3 1/2 before she was completely trained and I hope to have her sister mostly trained by 2 1/2. I think the pull ups are partly to blame but at least with my first I tried a few times and when it didn't take right away I backed off and waited until she was ready. I really think that parents are now waiting for cues from their kids as well as the ease of pull ups.
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Post by workingclassdog on Aug 28, 2014 15:02:06 GMT
I have no idea, we never talked about it. I think things just change.. back then there were only cloth diapers... a big incentive to get them potty trained. Now we have awesome diapers and pull ups... so people just wait longer.. I don't think it is wrong by any means, might be more of a lazy way of doing it, but if you wait longer more money it costs to keep in diapers/pull ups and then you run into issues with daycare not accepting kids who are not potty trained by a certain age (although I think daycare gives the parents more than enough time for that to happen..)
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Post by workingclassdog on Aug 28, 2014 15:03:07 GMT
I do hear of horror stories of back when in potty training... one gal I know.. said her mom kept her on the potty chair for hours at a time. I don't think that is helping at all.
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Post by marzbar71 on Aug 28, 2014 15:09:14 GMT
I know my Mom said I was under 2 and I wore disposable diapers, but I'm sure back in the early 70s they weren't as good as they are know. She said I wanted to wear some certain pair of underwear and she said I could wear them when I used the potty. That was it. Then she said I spent the first day walking around rubbing my butt! LOL Guess it felt better than the diaper!
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Post by meeko77 on Aug 28, 2014 15:18:34 GMT
My mom told me that I was completely trained at 24 months, and my brother at 26 months. This included night as well.
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Post by oldcrow on Aug 28, 2014 15:19:03 GMT
I was the oldest of five girls and was trained by the time I was 18 months. Ma said the others were easier because of monkey see, monkey do.
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Post by leannec on Aug 28, 2014 15:23:26 GMT
No idea ... I'm an only child born in the 60's so I'm sure my mum had me trained as soon as possible
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Post by miyooper2b on Aug 28, 2014 15:24:20 GMT
Both me and my brother were trained by the time we were 2 1/2. DD [HASH]1 was trained by 2 1/2 and DD [HASH]2 by three.
One of my middle granddaughters is 3 1/2 and is still not trained. She'll come running when she goes in her diaper and tells mommy she needs changed. I said something to DD that if DGD knows when she is wet then she should be able to tell mommy when she needs to go. DD got mad at me for that, so we don't discuss it anymore but it bugs the crap out of me. (DD does not like taking advice from anyone is the type of person that must learn from her own mistakes and not others.)
The other day DD told me she'd given up on trying to train DGD. Somehow I managed to keep my mouth shut at that comment. Argghhh!
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Aug 28, 2014 15:32:49 GMT
Both me and my brother were trained by the time we were 2 1/2. DD [HASH]1 was trained by 2 1/2 and DD [HASH]2 by three.
One of my middle granddaughters is 3 1/2 and is still not trained. She'll come running when she goes in her diaper and tells mommy she needs changed. I said something to DD that if DGD knows when she is wet then she should be able to tell mommy when she needs to go. DD got mad at me for that, so we don't discuss it anymore but it bugs the crap out of me. (DD does not like taking advice from anyone is the type of person that must learn from her own mistakes and not others.)
The other day DD told me she'd given up on trying to train DGD. Somehow I managed to keep my mouth shut at that comment. Argghhh! I hope my mother doesn't feel the same way as you do. My son is three and can tell me AFTER he has gone in his diaper, but he just doesn't recognize his body's cues before he has to go. Our pediatrician told us this is very common and to only talk positively about toileting, but not to force it or make it an issue. Don't worry, grandma. Your grandchild won't go to college in diapers.
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Post by phoenixcov on Aug 28, 2014 15:50:11 GMT
I was 18 months (1950s) my DS (1980s) was 2 half and Grandson who is nearly 4 was just over 2 when he was dry. Both DS and DGS hated wearing nappies, or clothes for that matter. Both boys used the toilet with adaptor seat instead of a potty.
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Post by krazykatlady on Aug 28, 2014 15:51:52 GMT
According to an article in the NY Ties in 1957 92% of children were toilet trained by 18 months. No doubt disposal diapers with their feel dry attributes have played a huge role. NYTI was making a scrapbook for my cousin of her husband's photos and memories. His parents had kept a lot of stuff including a set of magazines that chronicled what to expect for the first 12 months of your new baby's life. The one for six months had an article on starting to potty train your infant at this age. It was one of the most bizarre things I've seen. He was born in the early 1940's
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Post by melanell on Aug 28, 2014 15:57:30 GMT
Probably around 2.
I think several things changed, but I think the biggie is not disposable diapers, (because my brother was young enough for those and while he trained later than his sister, he still trained earlier than my boys) but because of much better disposable diapers PLUS pull-ups.
They offer comfort and a "back-up" that didn't exist for me as a kid.
I was in heavy cloth diapers, with those awful plastic pants over them. Ugh! What kid wouldn't want to get out of them quickly!
And even the diapers we put on my brother were bulky and very plastic-y.....they would make a lot of noise and they would make him very sweaty. Plus he still felt wet when he wore them.
But my kids...they were in diapers that "wicked moisture away from their delicate skin", LOL. They were nearly as trim as the bulkier training underwear, and they didn't mind wearing them. Potty training was a pain, and their diapers and pull-ups were easy.
Even my 2nd son, who did not wear pull-ups at home (Because we realized that they just made training take longer) still did wear them when we were out, and he was using the bathroom successfully at home far earlier than out & about because of that fact.
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Post by scrappinghappy on Aug 28, 2014 16:08:38 GMT
I don't recall with my older two but for sure by the time they were 3 or 4 lol. With the twins, dd went first. She wanted Dora underwear and could only get to wear them if Dora stayed clean and dry. Ok, she said, we went to Target, got the underwear and that was it. She was about 2 and that was it. Never an accident. Her twin brother was another story. He wanted Thomas underwear but told us he wouldn't be able to keep it clean or dry. We told him, let us know when you can. 6 months later he asked for it again, had a few accidents and was done.
I have three nephews, 2 moms, and all three were trained as soon as they could walk, so 10-15 months. There is some program where the kids go naked or are taken to the potty at voiding times. Like after a meal. I'm not sure but it definitely worked for all three of them.
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Post by lollapealooza on Aug 28, 2014 16:09:37 GMT
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Post by grate on Aug 28, 2014 16:10:50 GMT
my mom said-- all four of us were trained by 18-20 months. This would be in the late 60s early 70s.
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Post by lollapealooza on Aug 28, 2014 16:16:38 GMT
Just like everything else today - parents don't want to ruin their little psyches.
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Post by scrapaddie on Aug 28, 2014 16:19:49 GMT
I don't remember it at all. I do know that I Leanne's to wait until summer to tout train m dd... That would make her 2 1/2.... She beat me to it. I gave never potty trained a child.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Aug 28, 2014 16:33:05 GMT
I don't recall with my older two but for sure by the time they were 3 or 4 lol. With the twins, dd went first. She wanted Dora underwear and could only get to wear them if Dora stayed clean and dry. Ok, she said, we went to Target, got the underwear and that was it. She was about 2 and that was it. Never an accident. Her twin brother was another story. He wanted Thomas underwear but told us he wouldn't be able to keep it clean or dry. We told him, let us know when you can. 6 months later he asked for it again, had a few accidents and was done. I have three nephews, 2 moms, and all three were trained as soon as they could walk, so 10-15 months. There is some program where the kids go naked or are taken to the potty at voiding times. Like after a meal. I'm not sure but it definitely worked for all three of them. We went naked with my kids. My daughter was under 2, maybe 22 months? She had been telling me when she needed to be changed, and my mother offered the suggestion that perhaps she was ready. I figured we'd give it a go. It literally took her one instance of feeling pee run down her leg. She never had another accident. My son was a bit tougher with different equipment and all. The naked thing actually seemed to slow him down as it was more uncomfortable to feel wet pants than water the flowers.
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Post by SweetieBsMom on Aug 28, 2014 16:35:55 GMT
No idea
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Post by jenettycakes on Aug 28, 2014 16:48:58 GMT
I was just under 2, so 1978 but my son just became fully potty trained at 3 1/2 this summer. Mind you he needs help wiping which we do so not sure if that's not considered being fully potty trained but the accidents stopped after week 1.
I had great intentions to start last Labor Day weekend once our summer finally slowed down and wouldn't you know it - I broke my foot on Labor Day and that killed those plans. I was basically immobile non-weight bearing on crutches cast up to my knee. I struggled to get to the bathroom myself.
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Post by rumplesnat on Aug 28, 2014 16:51:35 GMT
My mother insists that the 3 of us were all trained by 13 months. I thinks she's nuts.
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Post by The Birdhouse Lady on Aug 28, 2014 16:53:10 GMT
My mom said that I was trained at a year. I find this VERY hard to believe since I probably didn't start walking until I was a year. I also grew up in the era of cloth diapers. I would revisit the subject with my mom but, she has past away so I guess I won't ever know.
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Post by gillyp on Aug 28, 2014 17:13:50 GMT
According to an article in the NY Ties in 1957 92% of children were toilet trained by 18 months. No doubt disposal diapers with their feel dry attributes have played a huge role. NYTI have one friend that claims she was trained at 9 months. REALLY? how many 9 month old babies have the ability to get themselves to and up on a potty? ?? If you could ask my mother she would have said all four of us were trained by 9 months. We were born in the early 40s/mid 50s and she did what HER mother told her to do, which was hold us out over the potty from a few weeks old. So it wasn't being potty trained to my mind, which means being aware of the need to go and doing something about it, but was more likely a learned response - sit on the potty and the body responds iyswim. Probably explains why she used to dose us all daily with Syrup of Figs too! She could not understand that my boys were 2 1/2 or thereabouts before they were ready.
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