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Post by jeremysgirl on Apr 8, 2018 3:44:31 GMT
I know when I post something that at least one person is going to smack me  but some people are going to post an opinion or perspective that I never would have thought of on my own or gotten from my little circle of friends and family. So many times I have posted something thinking exactly one way and by the end of the thread I am considering things I never would have thought of on my own. Or I will come away with a much better understanding of how my actions will impact those around me because often peas will have an experience to share that is from the perspective of the other person. I have changed my views politically on some issues. I have gained a greater sense of empathy. As varied as I think my life experience has been I am always humbled to learn that my real life experience is actually much narrower than I think it is. So you never quite know what you're going to get when you post here, but if you really give value to what is being said, you really have the opportunity to gain some valuable perspective. I feel like my world view is so much broader participating here. |
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Post by freecharlie on Apr 8, 2018 3:48:21 GMT
Agreed.
I also feel like I understand other viewpoints so much more than people around here. The different perspectives, even from those on the same side of the issues are very enlightening.
Plus just the myriad of types of people here. Age, location, economic status, religion...Just amazing
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Post by StephDRebel on Apr 8, 2018 4:03:45 GMT
most definitely.
I was just talking to my dh the other day about how different I am than my family and the people I was raised with.
I literally don't know where I'd be right now if the peas hadn't been there. I started participating when I was 19 and some of the women here seriously taught me how to be an adult.
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Post by flanz on Apr 8, 2018 4:05:59 GMT
It's a very special community and I'm grateful to be here. Thanks for another special thread, jeremysgirl! |
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Post by Lexica on Apr 8, 2018 4:39:23 GMT
I feel the same. And as silly as this sounds, just knowing that the peas will always be here is one of the things that is making me feel braver as I gear up to move to another state without bringing anyone with me. I do have three friends that live in various cities in Oregon, but they are not in a city that I am contemplating. I like knowing that if it takes me a while to build friendships in my new town, I will have the peas for companionship until I do.
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Post by nlwilkins on Apr 8, 2018 4:44:13 GMT
The peas have taught me so much. It has helped me to not be so narrow minded, to realize that not everything is as it seems when you see misbehaving kids in public, that if you get smacked down, you get back up and keep going. I think though the one big thing that comes to mind is the fact that NO is a complete sentence. No explanations are required. Thank you peas
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Post by mom on Apr 8, 2018 5:25:07 GMT
I agree. I love the Peas who are able to share their view point and discuss why they feel that way. Sometimes I have changed my mind, somethings won't change my mind but I will learn and be able to 'see' the other side.
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Post by gar on Apr 8, 2018 8:11:48 GMT
Although I sometimes have take into account cultural differences between the majority of Americans here and myself as an English woman, I have definitely benefited from gaining a broader view of the world and a different perspective on a lot of things that have opened my mind. If I hadn't experienced this for myself I might have a hard time accepting it was possible, simply online with a group of people I'd never met  |
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Post by hannahruth on Apr 8, 2018 8:54:03 GMT
I have to agree with posters above - it is a wonderful place to learn about just anything that you may want to know.
Each Pea is individual and we all have such diverse ideas on things. There is not a day that I think to myself ... Well I didn't know that. when reading a post or two.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Apr 8, 2018 9:43:11 GMT
Ditto!
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Post by momto4kiddos on Apr 8, 2018 10:33:31 GMT
Completely agree! The peas are the best resource on almost all subjects. So many different views and experiences - you're always given much to consider if you're willing to consider it.
I come here often when I have an issue, knowing I need some new ideas to consider. The peas always deliver.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Apr 8, 2018 11:44:14 GMT
The mere fact of how long many of us have been a part of this community proves it’s importance in our lives. I remember feeling such a loss when the former site closed and we thought we would lose this. I should have trusted the peas would always come through.
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Post by sueg on Apr 8, 2018 11:58:55 GMT
I feel the same. And as silly as this sounds, just knowing that the peas will always be here is one of the things that is making me feel braver as I gear up to move to another state without bringing anyone with me. I do have three friends that live in various cities in Oregon, but they are not in a city that I am contemplating. I like knowing that if it takes me a while to build friendships in my new town, I will have the peas for companionship until I do. As someone who made a bigger move than you - international, to a country where I did not speak the language - and with only my DH, I want to give you some encouragement. Life is an adventure, and when we can bravely move ahead - I disagreed with someone who called me brave just before my move, but it is true - we can discover so much about ourselves and the world. |
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Post by compeateropeator on Apr 8, 2018 12:15:34 GMT
I agree.
This is a place where I get so much perspective and knowledge from such a wonderful, diverse and international community. IMO there is no better way to learn about and experience the world outside of my irl bubble than with intense, general, or just fun conversations with peaple. Thanks to everyone.
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Post by hop2 on Apr 8, 2018 12:18:43 GMT
most definitely. I was just talking to my dh the other day about how different I am than my family and the people I was raised with. I literally don't know where I'd be right now if the peas hadn't been there. I started participating when I was 19 and some of the women here seriously taught me how to be an adult. and your one of the peas that taught me how to reclaim my self esteem by showing that I can |
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Post by purplebee on Apr 8, 2018 12:21:01 GMT
Oh yes! One of the nice things about this place is that sometimes at first read I disagree vehemently with a poster's opinion or actions, but after reading (and ruminating upon) the many thoughtful, educated replies, I find that my objection may not be so vehement after all.
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Post by mikklynn on Apr 8, 2018 12:34:05 GMT
I agree with everything said above. I love my Pea friends.  |
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Post by MZF on Apr 8, 2018 12:54:25 GMT
Agreed. Though I don't post a lot, I read and learn from many of the posts. I really love this board.
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Post by FLA SummerBaby on Apr 8, 2018 13:02:56 GMT
Agree. Even though I am not a prolific poster and mostly just read the posts, I have learned so much over the years. Grateful for the Peas.  |
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Post by ddly on Apr 8, 2018 13:05:55 GMT
I agree! I’ve been mostly a lurker forever, but whenever I’ve reached out with a question from pot luck to divorce, I’ve felt the suggestions and answers are genuine. Not to mention all the cool things I’m enabled to buy! Lol!
Lisa G.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 8, 2018 13:28:42 GMT
This place has reinforced my beliefs in the wisdom of crowds and the compassion and kindness in the majority of humanity.
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Post by originalvanillabean on Apr 8, 2018 13:49:19 GMT
Agree 100%
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Post by lisaknits on Apr 8, 2018 14:02:04 GMT
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Post by Monica* on Apr 8, 2018 14:21:07 GMT
So true. Very grateful for this resource. How many of us have friends or family members that don't know about this place personally, but know its importance to us enough to counsel us to "go ask the Peas"?
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Post by annie on Apr 8, 2018 14:30:25 GMT
Great post, and I agree. My kids make fun of me for talking about "the peas", but when we need info on something they ALL say "Go ask the peas!" And yes, it's a great place to grow and learn about different viewpoints. Love you all! |
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Apr 8, 2018 15:18:25 GMT
Yes and yes again.
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Post by Skellinton on Apr 8, 2018 15:24:56 GMT
Yeppers to everything stated above!
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Post by scrapmaven on Apr 8, 2018 16:00:02 GMT
This is a very different place than any other. I have learned a lot and yes, this site has caused me to re-think some things. It's a staple in my life and I doubt many people would understand.
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Post by malibou on Apr 8, 2018 16:32:51 GMT
I know I am a better, more thoughtful person because of the peas. And many thanks for all of the advice on what it means to be a mom.
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Post by rodeomom on Apr 8, 2018 17:00:01 GMT
I agree so much with this!!
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but some people are going to post an opinion or perspective that I never would have thought of on my own or gotten from my little circle of friends and family. 
