maurchclt
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Jul 4, 2014 16:53:27 GMT
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Post by maurchclt on Sept 26, 2017 12:47:55 GMT
hugs and more hugs, just reading this made me want to sit with you and hold you tight.
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Post by tommygirl on Sept 26, 2017 12:48:15 GMT
Sending you hugs and prayers.
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Post by peasapie on Sept 26, 2017 12:50:12 GMT
Someone else said it: it’s ok to not be ok. You will make it through. Put an imaginary healing bubble around you as you walk through looking at the photos, and remain inside that bubble for as long as you can. Let it cushion you and protect you until you can float down to the ground again where your friends will hold you. Gentle hugs to you today.
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Post by ktdoesntscrap on Sept 26, 2017 12:57:08 GMT
I hope today is as easy as it can possibly be for you. Hugs.
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scrappert
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RefuPea #2956
Posts: 7,793
Location: Milwaukee, WI area
Jul 11, 2014 21:20:09 GMT
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Post by scrappert on Sept 26, 2017 12:57:44 GMT
I am hoping you were able to get some rest last night.
We are all here for you, hoping today will go ok for you.
Lots and lots of hugs and prayers to you.
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Post by leannec on Sept 26, 2017 12:59:01 GMT
I'm so sorry that you are having a hard time right now ... hugs to you
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quiltz
Drama Llama
Posts: 6,711
Location: CANADA
Jun 29, 2014 16:13:28 GMT
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Post by quiltz on Sept 26, 2017 13:00:19 GMT
Having gone through a deposition (death of dd) which also involved a vehicle, it is really hard. Take deep breaths.
My own personal experience was that the car was towed to a place further away from the accident site, which, ironically was just down the street where I lived. The gal at this towing company was a friend of mine. She called me and very gently told me that the car had been released from police custody. I went and saw the car. She let me crawl into the back seat where my dd died. I just cried and cried. I did take along her favourite stuffy to comfort me. When I was exhausted, I gathered some of the broken glass shards. I still have them.
The deposition brought out a lot of stuff that still brings me ptsd episodes to me. ( ( ( hugs ) ) )
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Post by katlaw on Sept 26, 2017 13:03:00 GMT
I will be thinking of you today. Know that lots of Peas are thinking of you and praying for you today.
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Post by idahopea on Sept 26, 2017 13:04:10 GMT
I'm so sorry for all you are going through. I will be thinking of you today and sending hugs and strength to get through the deposition. I have long admired your courage to keep putting one foot in front of the other throughout the last 5 years. This will be a very, very difficult day no doubt, but I know you will get through it because you have shown time and time again that you can do it. Your husband would be so very proud of you. We are here for you!
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May 22, 2024 2:19:23 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Sept 26, 2017 13:09:47 GMT
Sending hugs and warm thoughts your way on this very difficult day. Like other Peas have said, there is someone always here for you.
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imsirius
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Call it as I see it.
Posts: 7,661
Location: Floating in the black veil.
Jul 12, 2014 19:59:28 GMT
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Post by imsirius on Sept 26, 2017 13:13:53 GMT
I can't imagine how difficult this is for you. Big hugs xx
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AmeliaBloomer
Drama Llama
Posts: 6,842
Location: USA
Jun 26, 2014 5:01:45 GMT
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Post by AmeliaBloomer on Sept 26, 2017 13:15:24 GMT
I'm so sorry that circumstances are making you relive such a traumatic, life changing event all alone. And I hope your counselor and trainer can somewhat ease the pain.
Keep posting about it here. Many of us have followed your story for five years and sincerely care.
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mimima
Drama Llama
Stay Gold, Ponyboy
Posts: 5,020
Jun 25, 2014 19:25:50 GMT
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Post by mimima on Sept 26, 2017 13:15:26 GMT
Prayers and strength for today and every day. I can't take the pain away, but I can let you know that you are not alone. We are here for you. <3
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Post by pjynx on Sept 26, 2017 13:16:50 GMT
I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine. ((HUGS))
Pam
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Post by missbennet on Sept 26, 2017 13:19:45 GMT
I'm so sorry (((hugs)))
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Post by crazy4scraps on Sept 26, 2017 13:31:52 GMT
I'm so sorry you're having to deal with all this. I hope once you get through today (and you will!) things will be on a better tangent tomorrow. Peace and hugs to you and your family--
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Post by kels99 on Sept 26, 2017 13:40:01 GMT
Thinking of you today!
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scrappyesq
Pearl Clutcher
You have always been a part of the heist. You're only mad now because you don't like your cut.
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Jun 26, 2014 19:29:07 GMT
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Post by scrappyesq on Sept 26, 2017 13:41:31 GMT
<<<HUGS>>>
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Post by piebaker on Sept 26, 2017 13:47:21 GMT
I will be thinking of you today and hope for strength of purpose for you. Gentle hugs.
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Post by lemondrop on Sept 26, 2017 13:54:08 GMT
I hope you were able to get some rest. Sending you hugs.
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GiantsFan
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Jun 27, 2014 14:44:56 GMT
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Post by GiantsFan on Sept 26, 2017 14:04:41 GMT
I'm so sorry you have to relive that horrible day. I'll be thinking of you today.
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oh yvonne
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Jun 26, 2014 0:45:23 GMT
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Post by oh yvonne on Sept 26, 2017 14:17:59 GMT
argh, I'm crying here reading your post. I remember that horrific accident so well, Spidey. I hate this for you. I'm so sorry, sending you hugs all day and all night.
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Post by mikklynn on Sept 26, 2017 14:23:08 GMT
Having gone through a deposition (death of dd) which also involved a vehicle, it is really hard. Take deep breaths. My own personal experience was that the car was towed to a place further away from the accident site, which, ironically was just down the street where I lived. The gal at this towing company was a friend of mine. She called me and very gently told me that the car had been released from police custody. I went and saw the car. She let me crawl into the back seat where my dd died. I just cried and cried. I did take along her favourite stuffy to comfort me. When I was exhausted, I gathered some of the broken glass shards. I still have them. The deposition brought out a lot of stuff that still brings me ptsd episodes to me. ( ( ( hugs ) ) ) You are so kind to share such a difficult and personal story. Hugs to you, too, my Pea friend.
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Post by peano on Sept 26, 2017 14:25:41 GMT
I'm so sorry you're going through this. It seems so unfair. We are here for you.
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Post by mellyw on Sept 26, 2017 14:29:52 GMT
I am so sorry. I can't imagine what this has drug up for you. Please know I'll keep you in my thoughts.
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Post by Baseballmom23 on Sept 26, 2017 14:33:37 GMT
(((hugs))) and I will be praying for you today. I hope you find comfort in knowing that we are all here thinking, praying and sending our love
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Post by leftturnonly on Sept 26, 2017 14:38:44 GMT
What a terrible thing to have to relive. What a shock it must have been for you when you were told you must see these photos after so long, and that you must do so in front of other people in a legal setting. It seems so unnecessarily cruel. I know you don't believe, but still, I'm lifting you up in prayer. {{{{very gentle hugs}}}
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Post by Chips on Sept 26, 2017 16:00:31 GMT
Lots and lots of hugs and I am so sorry.
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Post by hop2 on Sept 26, 2017 16:27:34 GMT
Just thinking of you today. Hoping you find peace after the deposition is over. {{{hugs}}}
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Post by bearmom on Sept 26, 2017 16:36:38 GMT
Hugs to you, no words other than take time to heal again.
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