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Post by gar on Apr 12, 2019 12:35:50 GMT
Hope you’re doing ok lainey. We’re still here thinking of you.
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Post by gar on Apr 14, 2019 9:46:33 GMT
Morning Lainey, hope you're doing ok, as well as you could under the circumstances as least ((hugs))
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Post by Deleted on Apr 14, 2019 10:05:08 GMT
Still thinking of you lainey and sending you a
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Post by wellway on Apr 14, 2019 10:14:25 GMT
Add me to the peas thinking of you. (Hugs)
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Apr 14, 2019 10:29:03 GMT
Me too. I log in every day to see if there is an update. Sending more hugs and sending up prayers for you all too.
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Post by phoenixcov on Apr 14, 2019 10:50:29 GMT
Just checking to see if there is an update and thinking of you and your Mum.
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Post by JoP on Apr 14, 2019 10:51:48 GMT
lainey keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers (((Hugs)))
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Post by J u l e e on Apr 14, 2019 11:25:36 GMT
((((Lainey))))
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Post by Deleted on Apr 14, 2019 12:20:19 GMT
Thank you Mum is being moved to the nursing home either tomorrow or Tuesday. I'm completely overwhelmed by everything that needs to be done.
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Post by mom on Apr 14, 2019 12:37:00 GMT
Sending you love, lainey . We are here for you if you need to talk.
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Post by eastcoastpea on Apr 14, 2019 12:39:41 GMT
Sending hugs your way.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 14, 2019 12:40:58 GMT
Thank you Mum is being moved to the nursing home either tomorrow or Tuesday. I'm completely overwhelmed by everything that needs to be done.
It might not seem like it at the moment for you lainey but in the long run it will be what is best for your Mum. She'll have the professional care that she probably needs. As much as we want to care for someone ourselves, it's not always the best thing for the person that needs the care. We don't have the experience or the expertise to carry out that care. Take small steps in dealing with things lovely. Make a list and go through it one thing at a time. Sending you some more ((((hugs)))
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Post by gar on Apr 14, 2019 12:54:14 GMT
I’m not surprised that you feel totally overwhelmed. Is you brother helping you? Hugs Lainey- this is such a hard road you’re on but it will get easier, promise.
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Post by JoP on Apr 14, 2019 12:59:03 GMT
Thank you Mum is being moved to the nursing home either tomorrow or Tuesday. I'm completely overwhelmed by everything that needs to be done.
lainey I’m sure it’s very overwhelming. The advice from @dottyscrapper is what I was going to say. Sending you much love I’ll continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Apr 14, 2019 13:08:47 GMT
Hopefully the hospital staff is coordinating much of the move? I'm not sure how the process differs there. Don't try to figure it all out on your own -- keep asking for assistance. Let them do all they can. You'll have enough on your plate anyway.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Apr 14, 2019 14:34:58 GMT
I am sending hugs. This is so hard. Much love.
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Post by cycworker on Apr 14, 2019 14:58:17 GMT
Sending you love.
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Post by gillyp on Apr 14, 2019 15:11:39 GMT
Hope the move goes well for both of you lainey. Is the home easy enough for you to get to quite regularly?
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Post by crazy4scraps on Apr 14, 2019 15:37:52 GMT
Sending hugs. It is overwhelming! Take things one day and one step at a time and if anyone can help you, let them. Keeping you in my thoughts!
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Post by flute4peace on Apr 14, 2019 18:14:53 GMT
Thank you Mum is being moved to the nursing home either tomorrow or Tuesday. I'm completely overwhelmed by everything that needs to be done.
It might not seem like it at the moment for you lainey but in the long run it will be what is best for your Mum. She'll have the professional care that she probably needs. As much as we want to care for someone ourselves, it's not always the best thing for the person that needs the care. We don't have the experience or the expertise to carry out that care. Take small steps in dealing with things lovely. Make a list and go through it one thing at a time. Sending you some more ((((hugs))) I could not have said it any better. We are here for you!!
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Post by christine58 on Apr 14, 2019 19:31:41 GMT
lainey I know this must be so hard for you but she is going to get round the clock care and you can take a breath if need be.
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Post by mikklynn on Apr 14, 2019 21:02:07 GMT
lainey, I am glad she'll be cared for. You can revert to being her daughter, not her caregiver. Hugs, my Pea friend.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 15, 2019 8:25:18 GMT
Hope today will be a little less overwhelming for you than the week-end was as arrangements start being put in place for your Mum lainey Take care
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Post by muggins on Apr 15, 2019 9:08:45 GMT
I’m glad your mum is well enough to leave the hospital. I can imagine how overwhelmed you must feel. The past couple of weeks must have been very difficult for you. As others have said, take it slowly, ask for help, and allow others to take care of some of the organisation. Once the move is complete, you’ll have some much needed time for self care while knowing your mum is safe and cared for. Big hugs((()))
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Post by mollycoddle on Apr 15, 2019 11:20:54 GMT
I had to do the same thing for my parents, and although it was stressful, it was a very good thing in the end. I hope that this turns out to be a good move for you and your mom.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 16, 2019 10:49:15 GMT
How are things going lainey ? hoping you're OK
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Post by phoenixcov on Apr 16, 2019 11:08:24 GMT
Hope all goes well with the move.
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Post by gar on Apr 16, 2019 11:53:21 GMT
I think you said your Mum will be moving in today, if not yesterday - I hope it went smoothly. I hope you're feeling ok and that things are moving ahead as they should.
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Apr 16, 2019 12:13:20 GMT
Still thinking of you.
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Post by destined2bmom on Apr 16, 2019 12:19:19 GMT
Hugs to you lainey. You and your mum are in my prayers.
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