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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Feb 1, 2019 2:44:31 GMT
Well, shoot. I'm late, too. But I'm glad to hear it went well. And I'm definitely in the "you're a great mom" camp and wish you all the best as your family negotiates some new territory.
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janeliz
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Post by janeliz on Feb 1, 2019 2:56:58 GMT
Youâre an incredible mom. Iâm so glad youâre feeling positive about the appointment.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Feb 1, 2019 3:16:14 GMT
Very good news.... Thanks for the update!
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Post by Merge on Feb 1, 2019 3:27:17 GMT
I didn't get a chance to respond earlier, but I'm so glad to read that it went well. Hugs, mom! Your daughter will be grateful for your love and support all her life.
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melissa
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Post by melissa on Feb 1, 2019 3:37:52 GMT
Didn't see this the first time. She's lucky to have you as her mom!
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Post by PrettyInPeank on Feb 1, 2019 4:09:03 GMT
So happy it went well. Keep us posted!
Have you searched around the internet for family/parent of transitioning loved ones message boards? I bet they'd be an absolute wealth of information and support (not that we aren't, but sometimes it's nice to be in the company of many who have btdt).
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Post by quinlove on Feb 1, 2019 4:23:28 GMT
Yep, I think this makes it official. All the peas agree.
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Post by alexa11 on Feb 1, 2019 4:31:16 GMT
I'm so glad it went well!
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Post by Skellinton on Feb 1, 2019 4:46:40 GMT
So glad it went well! I am glad your daughter has you in her corner. I wish all moms were as open, honest, accepting and loving as you! You are awesome.
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trollie
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Post by trollie on Feb 1, 2019 5:55:31 GMT
Glad to hear it went well. It goes without saying that you are an awesome mom.
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Post by cawoman on Feb 1, 2019 8:13:08 GMT
Iâm happy you went and I wish you and your daughter all the best!
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Post by tuesdaysgone on Feb 1, 2019 10:34:10 GMT
So happy to read this update. All the best to you and your DD. Take care of yourself, so you will be ready to take care of her.
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Feb 1, 2019 10:37:15 GMT
I'm so glad the meeting went well! đ
I knew you'd do awesome.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 1, 2019 11:11:40 GMT
I'm late seeing this thread too. I'm glad it all went well and that you decided to be with her. You're a very special mom and she's very fortunate to have you to love and care for her happiness.
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teddyw
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Post by teddyw on Feb 1, 2019 12:17:31 GMT
So glad it went well. I hope she has an uneventful surgery. She must be so excited.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 1, 2019 12:26:28 GMT
Go with her...I watch I am Jazz and they are just now at her surgery. Her's was tough because she was on hormone blockers so they "didn't have enough" to work with. I am sure your DD's will be much easier. Which surgery is she having first?? Top or bottom? I watched Jazz this week and cried non stop the whole time just watching her mother's fear and her family's love.
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Post by cannmom on Feb 1, 2019 14:26:42 GMT
So glad the consult went well. Iâm sure your DD appreciates your support.
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Post by christine58 on Feb 1, 2019 15:00:27 GMT
How long will she have to wait??
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Post by christine58 on Feb 1, 2019 15:01:47 GMT
You can do this. Your hopes and dreams for a son have to die. Now you have a daughter and you and she can do all the girly things in the world together. I have a DDIL and we do the girly stuff all the time. I did girly stuff with my mother. I hate this expression but you have to be brave for her. Then get her a Sephora/Ulta gift card. Sheâs going to need it. Not everyone who identifies as female uses/enjoys beauty products or makeup. While I think your comments were well intended itâs harmful to perpetuate gender as a dichotomous variable where female= girly. You said it better than I did....the lipstick comment bothered me too...
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Post by coaliesquirrel on Feb 1, 2019 15:45:52 GMT
KUMC is a GREAT facility, so I'm sure you and your daughter will be in good hands. Best wishes for a smooth procedure and recovery for your daughter and strength for you to support her.
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Post by brandy327 on Feb 1, 2019 16:01:38 GMT
I'm so glad you went with her! And that it went well! <3 She's awfully lucky to have such a great mom!
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sharlag
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Post by sharlag on Feb 1, 2019 16:37:35 GMT
How long will she have to wait?? . She graduates in May and wants to do it shortly afterwards. Thatâs my busy time at work, but I want her to start this as soon as she can.
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sharlag
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Post by sharlag on Feb 1, 2019 16:41:55 GMT
Not everyone who identifies as female uses/enjoys beauty products or makeup. While I think your comments were well intended itâs harmful to perpetuate gender as a dichotomous variable where female= girly. You said it better than I did....the lipstick comment bothered me too... Thanks for pointing this out. In my case, it was a lovely thought that fit my daughter exactly. I have photos of her self-applied lipstick when she was 2 years old. Whatâs sad if, there are tears in her eyes becaus I scolded her for doing it. NOT because she was a boy, but because she wasnât supposed to get into my makeup. It hurts to think I added to her childhood feelings of disphoria.
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Post by johnnysmom on Feb 1, 2019 16:42:42 GMT
I'm so glad it went well. I'm sure she understands it's a big adjustment for you (as well as her, though she's had a little more time to process it since I'm sure she thought about it long and hard before even discussing it with you).
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Post by christine58 on Feb 1, 2019 16:55:50 GMT
Thanks for pointing this out. In my case, it was a lovely thought that fit my daughter exactly. I have photos of her self-applied lipstick when she was 2 years old. Whatâs sad if, there are tears in her eyes becaus I scolded her for doing it. NOT because she was a boy, but because she wasnât supposed to get into my makeup. It hurts to think I added to her childhood feelings of disphoria. You didn't know...think of all her joy now!!
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