I know my daughter needs residential treatment. She WAS referred for it but tricare DENIED it. She needed three failed treatments for them to approve it.
We had TWO failed treatments and she moved before she could be placed in the third.
I begged the insurance, put in an appeal but their requirements we unbudgable.
I tried. I could not hold on anymore before sending her away.
She literally had 24hrs home between hopitalizations and has to call the cops since I wouldn't let her have her cell phone.
When she got out the second time a friend my friend had her comeover to give me a break and she ended up having to go to the ER for clawing up her arms. At that time her bio dad was on his way up with the ticket I had bought and already had their return tickets paid for.
At that time in my mind was shot.
Two months of my husband out of the house, being under investigation from CPS on both of us. Not knowing if my entire life was going to crumble.
I ended up in the hospital myself for passing out due to stress.
I am still under stress worried about her and what to do.
I can here for advice knowing would be judged. Hoping beyond hope someone could point me in a semi right direction.
In a perfect world I would pack up and move 4 states away. Take my daughter out of her senior year of high school to help her sister. In reality she just turned 17. She CAN refuse treatment unless court ordered.
I am exhausted from stress and worry.
Maybe we had a hand in her becoming who she was. Being a daughter of dual military surely can not be easy. The moves, the deployments have to of taken a toll. We gotv out and tried to have a " normal" life. Maybe it was to late.
All I know is I tried my best and it wasn't enough.