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Post by busy on Oct 12, 2020 15:32:45 GMT
I'm so sorry.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Oct 12, 2020 15:42:50 GMT
I’m so sorry. That had to be horrible learning that news. I can’t even imagine it. Hugs to you and your kids!
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Post by gmcwife1 on Oct 12, 2020 15:48:48 GMT
I’m sorry
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paget
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Post by paget on Oct 12, 2020 16:04:31 GMT
I’m so sorry. I’m sorry for the shock and the betrayal and that you lost the good parts of the relationship (your best friend). We are here for you. (((Hugs)))
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MaryMary
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Post by MaryMary on Oct 12, 2020 16:07:51 GMT
What an asshole. I’m so sorry.
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chendra
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Post by chendra on Oct 12, 2020 16:12:36 GMT
I'm so sorry.
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Post by fiddlesticks on Oct 12, 2020 16:24:57 GMT
Oh my gosh. Your post took my breath away. I am so sorry.
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Post by groovy on Oct 12, 2020 16:42:11 GMT
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Cheaters who call themselves “sex addicts” to remove the responsibility from themselves and blame their behavior on their “addiction”? Classic.
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Post by hop2 on Oct 12, 2020 16:44:56 GMT
I am so sorry
Hugs
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Post by Lexica on Oct 12, 2020 16:44:58 GMT
I'm sorry you are going through this. Please remember, this is about his failings, not yours. There is nothing you could have done or changed, he would have been like this regardless of what you could have tried to do, and with anyone else as his partner. He needs long-term counseling if he has any desire to change this aspect in his life. And it would probably help you to get some too to be reassured that this has nothing to do with you, it is all him.
I have been cheated on before and it seems we women immediately ask what is wrong with us. That is the wrong question. It is what is lacking in them. And you deserve so much better than this. So do your children. There are several women here who have been cheated on in our relationships. Please come here for reassurance when you need it.
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luckyexwife
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Jun 25, 2014 21:21:08 GMT
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Post by luckyexwife on Oct 12, 2020 16:50:49 GMT
I'm so sorry. Even though you were not married, please see a lawyer asap! You need to protect yourself.
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Post by flanz on Oct 12, 2020 16:54:14 GMT
I'm really sorry this has happened to you. (((hugs)))
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Post by slicksister on Oct 12, 2020 16:54:59 GMT
My heart breaks for you.
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Post by yodutchess on Oct 12, 2020 16:56:06 GMT
I am so sorry.
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scrappert
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Jul 11, 2014 21:20:09 GMT
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Post by scrappert on Oct 12, 2020 17:10:30 GMT
I am so sorry! What a shock. We are here for you to give you hugs and support.
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Post by walkerdill on Oct 12, 2020 18:05:02 GMT
Thank you everyone for your kind words. Today has been a whirlwind. We have bills intertwined & today I got most of that sorted out. He had bills at his house in my name & I got everything shut off. I got a new cell phone because mine was in his name. My family has been totally awesome. Tomorrow I'm heading to the walk in clinic to get tested.
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Post by anniefb on Oct 12, 2020 18:07:07 GMT
I'm so sorry.
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Post by papersilly on Oct 12, 2020 18:10:18 GMT
that is devastating. he clearly wasn't a true friend. be done with him.
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Post by mollycoddle on Oct 12, 2020 18:11:09 GMT
I’m so sorry.
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inkedup
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Post by inkedup on Oct 12, 2020 18:17:39 GMT
I'm sorry this is happening to you and your children.
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Post by mellyw on Oct 12, 2020 18:36:00 GMT
I’m so sorry.
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Post by bessieb on Oct 12, 2020 20:05:57 GMT
I am so sorry - what a dick. Glad you are sorting things out. We are all here for you.
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Post by compeateropeator on Oct 12, 2020 20:10:11 GMT
I am so very sorry.
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Post by lisacharlotte on Oct 12, 2020 20:15:29 GMT
It’s a vicious betrayal and heartbreaking to find out after all these years he’s not who you thought he was. Take your time, live you’re life and don’t take on his guilt. You are not responsible for his shitty lack of basic human decency.
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Post by questioning on Oct 12, 2020 20:18:47 GMT
I am sorry, but also impressed with you. You took action last year and are already on your way to progress today. It's hard, but keep up the energy.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 12, 2020 20:19:00 GMT
I’m so sorry.
I hope his dick falls off.
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Post by sean&marysmommy on Oct 12, 2020 20:20:08 GMT
Huge hugs. I'm so sorry. I wish you much healing as you start a new life without him!
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Post by summer on Oct 12, 2020 20:25:09 GMT
I am sorry you are going through this, it must be terribly difficult to learn of this betrayal. I'm glad you already have your own house. That is one less thing to worry about right now. You are strong, you will get through this and a better life is waiting for you. You can create whatever future life you want for yourself and your children.
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kate
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Post by kate on Oct 12, 2020 21:24:39 GMT
I'm so sorry. That's a long relationship to ruin with infidelity. Sounds like you've got your head on straight. Keep up the good work, and know we're here when you need to vent!
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gottapeanow
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Post by gottapeanow on Oct 12, 2020 22:32:57 GMT
I'm so very sorry. Please take care of yourself during this time. Lisa
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