TankTop
Pearl Clutcher
Refupea #1,871
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Location: On the couch...
Jun 28, 2014 1:52:46 GMT
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Post by TankTop on Oct 12, 2020 12:50:24 GMT
I am so very sorry.
Please seek out a therapist trained in partner sensitive trauma recovery.
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Post by Really Red on Oct 12, 2020 12:57:37 GMT
I am so SO sorry. Just because you never married, it only saves you an actual divorce, though. You deserve money from him for your kids and for your 21 years together. Many hugs as you sort through this difficult time.
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peabay
Prolific Pea
Posts: 9,630
Jun 25, 2014 19:50:41 GMT
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Post by peabay on Oct 12, 2020 12:59:30 GMT
I'm really sorry. Sending you my best.
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cakediva
Drama Llama
Making the world a sweeter place one cake at a time!
Posts: 7,463
Location: Fergus, Ontario
Jun 26, 2014 11:53:40 GMT
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Post by cakediva on Oct 12, 2020 13:23:38 GMT
I’m so sorry....you deserve better!
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Post by Mel on Oct 12, 2020 13:26:16 GMT
Wow... I'm so sorry you are dealing with all of this!! Be good to yourself and take the time to grieve.
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Jun 2, 2024 12:47:36 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Oct 12, 2020 13:30:24 GMT
I am so sorry. You do not deserve that.
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Deleted
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Jun 2, 2024 12:47:36 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Oct 12, 2020 13:30:55 GMT
I am so sorry...he is a dick and you don't deserve this....
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Deleted
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Jun 2, 2024 12:47:36 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Oct 12, 2020 13:36:30 GMT
He is the definition of an asshole.
Oh sweetie, I am so sorry he was a jerk. Hugs!
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Post by craftedbys on Oct 12, 2020 13:41:32 GMT
I am so sorry! You have been treated horribly and deserve so much better.
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Post by workingclassdog on Oct 12, 2020 13:45:12 GMT
Get tested asap and put him out of your mind now and forever.. No one is worth one single tear treating someone that way. (easier said than done). My sister was married for that long of a time to a sex addict.. nothing she did 'helped' him. He doesn't think he has a problem. It was all her fault. She didn't understand. Bullshit. She tried time and time again to make it work. It finally all came to and end and she is so much happier without him. They were 'soul mates'. So she said to everyone. Not true at all. No one even knew.
Get out and let it go. Be strong!!
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peasquared
Drama Llama
Posts: 5,474
Jul 6, 2014 23:59:59 GMT
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Post by peasquared on Oct 12, 2020 13:48:11 GMT
I'm so sorry! What a gut punch that must've been. We are always here for you!
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Post by shinyhappytina on Oct 12, 2020 13:57:28 GMT
I'm so sorry! Hugs to you. Definitely find a counselor you can talk to, it can really help.
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Anita
Drama Llama
Posts: 5,647
Location: Kansas City -ish
Jun 27, 2014 2:38:58 GMT
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Post by Anita on Oct 12, 2020 14:00:15 GMT
I'm really sorry.
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Post by malibou on Oct 12, 2020 14:13:24 GMT
I'm so sorry. What a bastard. I am sending you peace, balance and grace while you rid yourself of people no longer deserving of you. The path ahead may feel a bit rough right now, but I promise there is another path that is wonderful.
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Post by elaine on Oct 12, 2020 14:17:46 GMT
I’m so sorry. What an utter betrayal. (((Hugs)))
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Post by tc on Oct 12, 2020 14:18:11 GMT
I couldn't just read and not comment. I am so sorry. You must be devastated. Be gentle with yourself. Thinking of you.
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Post by destined2bmom on Oct 12, 2020 14:26:52 GMT
I am so sorry. What a jerk. Please be gentle with yourself, and take care of you and your children.
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quiltz
Drama Llama
Posts: 6,714
Location: CANADA
Jun 29, 2014 16:13:28 GMT
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Post by quiltz on Oct 12, 2020 14:27:22 GMT
I am so sorry for this gut-punch in your life.
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Post by tentoes on Oct 12, 2020 14:32:49 GMT
I am so sorry.
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PrettyInPeank
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 4,691
Jun 25, 2014 21:31:58 GMT
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Post by PrettyInPeank on Oct 12, 2020 14:37:13 GMT
I’m so incredibly sorry. He sounds like he has treated you terribly for a long time. You deserve better.
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Post by hmp on Oct 12, 2020 14:39:54 GMT
I am so very sorry. Please take care of yourself. Hugs to you & your children.
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leeny
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 4,645
Location: Northern California
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Jun 27, 2014 1:55:53 GMT
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Post by leeny on Oct 12, 2020 14:41:32 GMT
((hugs))
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Post by Alexxussss on Oct 12, 2020 14:44:31 GMT
I cannot understand how people can treat others this way. I am so sorry! We’re here for you. You deserve so much more and are worthy of someone who will treat you with love, respect, and is trustworthy.
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Post by gizzy on Oct 12, 2020 15:03:32 GMT
I'm so sorry he did this. I hope you can find peace.
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Post by Skellinton on Oct 12, 2020 15:04:33 GMT
I am so sorry.
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Post by leannec on Oct 12, 2020 15:07:36 GMT
I'm so sorry! Hugs to you
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Post by withapea on Oct 12, 2020 15:13:56 GMT
That’s such a betrayal. I’m sure you’re knocked off your axis and I’m really sorry you have to deal with the fall out. At least you know now and can work on a life you deserve.
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twinsmomfla99
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 3,992
Jun 26, 2014 13:42:47 GMT
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Post by twinsmomfla99 on Oct 12, 2020 15:16:31 GMT
I am so sorry!
Do whatever you need to do to protect yourself physically and legally!
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Deleted
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Jun 2, 2024 12:47:36 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Oct 12, 2020 15:25:00 GMT
What a jerk! 😡. Time to kick his sorry a$$ to the curb.
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Post by artsyk on Oct 12, 2020 15:27:56 GMT
I am so sorry! What an ass!
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