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Post by Deleted on Sept 25, 2019 22:46:44 GMT
elainePittsburgh is an okay place if you have money to live there. Not a great place if you make only minimum wage.
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flute4peace
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Post by flute4peace on Sept 27, 2019 0:25:03 GMT
That may be a valid point but you also haven’t had death threats against you I would imagine. With someone who knows where you live. He actually did have to take this position now. They offered it to him because they needed him in the Cincinnati location quickly. They are probably going to make him a district manager with multiple locations. Prior to him getting there, they were flying people in from Florida which meant hotels, airfare, rental cars and food allowances. They were spending a fortune and the managers didn’t care because they knew they were only temporary. My ex, who I was married to and living with, threatened to "make you disappear and keep anyone from looking for you long enough they will never find you" So yeah, I've looked into the eyes of a person I loved deeply and saw he had thought about killing me and how to get away with it. I ran. Spent the new couple of years living in a homeless shelter set up in my church and working a night shift at Walmart. Getting "home" alone at 2:00 am in the dark silence of a church parking lot is creepy. My ex knew exactly where I was living and working. Since we have three adultkids together it is safe to assume he still knows where I live and probably knows where I work. I know he is still angry about the divorce terms and his current wife stokes that anger quite often. Running every time you feel a strong emotion is not the way to solve your issues. Gaining independence in your living and finances will. Not needing the approval of anyone for the way you live means the peace you seek. Needing a roommate to afford your living arrangement means drama even among people who generally get along. I just want to make sure you see this, and understand why you were given the advice she gave. I feel like you owe her an apology for being so dismissive and flippant, both to her and to me when discussing her. And with that said I should probably bow out. Volt was one of my first friends here and I think I’m probably feeling a bit protective (which is somewhat ironic, since she’s a heck of a lot tougher than I could ever hope to be). I hope you get things figured out. |
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slkmommy
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Post by slkmommy on Sept 27, 2019 3:19:21 GMT
Get. Into. Therapy.
Seriously.
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